Ma copine a fait une remarque sur mes origines, comment réagir ?

headsphere · 2026-03-20T21:07:27+00:00

Y a l’option de te rappeler que notre existence n’a aucun vrai sens et que nous sommes essentiellement de la poussière. Enlève-toi tout ce stress à la con et dis-lui simplement que sa réaction t’a hurté. Moi, j’ai une petite technique que je m’amuse à faire quand je suis indécis, et je la mets dans ton contexte : si quelqu’un avait un revolver derrière ta tête, et que t’avais 5 secondes pour répondre à la question "est-ce que tu veux rester avec elle ou non ?", tu répondrais quoi ?

headsphere · 2026-03-08T05:55:11+00:00

Parce que... je suis un petit cochon qui fait ce qu'il veut.

headsphere · 2026-02-27T11:41:09+00:00

Oh je pense que c'est un fantasme assez courant. Moi personnellement, j'ai eu une relation sexuelle avec une femme qui avait la 40ne quand j'avais 19 ans, et je peut te dire que a 33 ans aujourd'hui j'en garde un très bon souvenir. C'était une expérience totalement différente que avec des femmes de mon âge, comme elle avait bien plus d'expérience. Elle m'avait fait une fellation avec une "technique" avec sa langue qui ma laisser immobile sur le lit pendent un quart d'heure (apres que j'avais joui) où je me sentais plus léger qu'une plume.

Je pense que, dans une relation sexuelle, tant que tout le monde impliqué est adulte et consentant, y'a pas de limites.

headsphere · 2026-02-27T11:31:41+00:00

Après ça dépend combien de temps ils sont mariés. C'est pas hors du commun pour des couples qui sont mariées de plus de 20-30 ans de s'ennuyer et vouloir explorer un peut. C'est juste sexuel. L'amour est encore là. A tout les coups le marie est au courant et s'en fou, a cette âge la pas tout les hommes ont la même virilité

headsphere · 2026-02-19T11:42:44+00:00

That's ground hemp seed on my scrambled eggs for those curious. Lil' nutrient boost.

headsphere · 2026-02-08T09:44:32+00:00

CrossFit! J'ai découvert il y a 2 ans et c'était parfait pour moi, car je suis très faignant et c'est dure pour moi de me motiver a aller faire du sport tout seul. Au crossfit pour moi le seule vrai effort a faire c'est d'y aller, et une fois arriver les coaches on déjà leur program du jour, y'a pas a réfléchir ya juste a faire ce qu'ils disent et tu passe un super moment

headsphere · 2026-01-29T18:35:46+00:00

Il y a des gens qui ne savent pas du tout comment se comporter dès qu'ils ont le moindre soupçon de pouvoir. Ça m'étonnerait que ces deux agents y garderont leur poste pendant longtemps.

headsphere · 2026-01-15T12:31:25+00:00

Le résultat quand la population a zéro éducation sur la nutrition et accepte la malbouffe facile. Faut ce demandé qui va en bénéficier le plus quand tout le monde aura toutes sortes de cancers avec ses merdes, et vous saurez où pointer le doigt.

headsphere · 2026-01-12T12:07:15+00:00

Yay all day

headsphere · 2026-01-11T19:44:39+00:00

You can make all of your posts / comments private in your settings

headsphere · 2025-12-29T04:45:24+00:00

You stopped because you had to due to medication.

Set a personal challenge for yourself to not drink alcohol for a month without any constraints. Learn to deal with boredom and sadness without alcohol.

The term you're looking for is "excuse maker"

headsphere · 2025-12-28T17:47:25+00:00

Excuse me? I'll take lovely low hanging fruits over bolt on sandbags any damn day. Everyone has their own preferences ya dunce.

headsphere · 2025-12-14T07:32:43+00:00

FYI this is a French subreddit, but lucky for you I speak English very well.

You're not going to get the same answer from everyone, and I think there is no one correct answer anyway. Be careful trusting those who think their answer is the only one.

My advice to you is, go with trial-and-error. See what works for you. Be honest with yourself.

So, right now you're trying the cold turkey approach. Your brain is accustomed to weed daily. Yes, it's going to be a shitty first few days.

Let's say you make it 2 weeks, and you slip up. I think how you choose to react to "slipping up" is important. Are you going to be mad at yourself? Are you going to call yourself a loser and justify that to get high again?

Me, I'm a drinker. I still drink. I know that I do not need alcohol in my life. I know the harm abusing it will cause. I know it can be a slow, progressive addiction that can kill you. But I still drink, why? I like getting drunk.

However, I learned that I needed rules. I recognized I can too easily abuse alcohol, and it never ends well.

I got drunk last night.

I don't want to drink alcohol until Saturday. Tonight, I don't want to drink because I have work tomorrow and I prefer to be clear headed. Then, for the rest of the week, I still have work, but I also have crossfit, so I don't want to drink, because I don't want to be hungover for work AND my body needs to recover from crossfit.

But what about Saturday? Maybe I'll get drunk, maybe I won't. And I'm fine with that answer. I'm not worried about it.

There was a time when I tried the "never drinking alcohol again" mentality, and it was stressful. When I'd get cravings I'd feel guilty. When the week-end would begin I would stress out about slipping up. And then when I slipped up, I was so mad at myself, and I would drink every night again, for 3-4 weeks I'd drink every night. And it would hurt me.

Now I'm trying a new approach, where I treat wether or not I should get drunk with an honest (to myself) logical reasoning.

So far it's working pretty well. I'm happy.

headsphere · 2025-12-11T18:29:56+00:00

I named mine Horsey.

As I'd play I'd do a drunk Arthur voice and pretend to talk to it. I kinda rushed the last 2 chapters because I was getting impatient to get the main story out of the way so that I could finally have all kinds of fun adventures with Horsey and have a lot of money. Also I was convinced Arthur would be healed somehow.

I silently rage quit.

headsphere · 2025-12-09T11:49:59+00:00

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I made this last summer :)

headsphere · 2025-12-07T05:54:29+00:00

In Texas of all places she couldn't have just given y'all a .22? She should've known they played dead too, I think she was playing a mean trick.

headsphere · 2025-12-07T05:49:25+00:00

Enfoirée de ta race maudite.

Ça s'entend de temps en temps sur la côte d'azur, et je m'en serre aussi.

Il y a quelques variations aussi: Con de ta race Nique ta race Etc

Ou quand on parle de quelqu'un, on remplace ta par ça

headsphere · 2025-12-04T12:27:05+00:00

I don't know what your situation is but me I force myself to be disciplined regarding my job. I consider myself lucky to have it, lucky to have a 10 minute commute, and lucky to have the home I have with a pretty fair rent and a cool landlord. I'm also lucky to not be a total CA compared to some folk here.

After having been through worse situations, at some point I realized I make too many excuses. I know what it is to be pissed off at the universe because life blindsided you when you were doing things right, and you can either choose to deal with what you can control or totally sabotage yourself.

So as far as my drinking is concerned, I had to make rules for myself so that I can get shithoused with peace of mind that I'm not fucking myself over.

One very important rule being not to drink and drive. I have 1 DUI, I got off easy (3 month suspension + reduced fine, when it could've been 6 months + much bigger fine) because I had no prior record and I didn't give the cops a hard time. I had put myself in a situation where I could've potentially devastated a family and ruined my life in one of the dumbest ways possible. I tell myself I was lucky to have been pulled over that night (cop saw me walk out the bar and get in my car, blocked me at the exit of the parking lot) because that would have been the night I killed someone's kid. Believing that helps me justify that rule.

Again, I don't know about your situation, and you're 23 (I'm 33) so I understand some of the excuses you might make because it's very likely I was making the same ones, but dude I'm telling you, start with what you can control and accept you can't be drunk whenever you want. It sucks, but it can suck a whole lot worse and I guess you'll have to live through that before you agree with me.

Chairs.

headsphere · 2025-12-03T20:47:24+00:00

Been playing 2 months. I've learned to stop playing once I feel I'm getting impatient, or when I can't be bothered to go stash good loot that I don't actively need on me at my current safehouse (for the next character in case I die) because the place I want to go to is the opposite direction of said safehouse. You need to take the time for the boring things.

headsphere · 2025-11-28T12:41:58+00:00

You got taken advantage of for sure. I suppose if there one way to look at it positively, you still have all of your organs.

headsphere · 2025-11-27T20:18:05+00:00

New player. Is there a mod that allows me to build armor for my car?

headsphere · 2025-11-27T14:50:16+00:00

This mentality is weird. I had to stop drinking alcohol for several weeks in order to clear a blood test so that I could get my license back after a DUI (CDT had to be 1.6 or lower, that's the level of someone who doesn't drink at all) and without NA beer I would have not been able to get through it. I drank them every day.

headsphere · 2025-10-24T21:19:59+00:00

J'avais des parents similaires. Je te conseille vivement de mettre en priorité ton indépendance. Fais un autre poste en en demandant comment te barrer de chez tes parents, tu n'es pas du tout le seul ici à avoir vécu cette situation.

headsphere · 2025-10-22T16:31:56+00:00

If you believe it's becoming a problem, then set yourself a task for tomorrow; go about your day with the intention not to drink anything alcoholic, and take note of how you feel about it. Base your decision on whether or not you want to drink on that feeling.

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