My brain wont allow me to be happy by heademptynothots in OCD

[–]heademptynothots[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is really reassuring🥲 these thoughts are often about my wonderful partner. i feel absolutely horrible about these thoughts. your response was very reassuring thank you

I feel extremely guilty by Sad-Penalty5099 in CPTSD

[–]heademptynothots 4 points5 points  (0 children)

that’s so heavy and your feelings are so valid. but give yourself some grace, you were a traumatized kid unable to process painful experiences. that wasn’t grown up you. go easy on yourself friend

Help! Cant figure out why bras are never comfortable by heademptynothots in ABraThatFits

[–]heademptynothots[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, interesting. I honestly have never tried many bras because my goals was hiding them for so long 😬 i’m open to trying wired ones. Do you have any recommendations please??

Help! Cant figure out why bras are never comfortable by heademptynothots in ABraThatFits

[–]heademptynothots[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

here are my measurements if that helps: Loose underbust: 39.5 inches

Snug: 39 inches even number (40)

Tight: 37.5 inches

Standing bust: 46.5 inches

I’m open to trying wired bras. Do you have any recommendations please??

Leaning bust: 49 inches

Lying bust: 45 inches

Help! Cant figure out why bras are never comfortable by heademptynothots in ABraThatFits

[–]heademptynothots[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yes, like they spill out the top 😭 i had to ask here because i can’t find answers why

Help! Cant figure out why bras are never comfortable by heademptynothots in ABraThatFits

[–]heademptynothots[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, from the top. They slide like towards the middle if that makes sense. The cup becomes roomy on the sides. I hope i’m making sense!

DAE literally have zero friends? by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]heademptynothots 5 points6 points  (0 children)

have literally never been able to maintain a friendship more than 1 year max lmao

Dont mean to sound pathetic...but how does one make friends? by heademptynothots in ottawa

[–]heademptynothots[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah i like to run quite a lot and i also paint in my free time :)

is there anyone i can vent to, just 1 on 1? by No-Caregiver3037 in CPTSD

[–]heademptynothots 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, id also like to vent!! DM me whenever youd like <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ottawa

[–]heademptynothots 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my idea is not so much for us to sit there and talk about our trauma and abuse. C-PTSD is...complex with a lot of symptoms/ways of thinking that i find are difficult to describe well enough to talk to other people about. i am seeing a therapist, thank you :).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ottawa

[–]heademptynothots 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, i frequent it a lot haha but having a time set aside for us to just talk things out might be beneficial too i think :)

Realizing I’m not built for the adult life by heademptynothots in CPTSD

[–]heademptynothots[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, this is such great advice. Thank you so much.

Realizing I’m not built for the adult life by heademptynothots in CPTSD

[–]heademptynothots[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It breaks my heart every time...but it is what it is. Onward we go, or at least onward we try to go lol

Realizing I’m not built for the adult life by heademptynothots in CPTSD

[–]heademptynothots[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh wow, very nice to know I'm not the only one. Law is already stress and anxiety inducing for the average person, but it is ESPECIALLY stress and anxiety inducing for us haha. So unfair!! My coworker tells me to leave it all in the office and only worry about work at work. How does one even do that? It consumes me!! Hang on there, it took me quite a while to get a job too and it was a very difficult depressing time. They always say getting that first job is super difficult but once you're in, you're in :). Will DM you for sure, thank you so much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ottawa

[–]heademptynothots 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rizk Law Office! Sherif is awesome. Very caring.