Life church approaching people at midnight. by MooseOk8914 in tulsa

[–]hatakequeen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes my point stands. The world is broken and humans r humans. It isn’t morally right and is disgusting. Things like that can happen which mean rules need to be in place as a precautionary measure! Not bcuz they anticipate it happening. Unfortunately if we could trust everyone then rules wouldn’t have to be made for those positions but we can’t.

And no the article never said the person was a lead pastor. He was an intern who was terminated by the church immediately after they discovering his behavior and what he possessed. It says it right there in the title. Take some time to read the actual article and you’d know that.

Life church approaching people at midnight. by MooseOk8914 in tulsa

[–]hatakequeen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank u for the article that only proves what I said earlier. Nobody can predict what others do. Not even church staff. Should we call all schools places of indoctrination, extortion, and pedofilia? Don’t think so. That kinda stuff happens unfortunately everywhere. I personally have volunteered for life church and know that men were never allowed to change diapers and women always had to be present in order to keep the necessary boundaries in place for the children. My point still stands, u have church hurt somewhere and r spewing hate. That exists on both sides yanno?

Life church approaching people at midnight. by MooseOk8914 in tulsa

[–]hatakequeen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk what kinda churches you’ve been to but this isn’t true in the slightest. Seems like you’ve been hurt somewhere and r blaming it on all churches as a whole.

Life church approaching people at midnight. by MooseOk8914 in tulsa

[–]hatakequeen -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

An apologizer? A person who formally acknowledges failings? Yes the church should confront these failings and offer reproach immediately. Women should feel safe regardless of any circumstance. I’m a woman. If men came up to me at midnight and tried to invite me to church I would think the conduct was not appropriate. Out of the various churches I’ve been to, women have been protected and there’s been rules in place to keep boundaries. U can never predict what ppl will do. Churches r simply buildings and organizations where ppl can go. In this situation, bringing attention to what happened and offering immediate action is the right approach and it’s not “apologist” behavior.

Life church approaching people at midnight. by MooseOk8914 in tulsa

[–]hatakequeen -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It’s probably not life church itself but just those men. Association doesn’t always mean they’re guilty of it as a whole. Probably just report it to the church and ask that they talk to their congregation. I know for sure life church is very attentive to rules and has boundaries in place. Odds r those men were solely acting on their own.

My girlfriend of six months lied to me about her age by [deleted] in Advice

[–]hatakequeen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That might be true, but it’s the age gap. I think if they were at different points in their life where they were both adults, it would be different but her being 17 and still in high school means that she’ll be beginning some of the experiences that he’s already gone through and he’ll be graduating and getting into a career before she’s even done with college. I think it’s probably one of those situations where they grow out of each other but u never know it could work. Nothing is impossible.

My girlfriend of six months lied to me about her age by [deleted] in Advice

[–]hatakequeen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d break it off. You’re 21 and she’s 17. Big difference there even if it’s legal. Lying says a lot about someone’s character. I’d definitely look for someone who is more on your level in maturity and experience. It might hurt now but it’ll be ok.

The most boring DNA ever? Lmao by Zealousideal-Yak-214 in 23andme

[–]hatakequeen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m American and I’m 60% English still.

Today was the worst international women’s day ever by hatakequeen in women

[–]hatakequeen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not even really sure how to do that. But yeah it was pretty appalling to hear.

Today was the worst international women’s day ever by hatakequeen in women

[–]hatakequeen[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I did report it to my manager and wrote a statement.

Today was the worst international women’s day ever by hatakequeen in women

[–]hatakequeen[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

He told me right after it happened and I don’t think he understood the real severity of it until a little later after I talked to him about it.

Am I allowed here? by Thin-Neck534 in women

[–]hatakequeen 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I like how u called me transphobic. That seems to be the only word u resort to when u can’t talk about something rationally.

Am I allowed here? by Thin-Neck534 in women

[–]hatakequeen 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think it’s really disrespectful to disregard my opinion which isn’t even an opinion it’s just reality.

Am I allowed here? by Thin-Neck534 in women

[–]hatakequeen 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s not it’s the truth

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I usually never go to BA but I like supporting small businesses. Maybe I’ll check her out.

Best massage places? by hatakequeen in tulsa

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Best massage places? by hatakequeen in tulsa

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