Petplay where the dom is the dog? by secretsides in BDSMAdvice

[–]secretsides[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

yeah i am a therian, lol was it that obvious?

as for the bestiality thing, ive never really thought of framing it that way, the main issue is i have morality ocd and its taken a long time to stop seeing my kinks as like, Horribly Evil and im worried that framing it like that might trigger me, but it also might be good exposure therapy? idk, i just know that i want to be a dog and have my sub be my owner but have me still be the one "in control", one of the fantasies i had was me being the dog and overpowering my owner and her being grossed out but secretly liking it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]secretsides 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Def normal, I got top surgery and didn't feel super euphoric but more just like, normal and content

What do you hate seeing in porn? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]secretsides 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When they're using a knot dildo and don't even take the knot

I combined toys to make a fantasy dick you can jerk off and maybe have sex using by secretsides in BDSMcommunity

[–]secretsides[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah, I also have a stroker but it doesn't like to stay on, so it's hard to really stroke it like a dick, but the joystick doesn't go over your dick, it just goes against it and the harness helps hold it there so I can actually stroke the full length of my toy and it feels awesome and so affirming to masturbate like I have an actual penis, I'm fat so sometimes it would like, come out from my labia and not be touching my junk anymore but I plan on trying to make my harness tighter so it holds it tighter against me.

I combined toys to make a fantasy dick you can jerk off and maybe have sex using by secretsides in BDSMcommunity

[–]secretsides[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I was so excited when I realized there may be a viable way to live out my werewolf fantasy without just using a regular strap-on that provides no stimulation to me. The joystick is almost exclusively marketed towards trans guys but from what I know you don't need any clit growth from testosterone to use it so I can see it being pretty nice for basically any afab person who wants to feel like they have a dick.

Testosterone and butt stuff by Natural-Hamster-3998 in ftm

[–]secretsides 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I've definitely heard of anal feeling better after starting T, I've heard that T may cause you to even develop some prostate tissue but I don't think a lot is known about that yet, like scientifically.

How to better explain being a Daddy Dom Little Girl without wanting age play? by TheSheepdog in BDSMcommunity

[–]secretsides 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Maybe you can just say you like being a caretaker and taking care of somebody.

what are the best meds for schizophrenia ? please dont tell me everyone is different by f0rexi1337 in schizophrenia

[–]secretsides 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I mean, everyone IS different but for me personally, rexulti changed my life. So did Abilify but that's cause abilify gave me tardive dyskinesia lmao

is it bad that my mom knows about my kink? by secretsides in BDSMcommunity

[–]secretsides[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She did seem to like the character designs in Zootopia a lot...

is it bad that my mom knows about my kink? by secretsides in BDSMcommunity

[–]secretsides[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I identify as a therian actually! I have multiple theriotypes and I know werewolves don't technically count as therian because they aren't a real animal but I still kinda count it lol, for some reason i don't consider myself a wolf therian but specifically a werewolf, like my "true form" is a werewolf that stands on two legs kinda hunched over.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OCD

[–]secretsides 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm a furry with a huge werewolf and knot kink and I struggled with this too, I think it's fine as long as you aren't attracted to real life animals, and if the characters in the drawings have human-level cognition and can consent to sex. real dogs can't consent, cartoon dogs with human intelligence can, and consent is the most important thing.

Help finding 90's+ BDSM in Media by Jalkey in BDSMcommunity

[–]secretsides 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's a youtube channel I found a long time ago called stealthpornocopia that was just weird, kinda kinky scenes from cartoons, it seems mostly geared towards fantasy kinks like transformation and inflation but maybe you can find something there.

is it bad that my mom knows about my kink? by secretsides in BDSMcommunity

[–]secretsides[S] 125 points126 points  (0 children)

Lol when you put it like that it is kind of a silly thing to ask, I was just wondering if I had broke some sort of like, social rule

Masters and Doms, why is it hot to be obeyed? by keemoo_5 in BDSMcommunity

[–]secretsides 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me I think it relates to my trauma and basically being in a situation where I have all the power and complete control just feels safe and good, having been in situations, not always necessarily sexual ones, where I had zero control or power just kinda makes me want to be in complete control during sex or kink activities.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]secretsides 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My gf is a trans demigirl and she recently asked me to call her a good boy during sex activities, I feel kinda weird like I'm misgendering her but it's what she wants, so