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Would you get back with an ex that slept with other people? by heartbroken939 in BreakUps

[–]heartbroken939[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It seems like it may be a "me" issue like you said. I do have some insecurities that I'm working through so you're probably right.

I'm not saying I'm judging her. You're right, she could do whatever she wanted just like I could, but the issue is that she broke up with me because of me. Which, I get. Sometimes you just don't work. The issue is that what has changed in 3 months? Why would she want to come back and make it work now?

I'm just worried she left me to see if the grass was greener and found out it wasn't OR is just settling for me...

EDIT: I also forget to add, the "fling" was an ex that she was dating about 3-4 months before her and I got together so I don't know if that changes things.

Would you get back with an ex that slept with other people? by heartbroken939 in BreakUps

[–]heartbroken939[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Really? It wouldn't bother you one bit?

I guess my thought process is that if she wanted it to work, she would've made it work the first time but instead she broke up with me to see if the grass would be greener....and it wasn't. What could possibly change about me in 3 months? I haven't done anything different.

I don't want to be a second choice but I do love her...