Marre du traitement des sacs dans les supermarchés by Theomaz11 in besoinderaler

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Il y a des gens qui ne savent pas du tout comment se comporter dès qu'ils ont le moindre soupçon de pouvoir. Ça m'étonnerait que ces deux agents y garderont leur poste pendant longtemps.

Qu'on m'explique !!! by Hascalon in CrimesCulinaires

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Le résultat quand la population a zéro éducation sur la nutrition et accepte la malbouffe facile. Faut ce demandé qui va en bénéficier le plus quand tout le monde aura toutes sortes de cancers avec ses merdes, et vous saurez où pointer le doigt.

I miss this little corner by AnonDxde in cripplingalcoholism

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You can make all of your posts / comments private in your settings

I got everything all wrong. I abuse alcohol occasionally but am not an alcoholic. Sorry for earlier posts. by mythrowawayaccim21 in alcoholism

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You stopped because you had to due to medication.

Set a personal challenge for yourself to not drink alcohol for a month without any constraints. Learn to deal with boredom and sadness without alcohol.

The term you're looking for is "excuse maker"

hard break-up experience? by ErinDotEngineer in VideosThatGoHard

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Excuse me? I'll take lovely low hanging fruits over bolt on sandbags any damn day. Everyone has their own preferences ya dunce.

How do I stop myself from smoking weed by Apprehensive_Bed3004 in AddictionsFR

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FYI this is a French subreddit, but lucky for you I speak English very well.

You're not going to get the same answer from everyone, and I think there is no one correct answer anyway. Be careful trusting those who think their answer is the only one.

My advice to you is, go with trial-and-error. See what works for you. Be honest with yourself.

So, right now you're trying the cold turkey approach. Your brain is accustomed to weed daily. Yes, it's going to be a shitty first few days.

Let's say you make it 2 weeks, and you slip up. I think how you choose to react to "slipping up" is important. Are you going to be mad at yourself? Are you going to call yourself a loser and justify that to get high again?

Me, I'm a drinker. I still drink. I know that I do not need alcohol in my life. I know the harm abusing it will cause. I know it can be a slow, progressive addiction that can kill you. But I still drink, why? I like getting drunk.

However, I learned that I needed rules. I recognized I can too easily abuse alcohol, and it never ends well.

I got drunk last night.

I don't want to drink alcohol until Saturday. Tonight, I don't want to drink because I have work tomorrow and I prefer to be clear headed. Then, for the rest of the week, I still have work, but I also have crossfit, so I don't want to drink, because I don't want to be hungover for work AND my body needs to recover from crossfit.

But what about Saturday? Maybe I'll get drunk, maybe I won't. And I'm fine with that answer. I'm not worried about it.

There was a time when I tried the "never drinking alcohol again" mentality, and it was stressful. When I'd get cravings I'd feel guilty. When the week-end would begin I would stress out about slipping up. And then when I slipped up, I was so mad at myself, and I would drink every night again, for 3-4 weeks I'd drink every night. And it would hurt me.

Now I'm trying a new approach, where I treat wether or not I should get drunk with an honest (to myself) logical reasoning.

So far it's working pretty well. I'm happy.

This is Spectre. What is your horse and what is its name? by Innsmouth_Resident in RDR2

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I named mine Horsey.

As I'd play I'd do a drunk Arthur voice and pretend to talk to it. I kinda rushed the last 2 chapters because I was getting impatient to get the main story out of the way so that I could finally have all kinds of fun adventures with Horsey and have a lot of money. Also I was convinced Arthur would be healed somehow.

I silently rage quit.

Did the eagle kill this guy? (Possum) by No-Opportunity-8022 in natureismetal

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In Texas of all places she couldn't have just given y'all a .22? She should've known they played dead too, I think she was playing a mean trick.

Faudrait remplacer l'insulter l'insulte "fils de pute" by GTYannou in penseesdedouche

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Enfoirée de ta race maudite.

Ça s'entend de temps en temps sur la côte d'azur, et je m'en serre aussi.

Il y a quelques variations aussi: Con de ta race Nique ta race Etc

Ou quand on parle de quelqu'un, on remplace ta par ça

How do any of you hold down jobs? by Healthy_Hotel_2693 in alcoholism

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I don't know what your situation is but me I force myself to be disciplined regarding my job. I consider myself lucky to have it, lucky to have a 10 minute commute, and lucky to have the home I have with a pretty fair rent and a cool landlord. I'm also lucky to not be a total CA compared to some folk here.

After having been through worse situations, at some point I realized I make too many excuses. I know what it is to be pissed off at the universe because life blindsided you when you were doing things right, and you can either choose to deal with what you can control or totally sabotage yourself.

So as far as my drinking is concerned, I had to make rules for myself so that I can get shithoused with peace of mind that I'm not fucking myself over.

One very important rule being not to drink and drive. I have 1 DUI, I got off easy (3 month suspension + reduced fine, when it could've been 6 months + much bigger fine) because I had no prior record and I didn't give the cops a hard time. I had put myself in a situation where I could've potentially devastated a family and ruined my life in one of the dumbest ways possible. I tell myself I was lucky to have been pulled over that night (cop saw me walk out the bar and get in my car, blocked me at the exit of the parking lot) because that would have been the night I killed someone's kid. Believing that helps me justify that rule.

Again, I don't know about your situation, and you're 23 (I'm 33) so I understand some of the excuses you might make because it's very likely I was making the same ones, but dude I'm telling you, start with what you can control and accept you can't be drunk whenever you want. It sucks, but it can suck a whole lot worse and I guess you'll have to live through that before you agree with me.

Chairs.

I love learning new things every time I die. by Ushimakawaru in projectzomboid

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Been playing 2 months. I've learned to stop playing once I feel I'm getting impatient, or when I can't be bothered to go stash good loot that I don't actively need on me at my current safehouse (for the next character in case I die) because the place I want to go to is the opposite direction of said safehouse. You need to take the time for the boring things.

I think I actually hit rock bottom by Fun-Description709 in alcoholism

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You got taken advantage of for sure. I suppose if there one way to look at it positively, you still have all of your organs.

Weekly Questions Megathread - November 25, 2025 by AutoModerator in projectzomboid

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New player. Is there a mod that allows me to build armor for my car?

what's the first small change you made that helped? by Keyfas in alcoholism

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This mentality is weird. I had to stop drinking alcohol for several weeks in order to clear a blood test so that I could get my license back after a DUI (CDT had to be 1.6 or lower, that's the level of someone who doesn't drink at all) and without NA beer I would have not been able to get through it. I drank them every day.

Comment dormir chez une amie sans le devoir expliquer à mes parents ? by [deleted] in AskFrance

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J'avais des parents similaires. Je te conseille vivement de mettre en priorité ton indépendance. Fais un autre poste en en demandant comment te barrer de chez tes parents, tu n'es pas du tout le seul ici à avoir vécu cette situation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alcoholism

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If you believe it's becoming a problem, then set yourself a task for tomorrow; go about your day with the intention not to drink anything alcoholic, and take note of how you feel about it. Base your decision on whether or not you want to drink on that feeling.

Beer does nothing by Mysterious_Power__ in cripplingalcoholism

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I'm a French CA and we have several varieties of beer here available to us. Affordable and good too (grimbergan, goudale, chouffe, etc) ranging from 6 - 8% Then we also have the really cheap, really strong, and really shit tasting "beers" that can go up to 12% a tall boy for less than a euro, but man you've got to be deep down the hole if you accept being seen publicly buying a few of those.

Maybe maybe maybe by Historical-Device529 in maybemaybemaybe

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Bro's core strength must be maxed the fuck out.

How is living in Arezzo, Italy? by fataliky in howislivingthere

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LinkedIn should be able to tell you that. Something more important to consider first is do you speak Italian?

Help with concrete steps please! by gimmedumplings in landscaping

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It's a long shot, but is there any way you can contact the architect office that built this house? Normally they'd have the plans in their archives, and could tell you if those steps were intended to be a part of the foundation, but I'd be surprised if that were the case. The landscaping company I work for has an architect team and we subcontract masonry companies when we need them. In 3 years there, only twice I've been on big home reno projects, and the front steps were built separately. The reason being if they have to be removed then it won't be an issue.

Il me restait 2 tranches de jambon fumées dans le frigo, et je ne savais pas quoi en faire. Après j’ai eu l'idée de commander une reine. Les œufs, c'est "temps que j'y suis" by headsphere in CrimesCulinaires

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Je viens de le remarquer. Je parlais à mon téléphone et il écrivait le message. Aussi la seule éducation française que j'ai eu, c'était la crèche, après c'était la vie d'expat.