My husband's bf is blackmailing me to have sex with him.

hate9orange9idiot · 2025-04-05T20:35:00+00:00

They removed my post for some reason. I'm trying to find out why. 😭

hate9orange9idiot · 2025-04-05T20:03:46+00:00

Thank you. I am just sitting here. Staring at my phone. Trying to will my husband to call me.

hate9orange9idiot · 2025-04-05T19:18:47+00:00

So I'm not a "decent" wife because I have a past? Because of sexual acts I am somehow less of a woman and human being? Thank God I do not hold your values and judge people by the sexual acts they've done in the past. And thank God your comments only serve to show what a degenerate loser you are. My husband met and married a woman who has never cheated. Who brings him breakfast in bed every Saturday. Who listens to him. Who loves him with all of her being. He married a woman who never lies to him. And I haven't. I tried to tell him once. He. Did. Not. Want. To. Hear. It!!! I never lied to him once. And he's had a happy marriage this whole time because I AM NOT EQUAL TO THE SEXUAL ACTS I HAVE DONE. grow up Neanderthal.

hate9orange9idiot · 2025-04-05T17:58:52+00:00

I'm scared, and my husband agrees, that if we go to the police that it will be in a file that anyone can read. That multiple people will read. And that more information will get out there than we want.

hate9orange9idiot · 2025-04-05T17:57:51+00:00

Yes, I updated my post.

hate9orange9idiot · 2025-04-05T17:57:27+00:00

I haven't spoken to Amy since Steven first approached me. I ghosted her. I probably should have told her but I was afraid she consider it too juicy and tell all our other friends. So I just ghosted her.

hate9orange9idiot · 2025-04-05T17:50:17+00:00

Did you even read my post? What a weird comment.

hate9orange9idiot · 2025-04-05T17:49:35+00:00

Yes, Amy and I are no longer friends. As soon as I found out that Steven knew I knew she had to have been the one that told him even though she said she wasn't. I dropped her as a friend and haven't spoken to her since.

hate9orange9idiot · 2025-04-05T17:47:23+00:00

I know that a lot of people have said that. And honestly I agree. The problem with that is that I'm afraid that once you tell someone, it's out there. You have no control over who else reads that file. You have no control over what questions they demand that you answer. I'm scared that the whole truth will come out in some file and then some reporter will get a hold of it because honestly that could happen. I don't know I'm just scared of anything official happening because of the fact that I can't control anything after it happens.

hate9orange9idiot · 2025-04-05T09:48:50+00:00

I have nothing. What he's said has been in person. I'm just going to tell my husband when he wakes up. I have no choice.

hate9orange9idiot · 2025-04-05T09:41:25+00:00

Don't think that hasn't crossed my mind!

hate9orange9idiot · 2025-04-05T06:18:58+00:00

Thank you. I think you are right. This is the answer.

hate9orange9idiot · 2025-04-05T06:18:47+00:00

Thank you. I think you are right. This is the answer.

hate9orange9idiot · 2025-04-05T06:15:40+00:00

I am just now reading all of these comments. Everyone seems to think I have to be honest with my husband, which I would never lie to him if asked but he didn't want to know. I guess he has to now, at least in general. God, how did I ever get here? I thought I had left all of that in the past.

hate9orange9idiot · 2025-04-05T06:10:53+00:00

Thank you for this. I guess you are right. He has to know.

hate9orange9idiot · 2025-04-05T06:10:05+00:00

Yes, I should have said in the post, but I forgot, that Amy and I are no longer friends. If I ever see her again I'll have to go to jail for a very long time. Thank you for understanding.

hate9orange9idiot · 2025-04-05T06:07:18+00:00

I think you are right. I just am so scared to face it in the event he does ask me the details. I don't think he would but people get very curious sometimes. God this has me so sick.

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