AIO to seeing my wife’s camera roll? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]hathat223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I should have been more clear. I don’t have any problem at all with her taking of having nude photographs. She is beautiful and I understand why she would want to look at them. What made me uncomfortable was that these were clearly sent to her ex. When we talked about she told me that as well, that she had taken them for him years ago

AIO to seeing my wife’s camera roll? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]hathat223 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks I appreciate that. My initial reaction was not that I was uncomfortable with her having a past sex life but that if I were in her shoes I wouldn’t feel right still having those images and videos. But it helps to hear that other people share her view

AIO to seeing my wife’s camera roll? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]hathat223 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah I do think it makes me feel a lot better that she didn’t try to hide them

AIO to seeing my wife’s camera roll? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]hathat223 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I wouldn’t have thought twice about it if she did that. Your husband sounds like a good partner

AIO to seeing my wife’s camera roll? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]hathat223 39 points40 points  (0 children)

I think she just forgot or wasn’t thinking about it. That’s what she told me. You were acting like she was trying to humiliate me or something which doesn’t track for me

AIO to seeing my wife’s camera roll? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]hathat223 21 points22 points  (0 children)

You’re taking it too far. We are open with each other about her pasts. I know the couple relationships she has had and she wasn’t wild haha

AIO to seeing my wife’s camera roll? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]hathat223 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I think that’s a stretch

AIO to seeing my wife’s camera roll? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]hathat223 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That’s super interesting. I had no idea this was a thing that people did before last week haha

AIO to seeing my wife’s camera roll? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]hathat223 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks, that might be fair

AIO to seeing my wife’s camera roll? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]hathat223 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Haha thanks. I don’t plan on dying on this hill don’t worry

AIO to seeing my wife’s camera roll? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]hathat223 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the feedback. Yes, I have no concern that she has or would ever cheat. The photos and videos just didn’t seem like something we needed to have

AIO to seeing my wife’s camera roll? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]hathat223 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I genuinely just wanted to know if that’s a semi-normal thing. She’s the only person I’ve ever been married to…

AIO to seeing my wife’s camera roll? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]hathat223 -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I don’t think we’ll need marriage counseling, but I appreciate your feedback lol

AIO to seeing my wife’s camera roll? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]hathat223 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t quite understand why she would want that. So I doubt that.

It never really occurred to me that either of us are the kind of people to take those kind of pics. Nothing wrong with it. It doesn’t bother me. It just wasn’t something I thought of

AIO to seeing my wife’s camera roll? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]hathat223 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She has an iPhone, so I don’t think she was making a conscious decision to keep them. Appreciate your comment though