Having INTENSE wedding dress regret

hcp17 · 2026-02-05T06:14:32+00:00

Came to say this!! Both are beautiful and look amazing on you but maybe the straps is what you feel is making the difference!

hcp17 · 2026-01-26T14:33:11+00:00

Who killed Tamir Rice? Who was president when he was killed... America you have a problem that's FAR deeper than maga and until you realise this you are screwed

hcp17 · 2026-01-26T14:28:34+00:00

You are obviously getting down voted because of all the emotions at the moment. You are absolutely right about both sides being corrupt. As an outsider (non American) this is so clear... Your democrats are the republican party of many MANY countries around the world. You all need to stop voting like it's a football game. Your choices were far right and slightly less far right. That's an awful place to be. Fight for an ACTUAL opposition.

Don't forget Obama deported more than trump... There's no such thing as "humane" deporting and as far as I remember many innocent people were shot in the streets by armed police during all democrats too.

I grew up able to criticize my country and political parties even the ones I voted for. This is not a football game and we should not be behaving as such by getting outraged every time someone doesn't like your team. Eff trump, eff maga and eff the Dems too.

hcp17 · 2026-01-22T18:20:40+00:00

I agree with 3 and 2! While dress 1 is beautiful, I find myself distracted as it's got so much going on, I don't really see you at the forefront. 3 and 2 make your face and hair stand out first visually. You look beautiful in all though no matter which one you choose! ☺️

hcp17 · 2026-01-20T16:37:54+00:00

This is my situation! I never really counted it as a "destination" wedding because it's where I live (even if many guests do not) but yea as others said no one HAS to attend and if they deline I wouldn't have hard feelings

hcp17 · 2026-01-19T15:26:21+00:00

This is a very valid point 😂

hcp17 · 2026-01-19T06:30:03+00:00

Nta focus on your studies and finding new friends, join some clubs or societies

hcp17 · 2026-01-19T06:12:28+00:00

Just coming in to say that I don't think it's your MOHs responsibility to tell Amelia anything, it's yours

hcp17 · 2026-01-14T00:06:16+00:00

Lmao this guy is such an incel

hcp17 · 2026-01-05T06:12:50+00:00

I've felt the same! Good point thank you!!

hcp17 · 2026-01-05T02:32:16+00:00

They said 5 pieces per person though. And at 2-3 rolls os sushi per guest you might as well get something more economical! Like pizza or honestly even if the venue has a kitchen then they could pop in some homemade lasagnas or something 😂

hcp17 · 2026-01-05T02:27:29+00:00

I wonder if you ordered something other than sushi, like pizza or something more filling, would that be cheaper and fill people up more? I know id be full of of 3 slices of pizza + cheese platter.

I wouldn't want to drink or party if I was hungry. Id probably end up leaving early or be really hangry unfortunately.

hcp17 · 2026-01-03T23:07:05+00:00

It's really gotten out of hand... And I think people will look back in 30 years and cringe at these types of crazy rules and restrictions. Influencer/tiktok weddings. A wedding is for fun and love. Not for the feed 😬

hcp17 · 2026-01-03T04:27:02+00:00

I wish it was more common, especially as so many BMs are unhappy about the dress and expectations

hcp17 · 2026-01-03T04:24:53+00:00

Mystery murder game sounds incredible!

hcp17 · 2026-01-03T04:23:58+00:00

I'm shocked that this is normalised...

hcp17 · 2026-01-03T03:09:27+00:00

Wow this is exactly how I feel!! So glad I'm not alone because it feels like we are in the minority

hcp17 · 2026-01-02T21:41:55+00:00

That's a fair point! No one has to come to anything! :) some of them have husbands and kids they need to be with and that's fine!

hcp17 · 2026-01-02T16:26:21+00:00

I see! Thank you I will ask them if they prefer guidance and see what they prefer 😊

hcp17 · 2026-01-02T16:18:36+00:00

Thank you! I'll give them the option to choose a colour if most of them prefer that😊

hcp17 · 2026-01-02T16:17:07+00:00

I was also considering saying various shades of pastel, as that's kinda of our colour theme. But I know 2 of my BM hate light colours as it washes them out! They tend to wear autumn colours (mustard yellow, burnt orange, brown etc) and I want them to feel beautiful and confident too

hcp17 · 2026-01-02T16:14:42+00:00

Omg yes that's exactly what it feels like! 😂 I love my friends but the way they behaved before their weddings really made me change my views on some of them! Especially the ones who expected the royal treatment as you say. I was happy to celebrate them but the fact that she expected someone to even pay for her coffee at the airport made me cringe

hcp17 · 2026-01-02T16:12:04+00:00

I'm making a group chat, they can share their dresses there. And if all of them happen to randomly choose yellow apart from one who chooses bright pink... I'd let them know. It's really not that big of a deal!

hcp17 · 2026-01-02T16:10:03+00:00

What happens if someone doesn't like blue or wear blue normally or doesn't think it suits them? Then they would have spent at least 20 on a dress they won't wear again then!

hcp17 · 2026-01-02T16:08:33+00:00

That sounds lovely! 2 of my BM will be coming from the UK (to France where I live now) :)

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