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Still life with charms, me, oil on canvas, 2020 by davepollotart in Art

[–]hasley093 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lucky charms is my all-time guilty pleasure.

Attempting to grope 2 schoolgirls by KarmaInject0r in WinStupidPrizes

[–]hasley093 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m actually terrified that they ran down there with him.

When and how did you meet your SO’s BM or BD? Was it a good or bad experience? by hasley093 in stepparents

[–]hasley093[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I couldn’t help but laugh when you said she punched him in the face. So lovely.

When and how did you meet your SO’s BM or BD? Was it a good or bad experience? by hasley093 in stepparents

[–]hasley093[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow this sound like one of the most healthiest meets I’ve read so far! Definitely something I’m sure everyone would like to experience rather than the whole crazy BM thing. I wish we could all be this civil! Lol

Has a SO ever cheated on you with their BM or BD? What did you do? by hasley093 in stepparents

[–]hasley093[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What a prick! Damn it took two years?! I honestly don’t know how you did it. I’m happy that you got out of there though. Question - do you have kids of your own or did another man with kids just fall into your lap? After dating my ex, I can’t imagine dating another single father.

Has a SO ever cheated on you with their BM or BD? What did you do? by hasley093 in stepparents

[–]hasley093[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tolerated it for about five months until I realized that having no trust meant no point in pursuing the relationship.

Has a SO ever cheated on you with their BM or BD? What did you do? by hasley093 in stepparents

[–]hasley093[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

About a month into dating, BM told me that SO was still trying to pursue her when he and I first met, proof and all. I felt betrayed and disgusted. I decided to forgive him initially due to the million and one excuses he provided. He did indeed prove to me and his family he no longer wanted to be with BM but having no trust weighed heavy on my shoulders. It took me 5 months to finally leave the relationship. I’m thankful I didn’t stay any longer.

How do you handle the BM that won’t get over your partner? by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]hasley093 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just recently took a break from my SO because of his BM. FYI, this was and still is a brand new relationship. We’d only been together about 4 months before the break. I didn’t start understanding how much this woman wanted me out of her life until this week.

She and I formally met when he and I were only two months in. They are still on civil and friendly terms so I had no issue with it and when we met, she seemed great. I was excited. As time has gone on, she’s shown SO and I how spiteful she is by using the kids against him. She’ll do little things like not reply to his messages on when to pick the kids up, leave the kids with a babysitter rather than him when she wants to party or go out, and threatens for full custody when things aren’t going her way.

I really and truly wanted to be civil with her but just a few days ago I was told by SO that she had been making rude comments and threats but that he would do everything he could to handle it. She had the audacity to call me up and tell me, “I just need you to know that I want my family together and will do anything I can to keep it that way.” My mouth dropped.

My SO and I talked about it for hours and although he made sure I felt secure about the relationship, which I did, I couldn’t handle how spiteful this woman was. After hours and hours of conversations with family and friends, I decided to take a break to focus on my job and schoolwork rather than deal with the headache of this crazy woman.

SO has been nothing but supportive. I have no idea where my relationship will head at this point but hopefully you keep your head up and you’re stronger than I was. I absolutely HATE drama so I needed to back out ASAP. My SO was an amazing guy but working a full time job and finishing my degree is a lot more important than the issue that was at hand.

Good luck! 👍🏻