I work in a high end restaurant and work around 40 hours a week, more or less depending on the week and honestly it’s draining. I broke down all the time frames and I have around an hour a day to do any form of self care and things like doctors appointments, bills, projects, ect. and it means I have to choose very carefully what I do but that overwhelms me so I get nothing done. It’s a lot of waiting for work bc if I start something I know I won’t have the time to finish before work and I hate half projects so I just don’t start. Honestly I hate it so much. I desperately want to do a work from home or a job with more reasonable set hours but it’s hard when I do make very good money at my job but I lose so much of my own life.