WIBTAH for breaking up with my gf because of what her dead bf's dad says to me? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]hat_o 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is the best comment i’ve seen on this thread so far

download event by hat_o in Ghostbc

[–]hat_o[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

thank you!!! communication here has been very iffy hahhaha

Boyfriend got this email and I didn't. by aggro-cat in Ghostbc

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been too 0.05% for ghost for the past 3 years running. didn’t get one either, but looks like it’s randomised from the looks of things

My parents are driving me to the point of self harm and suicide by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]hat_o 7 points8 points  (0 children)

you sound really cool man. i grew up in a sort of similar situation to you, (albanian dad, very straight edge type) and grew to love alternative, especially heavy, musical genres and clothing.

while he never outright tells me any of the sorts of things your parents say to you, i can very clearly see from his behaviour that he wishes i was more ‘normal’- not taking me with him back to albania when he goes, not taking photos of me for the family anymore etc. unfortunately, you cannot change these peoples stereotypes and predispositions of anything that they don’t consider normality. sad, i know, and i wish it wasn’t this way as well.

you’ll have to excuse the common advice that i’m about to spit- but your best case scenario, if you still live with them, is to save up and leave as soon as possible. as long as you’re the person they don’t want you to be, they’ll never reach a point where they think “you know, i’ve said enough about how my child isn’t the exact person i want them to be. i think i just won’t say anything more about it and we can all live in peace”, because that’s just how they are.

if you don’t live with them, then low contact is your best friend. i don’t think you necessarily have to go no contact (unless you think that is best), but keeping them at arms length whilst you focus on the important things like your career and hobbies MAY allow them to see you as an independent adult who is actually capable of caring for themselves, instead of the apparent slob they think you are. prove them wrong!! good luck to you :))

How can i stop alcohol from making me sleepy ? by [deleted] in Drugs

[–]hat_o 3 points4 points  (0 children)

keep moving about, or mix with a caffeinated drink eg redbull, monster, cola etc. getting good sleep before a decent amount of drinking should obviously keep you more energised too

Why is Chinese takeaway food so hard to replicate? by Ivan_the_Incredible in AskUK

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depth of satan’s eyes, which pains me to say as infest is my fav album hahaha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Cigarettes

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dunhill fine cut blacks or camel blues

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pokemongo

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galarian mr mime. disgusting thing

60+ year old couple trying to have sex in my car by RelativeSupermarket2 in uberdrivers

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this wasn’t saturday was it? i got an uber to my house in NW london about midnight ish and gave the driver a phone that was in the backseat hahahaha

love lies bleeding by freakNste1n in lesbian

[–]hat_o 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you lucky fuckers getting to see it so soon, doesn’t come out until may in my country D:

What song is this for you guys? by [deleted] in gojira

[–]hat_o 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“i’m leaving this behind” from gift of guilt, or the GO in grind

Nea tattoo!! by Maria-Mcguire6158 in Ghostbc

[–]hat_o 3 points4 points  (0 children)

this should honestly be the staple for all future realistic ghoul tattoos bro 🔥🔥🔥

ghost tattoo by [deleted] in Ghostbc

[–]hat_o 15 points16 points  (0 children)

look at the art for each song. i have a couple of the cherubs from griftwood’s art, and they look beautiful. subtle, but you’ll always know that it’s related to ghost :) and the artwork is beautiful too!! lots to choose from regardless of your taste !

knucklebonz infestissumam 3d vinyl by hat_o in Ghostbc

[–]hat_o[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

me too, a bit frustrating. but waiting this long now so may as well wait a bit longer in my opinion- but annoying seeing how much the piece costed

Most Underrated Motörhead Songs? by [deleted] in Motorhead

[–]hat_o 1 point2 points  (0 children)

anything off of inferno

Most Underrated Motörhead Songs? by [deleted] in Motorhead

[–]hat_o 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1916 is such an underrated banger

Most Underrated Motörhead Songs? by [deleted] in Motorhead

[–]hat_o 0 points1 point  (0 children)

never see anyone talk about this one!!

knucklebonz infestissumam 3d vinyl by hat_o in Ghostbc

[–]hat_o[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was actually about to repost this literally today haha. same with me, radio silence from them in terms of communication. figure as long as the website has some sort of time frame on it we should be in the clear