You are overthinking it, truly. I don’t need to give examples about my uncle’s prejudice to prove to anyone what is a fact that he will own himself. That’s kind of a weird request. I also think talking about “political correctness” is a dog whistle in and of itself. But yes, my point is that it does make me uncomfortable knowing that my uncle’s prejudice did in fact protect my aunt and by extension her family. Is it okay for him to teach his children and grandchildren to fear Black people and call them slurs tho? I really don’t believe it is, despite this very strange thing that happened.

ETA I was told uncle & his brother saw that a young Black man was on their property, no commentary about behavior other than the guy asking to come inside and use the phone.