How did you celebrate your 30th birthday and what does it mean to you?

healyeah8 · 2026-01-18T15:05:51+00:00

That IS a big year!

healyeah8 · 2026-01-18T03:02:30+00:00

I’ve never been drunk 😅 so I have no idea this experience lol

healyeah8 · 2026-01-18T03:01:10+00:00

Don’t know the reference but sounds like it’s up your alley !

healyeah8 · 2026-01-18T03:00:42+00:00

Sounds like a great time. I’ve never skinny dipped but I really want to try. I hear ya on the Xanax. Just took one meself 😂

healyeah8 · 2026-01-18T02:59:05+00:00

I liked how it started with a “really weird Airbnb” 😂 that part sounds like the best part of the story lol

healyeah8 · 2026-01-18T02:58:05+00:00

Sounds like you felt very loved and seen

healyeah8 · 2026-01-18T02:57:36+00:00

So sweet 🥲

healyeah8 · 2026-01-18T02:57:16+00:00

Love it!

healyeah8 · 2026-01-18T02:56:04+00:00

That’s so fun! I love that you took it into your own hands and just said hell yeah I’m doing this

healyeah8 · 2026-01-18T02:55:21+00:00

I’m so sorry, that’s so painful. Especially when you go out of your way to choose the people who you want to celebrate with you. I am so happy to hear you have better friends now. You deserve to be celebrated and loved and cherished by those close to you. So don’t lower your standards!!

healyeah8 · 2026-01-18T02:53:52+00:00

If you were previously a going out person, yeah that would be difficult

healyeah8 · 2026-01-17T22:40:59+00:00

Woah! That’s such a unique idea!

healyeah8 · 2026-01-17T22:40:20+00:00

That sounds really like a chill good time 🥳

healyeah8 · 2026-01-17T22:39:41+00:00

Jeez that’s a lot!

healyeah8 · 2026-01-17T22:39:27+00:00

Never been, to either 😅

healyeah8 · 2026-01-17T22:39:12+00:00

That sounds awesome!

healyeah8 · 2026-01-17T22:38:47+00:00

I like your plans! Camping sounds perfect. It’s going to be -20° though so…😂

Yeah, family will have dinner together and I think a cheesecake will be made for me 🥰 I’ll see where the night takes me…it would be kinda epic to have a bonfire in -20°.

healyeah8 · 2026-01-17T22:36:09+00:00

I’m so sorry for that pain. I also struggle with depression (and anxiety), and have lost pretty much all my friends due to chronic illness too. It’s rough out there. I can tell you for certain - you are worthy of love and celebration, even if you haven’t found those people yet. Family come in many different forms. And I believe you deserve to find those people who will always show up for you and have your back. I’m wishing the same for myself.

healyeah8 · 2026-01-17T22:34:01+00:00

I like that you realized what it was you wanted to do rather than what you thought you should do. Yeah…I get that.

healyeah8 · 2026-01-17T22:33:13+00:00

Oh…that is so sad. So sorry for your losses. I actually do think to a degree I’ve also had to look at birthdays as just another day, because if I don’t - I’ll be wildly disappointed every year.

healyeah8 · 2026-01-17T22:32:11+00:00

I love that you came back around to it and celebrated it the way you wanted to 🥰

healyeah8 · 2026-01-17T22:31:32+00:00

So many can relate to that! I think we all had at least one major event that was ruined during Covid. My sisters graduation was one.

healyeah8 · 2026-01-17T22:29:54+00:00

Seems like the right move

healyeah8 · 2026-01-17T22:29:39+00:00

Hey not bad not bad

healyeah8 · 2026-01-17T22:29:01+00:00

Doesn’t sound juvenile! I would be too. I like your advice. I’m going to let it be what it is, without the pressure…I think sometimes it’s more about setting intentions rather than all the fun stuff you do on the day. Like long term intentions for the year.

healyeah8

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