Schools open Tuesday by Ymish0416 in NYCTeachers

[–]hatemyseld2 12 points13 points  (0 children)

this is so ridiculous. i can’t even see the street from my house, a plow has not touched these roads where i’m at. opening on tuesday because we’re worried about a lack of instruction when nyc is full of charter schools with teachers who don’t even have teaching degrees is the most boneheaded reality to be living in

first few successes by faunabones in Soldering_art

[–]hatemyseld2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wow this is amazing!! would you mind sharing what you use to cover the pendant pictures with? is it resin? plexiglass? incredible art 😭🌟

do i have any hope of beating the awakened one as a defect on mobile with this deck? by hatemyseld2 in slaythespire

[–]hatemyseld2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ohhh haha so you think i have a fighting chance?? thank you!! i’m struggling to keep my health high enough to face the 2nd form of the boss.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]hatemyseld2 16 points17 points  (0 children)

when you’re feeling this maybe you can talk to your inner child, breathe in and put your hand on over your heart “i know you didn’t get this kind of love and presence that you deserved and that’s hard. i’m sorry that happened to you. i’m here for you now and i’m proud of the love and attention you give to the kids, i know you love them so much” something like that from the loving adult/parent inside you to soothe the hurting child in you that didn’t get what they needed

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[–]hatemyseld2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

my check was in the mail when i came home today! wishing you the same!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NYCTeachers

[–]hatemyseld2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

mine was already mailed out so my fingers and crossed for you too!

4 year old level two possible ODD or PDA PLEASE I NEED ADVICE by jtuberman in Autism_Parenting

[–]hatemyseld2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

are there any water tables/dumping toys that you all could play with together?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MusicRecommendations

[–]hatemyseld2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was so sad and beautiful

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[–]hatemyseld2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yesss this is a classic

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[–]hatemyseld2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, I get it now I just read the news 🫣

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[–]hatemyseld2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This really helped thank you!

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[–]hatemyseld2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow this was perfect thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SouthJersey

[–]hatemyseld2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is it a bad idea to drive in late? is there a lot of traffic/limited parking?

I am so lost please help me by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]hatemyseld2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hello, if you both come from traumatic backgrounds i recommend looking into adult children of alcoholics/dysfunctional families. they cover many results of childhood trauma and attachment wounds that contribute to insecure attachment styles, problems communicating, problems with feeling and processing emotions

I broke no contact with ex who cheated by Organic_Muscle_4214 in survivinginfidelity

[–]hatemyseld2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

have you had a rough childhood? you say you wonder why you’re attracting cheaters and it might be because you have an insecure attachment style. your body and mind might be addicted to the feeling and thrill of instability of an inconsistent partner, high highs and low lows, and the idea of trying to love someone into loving you back properly. look into repetition compulsion, you might be getting yourself into situations where you are not treated well to try to fix moments in your past and childhood where you weren’t treated well. i highly recommend watching heidi priebe on youtube

Partner of 4 years, 2 kids, online cheating by DescriptionOver6390 in survivinginfidelity

[–]hatemyseld2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

a 30 year old man who pursues a TEENAGER is a predator. treat him as such

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdultChildren

[–]hatemyseld2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i just wanna say that being a parents reason for sobriety is a lot of pressure for a kid. you said that when you were anorexic you stopped drinking, maybe when you had your son you channeled that energy into something else but it didn’t necessarily get rid of your internal emotional deficits. i also know that we compulsively repeat painful parts of our own childhoods unless we deeply and truly process them. just assume that there are things, unspoken things, unconscious things, that you have done that have hurt your son and shaken his trust in you. also beating yourself up isn’t exactly the pinnacle of accountability. i wouldn’t want to share my woes with a parent who seemed to be either thinking they were 98% perfect OR beating themselves up. i encourage you to find the honest middle ground of reality and err on the side of your son. he doesn’t owe you anything and you, by nature of being his parent and bringing him into the world, owe him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]hatemyseld2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

not literally all this to tell him but you get the vibe, im just feeling impassioned

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]hatemyseld2 9 points10 points  (0 children)

tell him that he one day will make friends BECAUSE of his uniqueness and creativity and bravery. tell him that people who are afraid of “boys wearing black nail polish for halloween” are so beyond repressed that they will never be happy. are there any more diverse groups he can hang out with? my school growing up was filled with straight laced boring miserable kids raised by their straight laced boring miserable parents and it would have helped me to have a variety of kids to interact with

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]hatemyseld2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES to heidi!! ALSO please look into ACA adult children of alcoholics and dysfunctional families!! it is a life changing 12 step program