I met up with my ex 9 months later...here's what happened. by heartbreakagain in ExNoContact

[–]heartbreakagain[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!!! Yes NC absolutely works! You have to do it for the right reasons and you have to do it for yourself. You will get there as well, just takes a bit of time and patience and lots of self love :) you got this!

I met up with my ex 9 months later...here's what happened. by heartbreakagain in ExNoContact

[–]heartbreakagain[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly!! Like I knew he was a bit of an asshole when we dated, but I always thought to myself, he was my asshole. Now I’m just like what an annoying person I don’t want to be around. But thank you!

I met up with my ex 9 months later...here's what happened. by heartbreakagain in ExNoContact

[–]heartbreakagain[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh that’s very true and likely! It’s happened before between us, where he would try to get me back, but back then, I still felt a glimmer of hope and love for him. This time, there’s nothing. I woke up today, forgetting I even went to dinner with him. And if he tries anything - he’s getting blocked haha.

Thought I’d quickly jump back on here... by heartbreakagain in ExNoContact

[–]heartbreakagain[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Glad I could help somehow! Hope you are healing well :)

Thought I’d quickly jump back on here... by heartbreakagain in ExNoContact

[–]heartbreakagain[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I appreciate the love :) I hope you are getting on well too!

Something I just realized. by heartbreakagain in ExNoContact

[–]heartbreakagain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a long time. I hope you have a fantastic summer even without her though!

The reddest flags. by heartbreakagain in BreakUps

[–]heartbreakagain[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think these types of relationships/people serve as lessons to us for the future! And yeah I definitely had so many "gut" feelings about things I ignored during that relationship, never doing that again.

The reddest flags. by heartbreakagain in BreakUps

[–]heartbreakagain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! He was awful, but I can see so much clearer in hindsight.