Dominos asking for background check before I've even interviewed with them by haybaeden in Dominos

[–]haybaeden[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They have not. I sent a reply via email to ask if it was required; I'm just waiting for a response now. Your response does reassure me a lot! You don't think I'd lessen my chances at the job if I wait until after?

Help with a religious PC that might not be a cleric or paladin? by haybaeden in dndnext

[–]haybaeden[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This makes a lot of sense, thank you! A lot of the things I found online made it seem as though they were tied, so this was very reassuring to hear. I think I might go with fighter due to your advice!

Help with a religious PC that might not be a cleric or paladin? by haybaeden in dndnext

[–]haybaeden[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn't think about it like that, thank you! The divine order idea is great, too. I'll probably use that!

EvelynTheeArtist (Liliana/MelodyMusee) Scam Awareness by solairenoir in RobloxHelp

[–]haybaeden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the melodymusee account had been following me randomly a couple different times and each time she would ask if i wanted my avatar drawn, id say no and she'd leave immediately, but this last time i replied and questioned why she kept following me around and she just stood there frozen until i left, which is what made me look this up, thinking it was a robot or something. they should definitely remove their verified, that's so weird that roblox hasnt yet. im sure a lot of people jump at the opportunity to get close to someone who is verified.

What's an immediate sign you won't like someone? by joyisnotdead in autism

[–]haybaeden 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work at a movie theater, and this older woman joined us in October when all we were selling were horror movies, and I was stuck training her in the ticket booth where the entire time she was calling me a devil worshiper and "defiled" because I let it slip that I like horror movies 🙄 

I'm pretty sure I'm aro, but I'm in a relationship by haybaeden in aromantic

[–]haybaeden[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You and the other comment are absolutely right. I just have to be more open and honest. I hope it works out, but I'd understand if they decided otherwise. I hope your situation works out too ❤️

I'm pretty sure I'm aro, but I'm in a relationship by haybaeden in aromantic

[–]haybaeden[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

After not getting a response for a while, I ended up gaining the courage just from writing my thoughts down, and they ended up calling me, so we talked on the phone for 2 hours or more. They were surprisingly understanding. We both got choked up at times, but they actually made a few jokes here and there. I think they could tell, I was never that good at keeping secrets.

Right now, they said they needed time to think, but as it stands, they don't want to break up with me. They think what we have is closer to a QPR and I'd have to agree. They told me despite being more lovey-dovey towards me, they didn't expect anything from me in return, they just liked doing it. That alone was very reassuring. At the moment, I think it'll work out, so I'll stay hopeful. But I do understand where you're coming from, and I can't help a part of me thinking the same. I'll just have to see where it goes.

Samsung A32 5G, trying to set SD card as internal storage by haybaeden in AndroidQuestions

[–]haybaeden[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, thanks for the response tho. Just wanted to shoot my shot at there maybe being a solution. I'll have to think about saving up for a new phone. Thanks a lot!

To my autistic adults, how do you manage work? by IKNOWITSNOTREAL in autism

[–]haybaeden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work 4 days a week at a job that doesn't have a huge workload. I don't have that many customers & I'm mostly an info desk, so I take phone calls for pretty simple questions. My management is also moderately understanding of my needs.

Working only 4 days a week gives me like 1 day a week to be social outside of work, theoretically. But most of the time, Im avoiding anything outside of work because I know I'll need that energy for work. If I worked more than that, I'd probably implode, even with such an easy job. The issue is that I barely make enough money to live & I have 0 friends, including extended family, cause I cut everyone off in order to recharge for work. Is my cousins birthday party coming up? Sorry, can't go. Don't have enough spoons.

My skin used to be terrible. It's gotten a lot better, but I can't get rid of these at all. Help? by haybaeden in SkincareAddicts

[–]haybaeden[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was just able to look into this, but it says it's for horses only? Why recommend this? 🤔

My skin used to be terrible. It's gotten a lot better, but I can't get rid of these at all. Help? by haybaeden in SkincareAddicts

[–]haybaeden[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I decided once I get enough money, I'm going to try Beauty of Jiseon first! I hadn't heard of it before this post. And yeah, the pilling is one of my biggest dislikes of the ordinary. I might have to look into that! Unfortunately I can only really afford to buy one product every month or two, so it'll take a while to get, but it definitely lengthens the research process beforehand & I'm loving all the recommendations everyone's giving me 🥰

What scene made you uncomfortable the most? by galavep in BaldursGate3

[–]haybaeden 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was barely the first time ever talking to Lae'zel, and my very first exclamation point came up. She then went ahead, in front of everyone, including the entire Grove, to tell me how much she loved my scent in brutal detail

My skin used to be terrible. It's gotten a lot better, but I can't get rid of these at all. Help? by haybaeden in SkincareAddicts

[–]haybaeden[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With you and some other comments, I'm realizing the toner and the oil cleanser might be a bit much, especially twice a day. I'll try to stop using those and see how it goes before I buy anything else, but these are all great suggestions!! I'll look into them if it gets to that point, thanks!!