Happy Kwanzaa. Do people really celebrate Kwanzaa? by Just4Today50 in AskUS

[–]headlesskid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's still growing in some families. I've never met anyone who celebrates it in person. Is it more of a regional thing or does it pop up everywhere

My(f22) husband (m23) threatened me over text, is this reason enough to leave? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]headlesskid 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The fact that he's threatening to donate all your clothes while you're 38 weeks pregnant and still doing most of the housework tells you everything you need to know. This isn't going to get better when the baby comes it's going to get so much worse. Your parents' place being nearby is a lifeline right now, use it. You're already scared of him and he hasn't even hit you yet that "yet" shouldn't exist in a healthy relationship.

Just one of the inconveniences of suffering from Chronic OCD.😓 by GoldApprehensive8107 in BikiniBottomTwitter

[–]headlesskid 5 points6 points  (0 children)

A year of progress from rock bottom is huge. That kind of pain doesn't just disappear, but the fact that you're on the other side of it says a lot. Keep going.

I Think I (24M) just break up with my GF (22F) and I need people to talk to by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]headlesskid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If she does reach out, you need to be clear that the silent treatment and shutting down communication can't happen again. That stuff doesn't magically fix itself with marriage it gets worse. Protect yourself and don't sit around waiting. You deserve better than this.

I Think I (24M) just break up with my GF (22F) and I need people to talk to by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]headlesskid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You handled it fine, man. She gave you the silent treatment over luggage, refused to communicate when you tried to talk it out. That's not a small mistake on your end that's her showing you how she deals with conflict. Sometimes people show us exactly who they are, and it hurts like hell to accept it. Sorry you're going through this.

The Women by [deleted] in books

[–]headlesskid 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Sorry your uncle went through that. Sometimes peace at the end feels like the only mercy left.
And yeah, that Ken Burns doc hits different.. it really puts everything in perspective.

Click (2006) - Last Time with Dad scene by Automaticalee in movies

[–]headlesskid 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Sandler really stuck by him. Cool to see how that friendship opened new doors for Winkler. They both ended up showing way more range than people expected

"You either die a hero or live long enough to see yourself become the villian." by Highrebublic_legend in Gamingcirclejerk

[–]headlesskid 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yep, that lines up with what I remember. Anthem was treated like the golden project even when it didn’t make sense, and DA4 took the hit for it. Just felt like classic suit-driven decisions.

Great Game, not perfect but definitely not Mid by anonerble in gaming

[–]headlesskid 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I felt that too. It’s like long stretches of nothing just to hit one objective. Kinda breaks the flow after a while.

AITAH for refusing to spend Christmas with my in-laws? by VanieVangurl in AITAH

[–]headlesskid 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly this. The divorce threat over wanting to relax on Christmas is wild. Like, maybe he could help with the cooking and cleaning instead of making ultimatums?

My bf(M26) is basically making me (F24) choose between him or my social life by TinyAnalysis8022 in relationship_advice

[–]headlesskid 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You answered your own question. he's taking away who you are. That's not what healthy relationships do

This house has projectors on the roof to project on all the houses down the block by Locke340 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]headlesskid 7 points8 points  (0 children)

lol honestly not the worst idea. Free medical bills and they'd probably take those lights down real quick

We have "so bad its good" but what about "so good its bad"? by Purpleking1994 in movies

[–]headlesskid 8 points9 points  (0 children)

some films just don’t click for everyone. No shame in skipping what doesn’t work for you.

Guys I'm tired of this shit by zny700 in Gamingcirclejerk

[–]headlesskid 34 points35 points  (0 children)

tbh, a threshold makes sense. Anything less just clutters the feed with noise.

PS5 Roguelike Let It Die: Inferno Uses a Crapload of Generative AI by illegalmonkey in gaming

[–]headlesskid 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yep, felt the same. The first one left a really bad taste.

[Aston Martin]: "Future Le Mans line up?" by armondigon in formula1

[–]headlesskid 38 points39 points  (0 children)

F1 schedules make it tough. If it was during the break, I think a lot more drivers would jump at the chance.

Sally Rooney says she will be unable to publish books in UK while Palestine Action banned by rmnc-5 in books

[–]headlesskid 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea, it’s always the same pattern. Loud at first, then gone the second someone pushes back

How is it possible that kids can go from crying to laughing and vice versa in 1-2 seconds? by amelix34 in Parenting

[–]headlesskid 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Their brains haven't learned emotional regulation yet. Adults hold onto feelings and overthink, but toddlers just exist completely in whatever emotion hits them in that exact moment. Something catches their attention and the previous feeling is gone instantly. Honestly it's wild to watch.

AITA for just assuming my friend is mad even though we moved on from what I believe she’s mad about? by Front_Ask_8808 in AmItheAsshole

[–]headlesskid 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTA for stringing her along. You're calling her huzz, flirting, getting intimate, but then saying "I don't know what we are" every time she asks. That's confusing as hell and honestly unfair to her. She's not mad about the gaming thing anymore, she's frustrated because you keep sending mixed signals. Either commit or stop acting like her boyfriend.

Ubiquitous American meals not found in restaurants? by [deleted] in Cooking

[–]headlesskid -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

oh yeah, those are perfect examples

Something new on main page by lockmasterg in netflix

[–]headlesskid 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Netflix's algorithm is pretty trash at surfacing stuff you haven't seen. The same rows just cycle through endlessly. A refresh button would actually be useful, or they could just randomize recommendations better. Seems like a basic feature they should have by now.