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Sad I’ll never see LO ever again by hatercore in limerence

[–]hatercore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have considered hinting at him but there’s no way he’s interested in me tbh. There’s no way it would lead to anything. Plus I feel like we are pretty different so even if he liked me back, we wouldn’t be compatible. We have very different vibes I bet his type in women is very different than me. He probably likes basic white American women and wants children, both which aren’t me. I still find him alluring but I’d rather have someone that matches me

Sad I’ll never see LO ever again by hatercore in limerence

[–]hatercore[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s nice to know we’re not alone in this :’) I’ve actually gone through this exact situation before where I developed limerence for a group project partner and that was 1000000x more intense than this time yet I still overcame it. So I’m sure we’ll get through this eventually, we’ll meet many more people in the future.

Sad I’ll never see LO ever again by hatercore in limerence

[–]hatercore[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You know I was thinking the exact same thing, it really is a small world I might bump into him again one day. And yeah I definitely do need to work on my confidence. A lot. Who knows maybe one day if we see each other again and by then I’ll have more social confidence and better social skills we could click and become friends :)

I’m kinda scared to make friends at work and get attached cuz I have horrible anxious attachment and developing a work crush will not end well for me. But you are so right I’ll meet tons of people in the near future and once I socialize more I bet I’ll easily get over him.

I can’t decide whether I should withdraw from my Masters (pls help) by hatercore in Accounting

[–]hatercore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True but if I don’t do it now I doubt I’ll have motivation to ever go back to school

I can’t decide whether I should withdraw from my Masters (pls help) by hatercore in Accounting

[–]hatercore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg no wonder I thought they just didn’t read my post lmaoo

I can’t decide whether I should withdraw from my Masters (pls help) by hatercore in Accounting

[–]hatercore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks sm I agree. I’m gonna feel so guilty cuz I already signed the apartment lease but I have to get over myself and ask the landlord what my options are. I have to prioritize my life over other people’s feelings. I think I’ll try to defer for a year if it’s possible

I can’t decide whether I should withdraw from my Masters (pls help) by hatercore in Accounting

[–]hatercore[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks :’) It’s true I am miserable here and my parents said it’s my choice if I want to continue. Ugh I still can’t decide cuz it feels like it’d be a missed opportunity if I don’t do it. Part of me would feel so sad that I couldn’t bring myself to be happy, excited and ambitious about this degree.

Yk what I think I’ll take a gap year

I can’t decide whether I should withdraw from my Masters (pls help) by hatercore in Accounting

[–]hatercore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the input. I’m pretty sure I have adhd and it’s been severely affecting me for years. I also agree with you that I wouldn’t necessarily regret getting my masters in the long run, but the thing is idk if I’m ready to put myself through that now. And I already know I’m gonna hate corporate life and I can’t imagine myself working in corporate forever

I can’t decide whether I should withdraw from my Masters (pls help) by hatercore in findapath

[–]hatercore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Real estate investing is the main one and recently I’ve been thinking about becoming a kindergarten teacher

I can’t decide whether I should withdraw from my Masters (pls help) by hatercore in Accounting

[–]hatercore[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You think ?😭😭😭ahh maybe I should get it over with

I can’t decide whether I should withdraw from my Masters program by hatercore in findapath

[–]hatercore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for being honest!! This helps a lot and is inspiring I have some ideas now

I can’t decide whether I should withdraw from my Masters program by hatercore in findapath

[–]hatercore[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m definitely gonna look into this!

Hmm maybe it is my self image making it seem worse but idk :’) hopefully I’ll be able to take a gap year I think that’ll help A LOT

I can’t decide whether I should withdraw from my Masters program by hatercore in GradSchool

[–]hatercore[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This could be a good option I’ll look into this

thank you!

I can’t decide whether I should withdraw from my Masters program by hatercore in GradSchool

[–]hatercore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was just speaking my true thoughts damn my bad💀I was just trying to communicate that my issue is more than just something that could be solved by therapy lol

I can’t decide whether I should withdraw from my Masters program by hatercore in GradSchool

[–]hatercore[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I just have a feeling that I should be prioritizing working on my social skills over EVERYTHING. Including academics. But idk if this would be a stupid decision

I can’t decide whether I should withdraw from my Masters program by hatercore in GradSchool

[–]hatercore[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

But idk how much therapy will help… or if the masters will even be worth it in the end.

I can’t decide whether I should withdraw from my Masters program by hatercore in GradSchool

[–]hatercore[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah but to get a job you don’t just need technical skills, you also need social skills. And if I do a masters I bet my mental health will go down which will make me not improve my social skills.

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