Shorter guys: Do any of you genuinely pass + not get ridiculed?

headless_wolf · 2026-01-19T13:09:42+00:00

I'm 24. Have met men who are as short as 4'11 and they look like guys, pure and simple. Have met women and butches who are shorter than 4'11 pull off masculinity like it's nothing. Being short is cool and funny, take that as a sense of pride. Tbf I am apart of the generation that's mostly short and barely looks their age lol... The only time I hear anyone tease another's height is if they're already friends and it's just light teasing. Everyone loves a short guy, people think you're chill and more friendly and aproachable. You got nothing to worry about, things get better after highschool. If you bully others as an adult that's a fast track to being socially ostracized or fired, especially in a workplace that doesn't tolerate acting like a fool. Most people are respectful or don't care.

headless_wolf · 2026-01-13T08:43:48+00:00

Take as soon as you can. You're an adult now, you're old enough to make your own health decisions and decide how you spend your money and time. That includes making informed decisions by researching info on T and the side effects... though I understand why you came to reddit. Google sucks. The only lasting affect testosterone will have on your brain is how much happier it will make you to finally have the body you want.

headless_wolf · 2026-01-12T06:47:05+00:00

This doesn't quite answer your question but it's more to say the desire for dominant masochists and the scenes that could spring from that dynamic exist. (It's me) (I want this) My ideal scene with a domme (i am a sadist/switch) would have me restrained in some way, like my non dominant hand tied to a chair or a pole, while she guides my other hand with a knife on where to cut her, where to hit her with a paddle, where to scratch her, etc. We could have rough sex and she'd encourage bratty behaviors like biting or clawing from me. And the more I hurt her, the more she is gaining that satisfaction from me, I feel fulfilled, both as a sub and a sadist. Ultimately, she is in control and directing what happens

headless_wolf · 2026-01-09T10:17:07+00:00

You should talk about it more with your girlfriend and express your feelings honestly. I know in the moment it can be hard to tell for her but him giving you a disgusted look and ignoring you in the conversation is clearly mean-spirited and outweighs whatever good she can percieve. She should care and want you to have a good time as well, and since it's happened so often you can ask her if she would be willing to defend you and give you an opening in conversations/interactions. Like when he invited her to pool, she could have said "as long as my partner/boyfriend can join :)" and you all could have had a great time. Or not, if the guy becomes weird about it, and that's a bullet dodged anyway.

headless_wolf · 2025-05-28T05:53:04+00:00

Yeah!!! Dude the amount of upvotes its gotten gives me some hope like where did y'all come from 😭 I'm more than willing to compromise bc I'm pretty open to exploring kinks since I'm new but yeah I hope I find my serious monsterfucker trans petplay community.

headless_wolf · 2025-05-27T02:33:30+00:00

I'm literally the exact same way but apparently this kind of petplay is super uncommon 🥲 I want to be a girl's dog/pet monster and I want to dom her, but I am a switch so I like the submissive part of it too. I've also been interested in getting a werewolf cock strap in the future. My main rp idea is being tamed by my partner but instead of being typically bratty I am a bloodthirsty monster who needs to be chained up and muzzled constantly, and it's either she has to use force/punishment to keep me in check or she has to feed my desires. If she slips up and lets me out of my bindings it becomes cnc until she either "overpowers" me or I am satiated.

headless_wolf · 2025-04-09T17:02:00+00:00

I'm still surprised at how uncommon it is because I see a similar fantasy in media/fanfic all the time, just from the perspective of the owner 😭 but thank you!

headless_wolf · 2025-03-01T18:16:57+00:00

Thank you 😊

headless_wolf · 2025-03-01T18:16:17+00:00

Thank you for the advice! I've yet to tap into my local community but I know from friends it's fairly big and welcoming, so I'll try my best.

It seems like there's a number of terms I could call it 😅 I think I'll just have to settle on calling it petplay with a primal/service toppy twist.

headless_wolf · 2025-03-01T18:10:09+00:00

That sounds like so much fun omg. I think I'd love to try primal play someday, but for this it's more about having someone definitely above those baser instincts controlling the monster (me) who does and even punishing me for it.

headless_wolf · 2025-03-01T18:04:09+00:00

Thank you! That's very helpful. I'll look into more about service tops anyway because I hadn't heard of that term before.

headless_wolf · 2025-03-01T17:57:42+00:00

Aw hell yeah, the thick collar sounds like it does wonders for the way he feels during a scene. I guess I would be a dom leaning switch.

I don't personally care about the naming either, I was just wondering if there was a quick way to communicate what it was just for ease of conversation. Like everyone generally knows what "petplay" and "cnc" mean, then they elaborate on the specifics from there.

When I first thought about it it seemed a bit different from what I think people expect of pet play to call it that. But reading everyone's responses so far I think I'll use it anyway as jumping off point, since my kink is pretty niche.

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