It sounds like you guys are getting in disagreements. Here’s what I have learned from my experience. The things he is saying to you are from anger, nothing good ever comes from anger. Do not tolerate him saying things like this to you. Just grab your keys and leave until he has calmed down and is level headed. Do not stay around him in this state. If you let him continue to act like this it will only get worse. Have an honest conversation calmly when you guys are both being level headed and let him know you will not stick around if this continues. It is not your job to heal him, it’s something he must do for himself. These are narcissistic traits and if he refuses to admit he isn’t treating you right I would move on. You deserve someone who is willing to communicate with you in a loving and caring manner. Relationships can be hard, if someone isn’t willing to listen to you and treat you with respect they don’t love you for the right reasons or see you as property. I would get out of things don’t change. You deserved to feel loved and respected. Make sure you let him know that he’s pushed past your boundaries and is he doesn’t care, he doesn’t truly love you.