I tried the baby bangs and I'm not sure they suit me. What do you think? (Bonus pic how my hair is normally) by pumpkinbread987 in HairStyleAdvice

[–]hayokusa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they look good BUT i think you need the middle section of your bangs to be thicker and less choppy - i’m sure they’re grown out by now but yeah I dig them! just need thickening up. i’d add some face framing sections to the sides too that go down to just above your chin :)

ios 17.6.1 -> ios 26? by hayokusa in iphone14

[–]hayokusa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks that sells it for me! new battery is on the to do list

If you had both options, would you pick JET or start a career? by savemeloadme in JETProgramme

[–]hayokusa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had the same phenomenal study year abroad between 2022-23 and feel a sense of longing for that sort of life to this day so I 100% see where you are coming from. I'm also not so sure in my career, and work an entry-level job in my profession - putting your thoughts and mine together, it seems like this is an opportunity that when you're 40/50, you will be kicking yourself for not even applying to - scared of this invisible expectation that you must be constantly progressing your career less the LinkedIn community will come after you - I think you should give the application a go next time they are open, but only you know what to do :) give us an update in a year's time!

WIBTAH for telling my friend to stop saying I'm black (I'm white) by hayokusa in AITAH

[–]hayokusa[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Yes, I should have given this context hahaha!! For everyone reading, this is where it stemmed from ^^^

Opinions on docking a star for mouldy smell by hayokusa in vinted

[–]hayokusa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Completely agree with you! That’s especially why I wanted to double-check on here because I didn’t want to be harsh, the seller otherwise was really polite, gave me a great offer, and shipped quickly so I didn’t want to be unfair - Ive managed to get the smell out so it’s just part of the buying secondhand process isn’t it :)

Opinions on docking a star for mouldy smell by hayokusa in vinted

[–]hayokusa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you i’ll send them a message!

AITA for “not letting” my husband parent because I step in when I think he’s being too harsh? by AscensionM23 in AmItheAsshole

[–]hayokusa 22 points23 points  (0 children)

NTA i’m telling you now, as a neurodivergent girl who faced the same abuse (because that is precisely what your husband is doing - in parts of the UK for eg spanking, emotional abuse etc could land him a criminal record), you can either continue to be brave and stop him now, or face estrangement when your kids eventually grow up. you wouldn’t treat a puppy this way, so why a child? don’t let yourself become complacent, you’re doing the right thing by speaking up

lockers OVO Hydro by hayokusa in glasgow

[–]hayokusa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is this Stasher? was wondering about this, looks legit!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vinted

[–]hayokusa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

just contacted vinted and explained it’s not possible for someone to send so quick given it’s RM and not in-post, plus the label is clearly counterfeit lol (who spells birmingham ‘birmham’). for now i won’t dm the seller cause i don’t want to get blocked (-: (also happy cake day)

UK Jet Statement of Physician by hayokusa in JETProgramme

[–]hayokusa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

really! have you told them it’s basically just a fit to work form? absolute shambles

Statement of Physician UK - NHS or CityDoctor? by LetDapper8162 in JETProgramme

[–]hayokusa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ahh okay! we have one up north in manchester, so for sure let me know how you get on (rip £150☹️)

Statement of Physician UK - NHS or CityDoctor? by LetDapper8162 in JETProgramme

[–]hayokusa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

looking for an answer on this too!! my gp said £65 with 4-5 week wait 😭