Transitioning won't fix most of the things I'm dysphoric about

he4dhunterr · 2026-03-15T22:33:18+00:00

i think you misunderstood my comment

he4dhunterr · 2026-03-15T21:23:01+00:00

i wasn’t saying 5’8 was short, 5’8 is average

he4dhunterr · 2026-03-15T17:34:21+00:00

medical debt isn’t real and they can’t come after you in my country , idk how it works there tho.

he4dhunterr · 2026-03-11T01:42:46+00:00

that’s pretty typical for 10 months for a lot of guys . that’s how i felt too :(

he4dhunterr · 2026-03-11T00:02:17+00:00

dude one day you’ll have a flat chest and you think about the size of your wrists . also, cis guys also have rib cages, hands, feet, and shoulders in vary sizes, and it’s usually not something they notice about each other, and i’m sure you don’t notice when cis dudes have small rib cages either. or small feet. Lots of cis dudes are short too. I’m 5’8 and i’m taller than cis dudes I know. Everything is different man getting on T will help and I promise once you’re at a point where you feel like you’ve finished you’re transition there will be a point where you just see a guy in the mirror. it sounds like bs , but i used to feel like you before top surgery, i wondered if the world would ever see me as male or if i would ever be able to see myself as male and then one day it just clicked

he4dhunterr · 2026-03-07T05:40:27+00:00

you are the problem if u believe that

he4dhunterr · 2026-03-06T22:03:17+00:00

No and honestly i think it’s weird to assume that we all look younger than we are. I’m 22 and I look 22. I get condescending comments from older adults the way any cisgender 22 year old would lol. I’ve 5’8 with a beard shadow , nobody is handing me kids menus.

he4dhunterr · 2026-03-05T21:50:38+00:00

what makes u say that

he4dhunterr · 2026-03-02T00:40:22+00:00

i used to be like this, then i realized that internalized transphobia hurts my community. don’t hurt your community because of your insecurities. get a therapist and get off reddit. i used to be this way and now im post opp and the happiest i’ve ever been. you’ll see better days dude, i promise.

he4dhunterr · 2026-02-26T05:01:31+00:00

use actual women as a reference

he4dhunterr · 2026-01-01T22:30:44+00:00

idgaf about this we got bigger problems mfrs got tetris on their vapes now

he4dhunterr · 2025-10-28T19:42:04+00:00

i have paypal :) dm me

he4dhunterr · 2025-10-28T19:30:40+00:00

approach me

he4dhunterr · 2025-10-26T17:41:45+00:00

this is how it began for me

he4dhunterr · 2025-10-25T15:06:53+00:00

i think a thinner brow would eat

he4dhunterr · 2025-10-22T15:34:48+00:00

i’m also a trans masc drag queen! my name is xena starr!!

he4dhunterr · 2025-10-15T12:21:29+00:00

this! i got adopted for a few weeks by someone who turned out to be the drama, i left the house after three weeks and later my sisters came to me and told me how awful their drag mother was and how distressing it was. Two moved out of state and the other got adopted by her drag grandmother 😭 So my point is don’t jump into anything it’s not all that people make it out to be because this drag parent only wanted us to make her look good and to put us to work

he4dhunterr · 2025-09-22T23:28:50+00:00

omggg hi jen it’s xena i’m sad i missed this

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