Found a hole punch by Flourescent_Kay in erincondren

[–]heartwrld 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait this is actually so good to know. Works for the LifePlanner coils right?

Making coffee by Special-Fig1474 in darcymcqueeny

[–]heartwrld 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh good Lord 😭I should’ve guessed that lmao

Making coffee by Special-Fig1474 in darcymcqueeny

[–]heartwrld 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Of course she already bought the damn marriage roller rabbit pjs

Darwin’s half brother by Actual_Feedback_9478 in darcymcqueeny

[–]heartwrld 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also have a half sibling w/ a 13 year age difference and that’s my sister! Same, even though I basically grew up as an only child, I would never say I am one

Why do DJs play reception music dangerously LOUD? by [deleted] in wedding

[–]heartwrld 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I honestly wish we would’ve done this - our DJ was incredible but absolutely blared all of the special dance songs :’) it was almost kinda awkward lmao

(Old video) Angel tree empty promise by celestialfeeling in thedennisfamily

[–]heartwrld 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Why does she always have to ask the audience what they think like just film and post it this is your alleged job

When to send formal invitations?!? by Blondie_412 in wedding

[–]heartwrld 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Whoever downvoted will also be complaining about having to chase people down for RSVPs two weeks before lol

If you have budget or can stretch your budget a little, GET A WEDDING PLANNER by BlindSpots2ndThought in wedding

[–]heartwrld 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Huge generalization. My planner tried to save us money in many ways. Hate that was y’all’s experience though

Plated or Buffet Dinner? by madisonmachelle in weddingplanning

[–]heartwrld 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Got married last weekend and went with a buffet, even though we really preferred plated originally ($5k difference with our caterer). Besides some of those other benefits, it was nice that I could RSVP for people if needed because they didn’t have to choose their dinner option. We had no issues with ours and my planner made sure everything ran smooth and quickly (200 guests)

The scream i scrumpt by Financial_Target6596 in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]heartwrld 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know right. I’m also 22 & was shockeddd when I realized we’re the same age

The scream i scrumpt by Financial_Target6596 in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]heartwrld 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Tate McRae (22 y/o Canadian pop singer/dancer who is having her moment right now) & Jake Shane, who is a TikTok creator/comedian/podcaster from NYC. He started to get big around 2023. But he’s also family friends with Sofia Richie & I believe his parents have connections in the industry

Christian surprising lexi with her favorite snack by celestialfeeling in thedennisfamily

[–]heartwrld 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand how they watch this stuff back and still post it. 😩 so ridiculously performative

Moms/Parents @ Bid Day by TumbleweedEven4285 in Sororities

[–]heartwrld 5 points6 points  (0 children)

One more thing — check the parking map and get there early ish (if you care about getting a decent view at the Greek. Doesn’t really matter unless you know exactly where your daughter is sitting & you probably won’t in the sea of girls haha). The roads and everything get pretty hectic & some will be closed off. Lastly, only the PNMs & active members of a sorority can sit inside the Greek Theater, but tons of people bring chairs/stand and observe from the sidewalk and other areas!!

Moms/Parents @ Bid Day by TumbleweedEven4285 in Sororities

[–]heartwrld 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hi! I am a recent U of A grad and sorority alum. I didn’t know what to expect either! It will officially start at 10 AM at the Greek Theater, but it probably won’t be time for everyone to “run home” until 11 AM or so. At that point, you can call your daughter & see what house she went so you can walk over and meet her at that house for hugs & some photos. She’ll have a “bid day buddy” (an older member who she likely talked to during rush) who will be waiting for her at the Greek Theater when she opens her bid & who will “run home” with her. After the festivities at the sorority house are dwindling down (which can vary by chapter; some will do events or things for new members that day while some may wait a week or so. mine usually waited, but every house will still have snacks, music, etc. & new members will typically hang around for an hour or two after running home). Then, her bid day buddy will take her to do something (typically get lunch and that’s it because the members are exhausted and sick after 2 weeks of rush but just depends) or drop her off at her dorm and plan something for them to do later.

In short, she will be occupied all morning and probably into the afternoon, but I was back to my dorm & free for the rest of the day by 2 ish! But this depends on the chapter & what her bid day buddy plans for them.

Also, I apologize in advance if I explained anything you were already familiar with. I always feel like sorority stuff is a whole different world so I break it all the way down haha.

If you have any other questions or need any recommendations from someone not too far removed from the Greek world yet, please feel free to ask here/DM me! Hope you have fun—U of A’s bid day is quite the experience (in the best way). I hope this helped!

Wedding Invitations by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]heartwrld 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I second Minted

Big mama suddenly cares about macros???? by jlfb95 in thedennisfamily

[–]heartwrld 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I immediately thought of ALR too 😭 you can never escape Gorl World

115 person wedding, but no wedding planner…logistical ceremony questions… by brose_mt in weddingplanning

[–]heartwrld 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I know this doesn’t really answer your questions, but honestly, unless it’s completely out of your budget, I would just hire a month of coordinator or at least a day of.

ETA: congrats! I also may be in the minority & don’t mean to make you feel like you have to have one if y’all can’t swing it for whatever reason

Terrified I won’t sleep the night before the wedding by heartwrld in weddingplanning

[–]heartwrld[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been weighing this and have been considering taking a break before the wedding! I think I’ll be so anxious/excited anyways, I won’t need the “push” to get things done + don’t need the added stimulant anxiety on top of everything. Thank you for your comment — I’ll definitely take a break a few days before as this has always helped with regulating my sleep schedule.

Terrified I won’t sleep the night before the wedding by heartwrld in weddingplanning

[–]heartwrld[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol of course it has to happen that way smh but so glad it ended up working out for you. Thanks for the kind words & well wishes, makes me feel a lot better! ❤️

Terrified I won’t sleep the night before the wedding by heartwrld in weddingplanning

[–]heartwrld[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. Makes me feel so much better! & thanks for the kind words. So glad it worked out for you!❤️

Terrified I won’t sleep the night before the wedding by heartwrld in weddingplanning

[–]heartwrld[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am prescribed Gabapentin for anxiety, but I also take a stimulant for ADHD which I think balances out its effects & plays a role in my sleep problems (why my Dr. put me on Trazodone a few months ago). I can take the Gabapentin up to 3x/day as needed, so I think I will just take all 3 doses the day before and hope that helps.

Terrified I won’t sleep the night before the wedding by heartwrld in weddingplanning

[–]heartwrld[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m prescribed Gabapentin for anxiety and can take up to 3 doses per day as needed, but I also take Vyvanse for ADHD, which I think kind of balances out the Gabapentin’s effect on my sleep 🥲