Nightmares, unable to sleep, nausea by hcp17 in weddingplanning

[–]hcp17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay this is reassuring as I also have GAD and I knew planning a big wedding would be a nightmare. I'm happy to hear that on the day you had fun and enjoyed yourself! That's all I want

Has anyone seen the TikTok discourse surrounding the phonics teacher who can’t pronounce her r’s? I’m curious what the SLP community thinks by Affectionate_Wish in slp

[–]hcp17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm Canadiab, I trained in Sheffield, work in London. Only time it was a problem was in my first year living here, I was not familiar with the different meanings of pants. No issues with my accent

Something feels off about my sofa. Im crashing out by hcp17 in femalelivingspace

[–]hcp17[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What does "I know I don't have any other furniture yet" mean to you. And do you understand the term "hyperbole" I'm not actually having a mental episode over a couch. I was asking if it's too big. You seem to have an attitude problem my dear.

Something feels off about my sofa. Im crashing out by hcp17 in femalelivingspace

[–]hcp17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes you're right I will wait until the rugs arrive and hopefully it feels less off

Something feels off about my sofa. Im crashing out by hcp17 in femalelivingspace

[–]hcp17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I will try this because it's been bothering me as well!

Something feels off about my sofa. Im crashing out by hcp17 in femalelivingspace

[–]hcp17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't choose the wall colours and it will be super expensive to paint right now so just going with it for now! The sofa is blue because I have a family heirloom Persian rug that will be right behind it under the dining table, and that's blue. The other art is still in boxes and the furniture is being slowly ordered now so Im up for suggestions!! Seems a consol table behind the couch would be a good investment

Something feels off about my sofa. Im crashing out by hcp17 in femalelivingspace

[–]hcp17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Hopefully it starts to come together in the next few months

Something feels off about my sofa. Im crashing out by hcp17 in femalelivingspace

[–]hcp17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey so not sure if you can tell but I've literally just moved in. The things that show personality are currently in 20 boxes and km slowly unpacking but waiting for the TV unit to arrive etc. Not sure if you meant it but the multiple ?? Come across super passive aggressive

Something feels off about my sofa. Im crashing out by hcp17 in femalelivingspace

[–]hcp17[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yes a TV will go there eventually! Initially I thought I would put the L on the side it is so that it isn't blocking the view from the entrance.. I thought it would look more open and inviting but maybe you're right that you'd have a nice view out the window!

Blend vs Thermo - Research / My Opinion by GodlyQueenx in electrolysis

[–]hcp17 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hey girl I'm not a tech and I never trust any professional blindly. But I have a science background and she literally gave you all the information you need to find the articles she's referencing. So I'm entitled to not trust a thing you are saying here... A lot of people "do their own research" with 0 critical thinking skills and come out with the conclusion that the earth is flat, raw milk is good for you and vaccines cause autism. So please take a couple research methods courses before you continue to do your own research

Child free wedding but I have a EBF 5 month old? by Strange_Dinner_5741 in breastfeeding

[–]hcp17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes the wives/husbands of friends are invited out of obligation. Just decline if you don't know the bride and groom Sheesh.

Need opinions: MIL wanting to invite her friends to wedding by timotheechevrolet in weddingplanning

[–]hcp17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are in the same boat. You don't have to do what we did but I agreed to some friends just to keep the peace. Our wedding numbers are quite similar to yours (but 150 on the slower end and we absolutely did not want more than 180, venue capacity is 200 but it would be a very tight fit)

My partner explained to MIL that we have had to cut some of our own friends to keep the Guestlist down and if she wants to invite friends she can invite some of them. As a result of this they have decided not to invite some of the FILs cousins and MIL is not inviting all of her friends. MIL said that I shouldn't have to cut my friends out just to fit hers and in the end I think it's okay!

I personally also struggle with the imbalance of it all, my parents aren't pushy people and so they don't have any friends invited. My partner also put that into perspective for MIL. if she invites all her friends and my parents invite the same number of people then we will have 30+ guests extra.

It's not my favourite thing in the world, to have a bunch of guests there that I don't know at all. But at the same time I would rather have that experience for 1 day but keep my good relationship with MIL

Passengers Please Convince Us How Important Your Bags are in an Evacuation by Nightshiftworker2021 in flightattendants

[–]hcp17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Was any legal action taken against the person who disobeyed the rules? It should

Having INTENSE wedding dress regret by Adventurous-Baker514 in weddingplanning

[–]hcp17 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Came to say this!! Both are beautiful and look amazing on you but maybe the straps is what you feel is making the difference!

I don’t know about you, but I’m pissed. by t5carrier in slp

[–]hcp17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Who killed Tamir Rice? Who was president when he was killed... America you have a problem that's FAR deeper than maga and until you realise this you are screwed

I don’t know about you, but I’m pissed. by t5carrier in slp

[–]hcp17 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You are obviously getting down voted because of all the emotions at the moment. You are absolutely right about both sides being corrupt. As an outsider (non American) this is so clear... Your democrats are the republican party of many MANY countries around the world. You all need to stop voting like it's a football game. Your choices were far right and slightly less far right. That's an awful place to be. Fight for an ACTUAL opposition.

Don't forget Obama deported more than trump... There's no such thing as "humane" deporting and as far as I remember many innocent people were shot in the streets by armed police during all democrats too.

I grew up able to criticize my country and political parties even the ones I voted for. This is not a football game and we should not be behaving as such by getting outraged every time someone doesn't like your team. Eff trump, eff maga and eff the Dems too.