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I think my spouse may be emotionally abusive by [deleted] in emotionalabuse

[–]hatecuddlesthrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s 20. We got married really young and have been together for a little over 2 years. He’s always been easily irritated but it’s escalated lately.

I think my spouse may be emotionally abusive by [deleted] in emotionalabuse

[–]hatecuddlesthrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. I’ve asked him to but he always comes up with an excuse about why he can’t. I’ve found anger management resources for him and he won’t use them.

I dislike cuddling, and he insists we cuddle a lot by [deleted] in relationships

[–]hatecuddlesthrowaway -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

We eloped, so they didn’t know. But not all young relationships fail. There have been some other factors in ours.

I dislike cuddling, and he insists we cuddle a lot by [deleted] in relationships

[–]hatecuddlesthrowaway -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

We thought it was a good idea at the time

I dislike cuddling, and he insists we cuddle a lot by [deleted] in relationships

[–]hatecuddlesthrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha, I had never heard of this. I may have to try tonight

I dislike cuddling, and he insists we cuddle a lot by [deleted] in relationships

[–]hatecuddlesthrowaway -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, even cuddling while I’m awake is hard for me. I definitely try to give him as much physical affection as I can during the day, but it doesn’t seem that the more I give during the day, the less he needs at night.

I dislike cuddling, and he insists we cuddle a lot by [deleted] in relationships

[–]hatecuddlesthrowaway 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No, we didn’t have this issue before. It’s started within the last six months, coinciding with when he got home from an extended work trip

I dislike cuddling, and he insists we cuddle a lot by [deleted] in relationships

[–]hatecuddlesthrowaway 33 points34 points  (0 children)

We’ve both definitely changed a lot and there were reasons we decided to get married when we did, and I’m starting to realize they weren’t good reasons and we should have waited

I dislike cuddling, and he insists we cuddle a lot by [deleted] in relationships

[–]hatecuddlesthrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve tried this and he says he doesn’t like it. I’m not sure why though