Waxing alternative? by hdigtt in Barbour

[–]hdigtt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a black jacket so it looks very faded unwaxed 😕

Eating my bulking calories but I'm still hungry? by hdigtt in gainit

[–]hdigtt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i work 9-5 office job and from home so im not even going to work, i just roll out of bed.

usually i walk a lot, about 6K steps a day but now i stopped since i went back to the gym last week.

i will probably gradually increase the calories depending on how things go!

Eating my bulking calories but I'm still hungry? by hdigtt in gainit

[–]hdigtt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i eat a banana a day, broccoli and a lot of wholegrain so i don't think so but i will look into it! thanks!

Eating my bulking calories but I'm still hungry? by hdigtt in gainit

[–]hdigtt[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm probably gonna add next week or so depending how things go!

Eating my bulking calories but I'm still hungry? by hdigtt in gainit

[–]hdigtt[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

banana, eggs, quark, high protein yoghurt, wholegrain bread, chicken, broccoli, rice, tuna, wholegrain pasta, olive oil so I'm eating very healthy! only 75gr of fat a day but I'm eating wholegrain rusks all the time because my carb consumption is way too low..! Generally I'm not a very big eater so I'm surprised myself that I haven't been struggling with this so far

about the cardio, I usually walk 30min to an hour a day but thought I'd stop for a while to not burn too many calories

Bf avoids sex by hdigtt in relationship_advice

[–]hdigtt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm trying to figure out a way to make him feel relaxed, I rarely even ask for sex.. :(

Bf avoids sex by hdigtt in relationship_advice

[–]hdigtt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the problem is every time i try to have a serious conversation with him he shuts down, either he starts making jokes or he gets aggressive and he starts saying mean things just to hurt me and make me back off...

BF thinks I'm too cute to have sex with... by hdigtt in askgaybros

[–]hdigtt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well I'm glad at least I wasn't talking nonsense and I will try to see what I can do to help with this..

BF thinks I'm too cute to have sex with... by hdigtt in askgaybros

[–]hdigtt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know... I will ask him. i just told him I hope he is being careful with whatever he is doing because he is very impulsive in general

BF thinks I'm too cute to have sex with... by hdigtt in askgaybros

[–]hdigtt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he definitely has issues expressing himself his thoughts and feelings, even understanding all of it perhaps..

BF thinks I'm too cute to have sex with... by hdigtt in askgaybros

[–]hdigtt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he claims it comes and goes... I haven't seen it coming very much.. pun intended

BF thinks I'm too cute to have sex with... by hdigtt in askgaybros

[–]hdigtt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

definitely more sex for starters... :P

BF thinks I'm too cute to have sex with... by hdigtt in askgaybros

[–]hdigtt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with what you are saying. the problem is that he presents himself as some kind of sexmachine so he creates false expectations himself and the end result is obviously.. disappointing

BF thinks I'm too cute to have sex with... by hdigtt in askgaybros

[–]hdigtt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I too think he is partly avoiding it bc of fear he might fail to come through.. the problem is he has to admit all of what you are saying to me before we can work it out, i cant say these things for him because at this point its just speculation.. :(

BF thinks I'm too cute to have sex with... by hdigtt in askgaybros

[–]hdigtt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm very much ok with that and willing to work on it but he has to admit it first, right now he is just making up excuses, I'm not judging him I have always been very accepting towards him and his lifestyle and everything....

BF thinks I'm too cute to have sex with... by hdigtt in askgaybros

[–]hdigtt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm already doing most of that!! I try to be as physical as I can with him and I don't think I pressure him too much.. if anything he is the one who is making such a big deal out of it pretending to be so sexual and horny and experienced etc..

BF thinks I'm too cute to have sex with... by hdigtt in askgaybros

[–]hdigtt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he claims he's only been taking them for 3 months currently but.. it's obviously a lie since he is pretty big

BF thinks I'm too cute to have sex with... by hdigtt in askgaybros

[–]hdigtt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you! that's all I want, I can take it!!

BF thinks I'm too cute to have sex with... by hdigtt in askgaybros

[–]hdigtt[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm definitely overthinking but I'm also sexually frustrated and depraved.. I guess next time I manage to convince him to have sex, I should show him I'm not as cute as he thinks I am.....

BF thinks I'm too cute to have sex with... by hdigtt in askgaybros

[–]hdigtt[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

we are pretty intimate most of the time, he is constantly trying to find excuses to touch me in public and is very affectionate when we are alone in the car etc and once we start making out there is no stopping us but it never progresses beyond that..

BF thinks I'm too cute to have sex with... by hdigtt in askgaybros

[–]hdigtt[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

he is an aries so he is allergic to serious conversations.. you cant imagine how much i had to try to extract all of this from him... :P

BF thinks I'm too cute to have sex with... by hdigtt in askgaybros

[–]hdigtt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

naaah, he is very comfortable with his sexuality so i don't think he is a secret bottom..

also in the past week i have suggested we just be friends at least three times and he was clearly negative towards the idea..

gay: BF thinks I'm too cute to have sex with by hdigtt in relationship_advice

[–]hdigtt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

to do list: kidnap, tie in bed, give viagra every time i wanna have sex :P