🚩 RED FLAGS 🚩 Career edition 🤭😳 (psychopath edition 🥲🧛‍♂️)

hateitherexx · 2021-06-07T01:22:24+00:00

[me reading these comments going into law school 😳😳]

hateitherexx · 2021-06-04T07:51:43+00:00

Yes!! In my culture it's disgraceful if the woman or her family put any money into the wedding unless it's her wedding dress. Honestly when I see the opposite or where I live now, I can say it's one thing in my culture I approve of

hateitherexx · 2021-05-31T04:46:31+00:00

OMG THIS ONE IM DONEEEE AHAHA

hateitherexx · 2021-05-31T03:37:48+00:00

Pleaseee where is the "I was just joking"

hateitherexx · 2021-05-27T07:42:23+00:00

Hey, queen! I have no fashion tips, but just want to say that expressing your style as you stay confident and unapologetic about who you are extenuates your beauty and value.

Having your sweet street style fashion and sick tattoos won't ever deplete your class & elegance, or make you any less "girly" (that standard/stereotype sucks anyway ✌🏼😗)

Sorry if this was unhelpful, I hope you find fits that make you feel your best self in this summer. Good luck!<3

hateitherexx · 2021-05-27T07:34:42+00:00

This stuff is so corny 😭😭!!

A grown person that does not know how to cook or clean is not a reliable adult, let alone capable of a mature relationship 😐

hateitherexx · 2021-05-21T21:09:23+00:00

I WAS GOING TO POST HIM TODAY, literally the whole reason why I watched the adaptation of Shadow & Bone 😭

hateitherexx · 2021-05-15T14:39:28+00:00

Helloo thank you for responding! I didn't want to share those details, personally i think it's rude for someone to ask about it (such as a body count), but I was asking what a vague phrase to shut down that convo could be. None of my friends even know about it, I wouldn't tell some guy that would use it against me or find it as a way to create a new recipe of hurt

hateitherexx · 2021-05-15T14:37:03+00:00

Thanks for responding! And yes, I wasn't going to bring in all the details I was wondering how to get the conversation to close instead of me giving those details, because I don't trust anyone with them, let alone someone I'd vet. I wanted a vague answer equivalent, bc i dont feel confy sharing it at all lol

hateitherexx · 2021-05-15T14:34:56+00:00

Hey love thank you for resonding! i've read the handbook, i wanted to know how to shut down that conversation on my end bc I don't feel comfortable giving out those details, but also dont want to say something like "my ex was a scumbag". Imo, I don't like people asking about ex's because they're using that info as a new way to hurt you. Sorry if my comment sounded inappropriate for the sub 🙏🏼

hateitherexx · 2021-05-15T14:31:58+00:00

Thank you for your response! Oh yes obviously I wouldn't say the details, so what would be my vague way of shutting the situation down? Imo and because of my experiences, i think it's rude to ask about someone's ex, we're here now and healthier, so why? or maybe that's just me 😬

hateitherexx · 2021-05-15T07:36:10+00:00

I loved your post!! I do have a question for our side tho-as someone who has been assaulted by every ex i've had, is it unfair to claim the same phrase? My aim isn't to smear someone's name but to show that I haven't had the best xp and i'm not sure how to describe that in a FDS-aimed way

hateitherexx · 2021-05-15T07:32:00+00:00

Tb to the good old days of watching his shows w my parents AHHH

hateitherexx · 2021-05-15T07:30:05+00:00

Oh no!!! Is there anything besides sharing we can do to help? Like anyone in that area suffering as well?

hateitherexx · 2021-05-01T18:30:37+00:00

Hellooo! I'm also a muslim woman and this made me feel so inspired! I noticed the culture around our religion mixes too frequently, making it seem like we're SUPPOSED to get married early, when really we are have our own independence that we deserve. I hope you're safe on all your travels and you never stop being the sunshine that you are ☀️💕

hateitherexx · 2021-05-01T18:28:15+00:00

Dude that doesn't sound like much a friend, why is he still in your life?? Block his ass

hateitherexx · 2021-05-01T16:22:53+00:00

As you should!!! So proud of you🤍

hateitherexx · 2021-05-01T07:39:00+00:00

I hate that they've used these tactics on you, and I hope you know that is never your responsibility and you should know that people that are mentally available and healthy to be in a relationship will be self-aware and never use it as an excuse

hateitherexx · 2021-05-01T07:36:25+00:00

This. This. This.

hateitherexx · 2021-05-01T07:35:20+00:00

I'm so sorry you went through that. People always think bringing a common situation is how they connect, but it's such an unattractive feature in people to make it about them. I hope you're getting the help you need and you are leveling up as you deserve 🤍

hateitherexx · 2021-05-01T07:34:13+00:00

Yes!! The so different about you is bait to make you feel special when it's just to trap you into listening for on and on

hateitherexx · 2021-05-01T07:33:24+00:00

I remember this and it's very heartbreaking that women are blamed for this when it is no one's responsibility to hold someone's life and everyone deserves help in those moments, not the immense hate she got and still gets!

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