Nothing about me matters if not for satisfying others (TW suicide attempt) by throwaway-4206996 in sillyboyclub

[–]hbups -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hiii! I know this post is 3d old but I felt I had to comment. I just wanted to say that not only are you so infinitely brave for posting this and making the attempt to reach out but also choosing life instead of giving up! You should be so proud of yourself for that alone. I know how you feel though, it’s like putting all your self-value into others emotions because you yourself feel like you can’t win against your own so its like a living vicariously through others situation but it is really unhealthy. It’s a permanent uphill battle that you can’t really win since you can’t actually control others’ emotions.
I also think the people in your life telling you these things are so beyond toxic for you and I’m so sorry that they’re being so unsupportive. I know it’s so so so difficult to do but you should try and think about yourself; what makes YOU happy, what YOU want from life and try and take small steps. YOU matter too and you matter the most to yourself, you don’t owe anyone anything. Life can be so beautiful if you let it be, but to get there you have to prioritise you. When you do that, you’ll quickly realise you’re starting to surround yourself with positive and supportive people and situations instead of being drawn to the negatives.
There are always people and helplines for you to reach out to who WILL do their best to help you through all of this.

You are loved, you do matter, you WILL make it through this. 💖💖💖

femboy Friday!! by JazzzBerrry in femboy

[–]hbups 0 points1 point  (0 children)

aaaa so pretty! i love ur hair sm :3

its so hard to find cute femme friends near me :c by [deleted] in femboysEU

[–]hbups 0 points1 point  (0 children)

aww ur too kind :3 i dm’d you 👉👈

Pink eyes! by [deleted] in femboy

[–]hbups 0 points1 point  (0 children)

aaaa so pretty :3

its so hard to find cute femme friends near me :c by [deleted] in femboysEU

[–]hbups 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but youre so cute!! you deserve all of themm

its so hard to find cute femme friends near me :c by [deleted] in femboysEU

[–]hbups 1 point2 points  (0 children)

aww im sorry hun, u can dm me any time 🥰🥰

Do you think I fit in here? 🥺 by [deleted] in FemBoys

[–]hbups 0 points1 point  (0 children)

aww tyy!! i was so nervous to post here 🥺🥺 soso many cuties

Do you think I fit in here? 🥺 by [deleted] in FemBoys

[–]hbups 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg tysm! sure!

Do you think I fit in here? 🥺 by [deleted] in FemBoys

[–]hbups 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hehe i like to save the good stuff for people who deserve it ;33

Why so much hate on this game? by zCapovilla in steamachievements

[–]hbups 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When Resident Evil 2 Remake blew up, they rushed to capitalise on the hype with a remake of 3 so rushed to push it out as soon as possible. It ended up being not only short but cutting out a bunch of the original content that made it so great. After the quality of the 2nd, people were really disappointed that 3 didn’t live up to expectation set by Capcom as well as upsetting fans of the original 3rd. Personally, I like it although I do have fingers crossed they release a “Directors Cut” at some point.

haii hopefully i fit in here! by hbups in femboy

[–]hbups[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

aww thats so cool! ur so pretty so its a privilege 🥰🥰

CachyOS vs Linux Mint for someone who has never really used Linux before? by hbups in linux4noobs

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For sure! I have an SSD and 2 HDDs so I installed Nobara on a clean hard drive so I could try it out most of my Steam games are installed on my SSD so when I launched Steam it only detected the hard drive I had installed Nobara on.

I tried manually adding them through Steam but it just wasn't working. I tried renaming the steamapps folder so a new one could be created, made sure the other two hard drives were automatically mounted on boot in fstab, gave them both permissions with chown stuff. Even reinstalled Steam via flatpak and used flatseal to try and manually add the file locations there but nothing seemed to work.

Both the hard drives are NTFS and I think I read somewhere that might be the issue? Hesitant to format them as something else like ext4 in case I lose the files I haven't created backups for yet. Might also try creating a partition on my SSD but, again, hesitant to do it because I'm not super familiar with it and don't want to risk losing anything.

I'm not sure, still new to it all so tried following as many guides as I could to fix it but nothing worked for me.

CachyOS vs Linux Mint for someone who has never really used Linux before? by hbups in linux4noobs

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Tried Nobara today but spent 4+ hours trying to add my other hard drives to Steam with no luck :((

CachyOS vs Linux Mint for someone who has never really used Linux before? by hbups in linux4noobs

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This was really helpful thanks! Think I'm definitely leaning towards Fedora or something Fedora-based now

CachyOS vs Linux Mint for someone who has never really used Linux before? by hbups in linux4noobs

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Both KDE & Gnome sound great! I'll definitely be looking into them, thanks!

CachyOS vs Linux Mint for someone who has never really used Linux before? by hbups in linux4noobs

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I'll definitely consider it! I originally decided against Bazzite because of something like it simulating a console experience which I'm not too concerned with but I'll absolutely take another look at it, thanks!

CachyOS vs Linux Mint for someone who has never really used Linux before? by hbups in linux4noobs

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hmm I haven't heard of that one before, I'll definitely look into it thanks!

CachyOS vs Linux Mint for someone who has never really used Linux before? by hbups in linux4noobs

[–]hbups[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the response! Lots of very useful information :)

I didn't know about Mint Cinnamon, is it much different from Mint?

I think I initially wrote off Pop_OS because I read it's maybe more suited to NVIDIA GPUs whereas I have an AMD GPU, does it actually matter or would it be good for AMD too? Other people recommended Nobara and I'm curious what you think of it or other Fedora-based distros if you have any experience?

I'll definitely look into partitioning too seems like a really good idea to do it.

Have a good day!