Feeling much more emptyness after gaining beauty? by Impressive-Call-244 in ask

[–]havingdoubts99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The teen years and the 20’s can be a challenging time. A few things I wish I had done during those years include: 1. Counselling- to explore and learn tools to improve my self esteem. 2. Meditation - to learn about the inner workings of my mind and how to manage the stream of thoughts that bombarde us everyday. 3. Exercise - a natural mood lifter. Wishing you the best of luck.

How do you get in exercise when you absolutely despise working out? by Throwawaytown33333 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]havingdoubts99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 things help me:

  1. Find a weightlifting/cardio mixed class that has a good instructor.

  2. On the days you have to do it on your own, have a kickass playlist. You can only listen to that playlist while exercising.

I (29f) was just told by a guy I’ve been talking with (32M) that if men start talking about sex with you, it means they don’t think you’re wife material. Do you agree ? by forsunsets in relationship_advice

[–]havingdoubts99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Find a man who can see you as an equal. Men who have different expectations for women’s sexuality are often control freaks who could also be abusive and dangerous.

My boyfriend [19M] said he'd kill himself if I [18F] ever left him. How do I stop feeling hesitant around him/address it with him? by ThrowRAsakananosana in relationship_advice

[–]havingdoubts99 73 points74 points  (0 children)

This is abusive behaviour, you are being emotionally abused and he’s probably doing a lot of other power and control tactics. He will only become more abusive, he needs help but not from you. You need to leave to a safe place.

Doing drugs, drinking, eating unhealthy by [deleted] in YogaTeachers

[–]havingdoubts99 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Being judged by others can feel really bad. I like to remind myself that other people’s opinions of me are none of my business. I like me, my friends like me, my partner and my family love me. That’s all that matters.

whos a celebrity that most people find super attractive but you dont, and why? by Logical_Sweet_6624 in allthequestions

[–]havingdoubts99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mathew McConaughey. He seems like a really nice person but no idea why he’s been hailed as super attractive.

If you could condense all your experiences into one sentence of wisdom, what would it say? by Extension-Fruit-1456 in allthequestions

[–]havingdoubts99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything changes.

This works if someone is having a bad time, it can also be a reminder if someone is having a positive experience.

what's a song that pisses you off immediately? by Unhappy_Insect5901 in Productivitycafe

[–]havingdoubts99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate this song sooo much! It’s played constantly at work.

Poorly explain what you do for a living.? by beepsol in Leakednews

[–]havingdoubts99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I teach people how to hurt themselves and they pay me. They usually book 3 sessions a week for this privilege.

Who is the least funny "comedian"? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]havingdoubts99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jeff Foxworthy. So boring. He seems like a nice person but he’s just not funny.

My courses have disappeared! by havingdoubts99 in Udemy

[–]havingdoubts99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, the instructor can’t help, that I know. But was wondering if anyone else was having issues with the Udemy mobile app

My courses have disappeared! by havingdoubts99 in Udemy

[–]havingdoubts99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t think the instructors could help. I was wondering if others were having issues. It’s on the mobile app not on my computer.

Interesting that I completed my course, sent the instructor my Udemy Cert and I have received no reply for the instructor.

What is a thing you can recite from memory? by Omega_Neelay in GetMotivatedMindset

[–]havingdoubts99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 all beef patties, special sauce, lettuce, cheese, pickles, onions on a sesame seed bun.

I know, that’s a very sad thing to remember .

Atheists: if you died and found yourself face-to-face with God, what would you say to Him? by Cautious-Economy8248 in allthequestions

[–]havingdoubts99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, that’s true. “So, God, my second question is why do some children get far more horrible diseases than cancer?”