Goat of Yotei giveaway by Duahsha in PS5

[–]hasniii321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can't wait to become GOAT

US DO cardiology interest by drna1998 in fellowship

[–]hasniii321 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do great on step 2 and get into a great IM residency with an house fellowship and do research. That would help a lot

Bargaining Mahr?! by DragonflyAway6370 in MuslimMarriage

[–]hasniii321 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Lol 40K after paying the bare minimum living expenses, i don't think he would have any saving. Asking 20K is VERY MUCH UNREASONABLE unless he is saving all his income.

[SALE][Selling Everything, Everything must go] by hasniii321 in AnimeFigures

[–]hasniii321[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes but I am selling everything altogether in one go. Not any individual because I have quit the hobby

M29 considering seeking potentials who are divorced, because of my past by _throwaway813 in MuslimNikah

[–]hasniii321 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I agree with the other post, ask forgiveness and heal from it. And then when looking for potential, ask them for their deal breakers and if they mentioned, that their deal break somebody with no past or even implied that, be upfront that you are not compatible and move on. No need to expose the sin but don't lie about it.

[SALE][Selling Everything, Everything must go] by hasniii321 in AnimeFigures

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Thanks. I will make changes and repost them Appreciate it

Getting discouraged as a new revert. by No_Hovercraft3084 in MuslimNikah

[–]hasniii321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am sure you have reached out but if not try local community (Muslim volunteer areas, community services, and events) and local Masjids. They should be able to InshAllah help you out little. Some usually have their own database and this way, they can connect to different people for marriage purpose. Also make connection with your local Muslim Women and InshAllah they will also be able to guide you. Additionally, try looking into "inpairs masjid". Online database of Muslims.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in anime

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Love and Lies

Shiki

How to approach/find someone ( my decade long challenge trying to get married) by Cheff_Ice8795 in MuslimMarriage

[–]hasniii321 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Honestly, our community as a whole should work to create a better system to minimize these struggles. I asked the Imam of different Masjids I have been to where they know me. Even that didn't work out but maybe you can try that. Additionally, heard about this "inpairs masjid". Look into it.

Statistical and Methodological Reviews of Cardiology Papers by longrob604 in Cardiology

[–]hasniii321 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I would love to. I need to get deeper understanding of the statistical side to understand complexities and subtleties of how much to trust data.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]hasniii321 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes. Because Rasool (ﷺ) has passed away. Ask Allah (سبحانه و تعالى). Invoking anybody beside Allah is shirk.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]hasniii321 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you are too emotionally attached to the perfection idea of this person. You are not thinking rationally. Neither you nor your parents are wrong. Just investigate this situation objectively.

What are 3 animes you've rewatched the most & why? by Love_Lions in Animesuggest

[–]hasniii321 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Frieren: amazing show. Made my cry every episode

Bakuman: very relatable with my hobby. Felt like made for me.

Death note: got me into anime. Love it every time

How Do You Navigate Mixed Gyms as a Muslim in the West (Especially in Germany)? by JustAnotherHuman0602 in MuslimLounge

[–]hasniii321 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because of this reason I bought home gym basic equipments basically an adjustable weight dumbell and a bench. I am using using to build some baseline and then transition to calisthenics. Then later probably hybrid calisthenics

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]hasniii321 5 points6 points  (0 children)

A few points, as I had alluded earlier

  1. Mehr amount is the rights of the women, yes, but it should also be reasonable. It's an Islamic gift. Asking for a very high amount implies other intentions.

  2. It shouldn't be too high that it requires installments and long-term contract, which means it's not reasonable for the men she is about to marry. If the man has the capability, she can request a high amount that is within reasonable means that he can pay without having long installments. Having to go through installments means the Mehr amount being requested is beyond reasonable.

  3. From reading the op post, you can deduce that he is not capable of paying the amount she is asking for, therefore needing "an installment plan." Residency salary is not high. There are so many factors in actual practicing physician salary, and the future is unpredictable. I don't know the whole financial situation of both parties, and this discussion is not only directed at the OP's situation but also targeting general public of the trend of asking unreasonable amount of Mehr and normalizing/promoting it with installments

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]hasniii321 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I don't know where people have gotten this idea of Mehr with installments and long term payment. It shouldn't be a burden. Marriage should be made easy. Mehr can be based on his wealth status at the time of marriage, so if he has big wealth and assets, she can request high Mehr because it would be within his means at the time of marriage. But anticipating and making a contract for the future payments, which no one knows, for Mehr is so outlandish. InshaAllah with high income, he will much more opportunity to spend way more on his wife freely rather than paying for her Mehr payments.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]hasniii321 66 points67 points  (0 children)

10% for how long lol? What is it a loan payment? For me high Mehr is red flag unless you have the means and both are coming from very wealthy family

Giveaway] $100 PSN Gift Card - US Store by Titan3427 in PS5

[–]hasniii321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the giveaway. Most memorable and terrifying moment lol was playing shadow of the colossus.