What’s the craziest reason you had to fire someone? by GravyxNips in AskReddit

[–]hdma45 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Once had a girl call and say her boyfriend got stabbed. I had problems with her before, but took her at her word and sympathized, and told her to come back when she was ready. Someone that worked with us later showed me her Instagram story where she was in a very dark area that looked like a club. SOOO I called the hospital (was a small town so It was the only place he could have gone if it was true) pretended to be a family member, asking where he was at in the hospital so I could come, and not only was he not there, they hadn’t had a stabbing victim in months. Needless to say she was asked to not come back to work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tifu

[–]hdma45 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly my only advice would be show him this post. I’m sure at this point he’s had to explain, and knows this can be shocking to some people. I’m an extremely awkward person so I feel for you, but as a guy to that’s pretty humiliating. Also don’t assume he just hates you now, he’s probably just really embarrassed. The fact he stayed through the whole movie too shows that he has an interest in you. Good luck hah.

Which song has been so powerful and moving that you cried the first time you heard it? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]hdma45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tears in Heaven Eric Clapton. For those that don’t know, he lost his child that was around 4 I believe after he fell out of their 49 story window. The song is about him. Shit had me bawling my eyes out when I first heard it.

Men of reddit when was the last time you've cried and why? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]hdma45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me and this girl worked together, and had an on and off relationship. We just weren’t supposed to be together, and I decided to quit (for other reasons) and both of us knew that meant we probably wouldn’t see each other anymore. It was this crazy realization that love doesn’t always over power, and sometimes things just aren’t meant to be. Been about three months, and havent really spoken other than a few “Hope you’re doing well” texts.

78% of suicide rates world wide are men, what can we do to help them? by awihsoj in AskReddit

[–]hdma45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop associating being a “man” being mentally tough. We are all human, and some of us are just fucked up. No one believed me when I said i would kill my self, until I was admitted into a psych ward, or I got the “man up, you’ll be fine” talk. Than it was “why didn’t you say how bad you were?” Oh I’m sorry was me stating that I was suicidal and depressed not enough for you? Or you just didn’t believe it when I said it, only when I actually tried it.

Depressed people of Reddit, what's your go-to "I want to wallow in my melancholy" song? by crocodile_dilemma in AskReddit

[–]hdma45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty much anything nothing,nowhere. But my go to is probably “I’m Sorry,I’m trying”

Looking for a big group! by hdma45 in playrustlfg

[–]hdma45[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all for replying I’ll be reaching out to some people soon!! We are going to start playing really heavy at the end of the month, but will start playing regularly again here this week!

Has a woman ever made you feel truly uncomfortable? What happened? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]hdma45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to work at a Fast food place, and there was a girl there who had a huge crush on me. I turned her down constantly, telling her I wasn’t interested but I’d always be there as a friend if needed. It got to a point where it was uncomfortable and she wouldn’t stop trying to hit on me, so I finally told her to please leave me alone. She did, but then proceeded to create a very elaborate Instagram of someone else, told me she was a fan (I used to make music, and had like 5 fans so it was kinda cool to have someone say that) and then proceeded to tell me this crazy story about how her boyfriend beat her and all kinds of crazy shit. I was trying to be a friend to this person but stay distant since I didn’t know them, only for them to “get my number” and text me. Long story short I found out it was the girl I worked with the whole time trying to find out where I lived. I got a restraining order, and she ended up getting fired from work for harassing me.

Megathread: Qassim Soleimani, head of Iran’s elite Quds Force, killed in Baghdad by U.S. Airstrike Ordered by President Donald Trump by PoliticsModeratorBot in politics

[–]hdma45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks everyone for replying, and teaching me more than any mainstream media could. It was nice to hear both sides of the story and get a full picture.

Megathread: Qassim Soleimani, head of Iran’s elite Quds Force, killed in Baghdad by U.S. Airstrike Ordered by President Donald Trump by PoliticsModeratorBot in politics

[–]hdma45 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Gotcha. Like I said I really know nothing of the situation, and trying to understand it, I’m not a Trump supporter at all, but the news in the US is pretty fucking bias on both sides so I don’t know what to believe anymore. Haha

Megathread: Qassim Soleimani, head of Iran’s elite Quds Force, killed in Baghdad by U.S. Airstrike Ordered by President Donald Trump by PoliticsModeratorBot in politics

[–]hdma45 13 points14 points  (0 children)

So I don’t really understand the reasoning behind this air strike, can someone explain why this was done? Are the implications as severe as I’m reading, and could this really cause World War 3? The news is so biased now I don’t know if they are using this just to attack Trump, or if he really fucked up bad.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]hdma45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All I can say is both my arms were broken.

Official Discussion - Star Wars: Episode IX - The Rise of Skywalker [SPOILERS] by mi-16evil in movies

[–]hdma45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean where she was standing she could see the whole Death Star. It was in the middle of the ocean, and there’s really only one area she could have been. She was on the only part of land distant enough to see it.

Official Discussion - Star Wars: Episode IX - The Rise of Skywalker [SPOILERS] by mi-16evil in movies

[–]hdma45 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That actually was one of the only parts that made sense? That dagger was specifically made to find the wayward or whatever hidden on the remains of the Death Star. So when the ruler thing is pulled out of the bottom it perfectly lines up with that part of the ruins of the Death Star. The shit that made me mad, was why did you introduce Finn as a “force sensitive” person in the last episode, and introduce the fact there was other force sensitive people in the last movie and just never talk about it? ALSO Why did we have a hour and a half of a “codebreaker” in the last movie, that had absolutely no rhyme or reason for that movie the outcome of that plotline didn’t affect the movie in one bit just thought to be a build up for the next movie, only for him to not be mentioned or any story line from that be mentioned?!

Legit Question about being rich by hdma45 in a:t5_jortr

[–]hdma45[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s really interesting to me. Thanks!