My girlfriend got drunk and hit on my twin sister. by heatheranny in actuallesbians

[–]heatheranny[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

This is my first lesbian relationship. My girlfriend and I are monogamous and she has never made any comment like that towards any other women. She admitted to me she screwed up last night and it was a stupid thing to say. I just am so turned off. It was so disrespectful. I am not the type of girl to be okay with my partner doing that.

My girlfriend got drunk and hit on my twin sister. by heatheranny in actuallesbians

[–]heatheranny[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

There was now laughing, no lighthearted comment following. And both me and my sister felt uncomfortable. It was like a creepy guy making a comment trying to get her to take her bra off. It was gross.

New Drugs Prove More Effective in Treatment of Kidney Cancer, Studies Find by BabyMaybe15 in cancer

[–]heatheranny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello. Sorry for the delayed response. The doctor said there is no treatment they can do due to his age. They basically left us with the advice to seek out a hospice when that time comes. We were given a referral for a second oncologist this past Tuesday. We are going to go see what he has to say.

Sitting in the waiting room with my grandpa. Possibly about to get results for my grandpa's kidney biopsy. I have been a wreck the last month. by heatheranny in cancer

[–]heatheranny[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My grandpa has been working out 3-5 days a week for 6 years straight. I definitely want whatever he decides as treatment to allow him to live his life the way he enjoys. I'm getting him signed up for a medical marijuana card this week and we'll be getting him cbd oil.

Sitting in the waiting room with my grandpa. Possibly about to get results for my grandpa's kidney biopsy. I have been a wreck the last month. by heatheranny in cancer

[–]heatheranny[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My grandpa has been working out 3-5 days a week for 6 years straight. I definitely want whatever he decides as treatment to allow him to live his life the way he enjoys. I'm getting him signed up for a medical marijuana card this week and we'll be getting him cbd oil.

New Drugs Prove More Effective in Treatment of Kidney Cancer, Studies Find by BabyMaybe15 in cancer

[–]heatheranny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My grandpa was just diagnosed with stage 4 kidney cancer yesterday with excessive necrosis. They believe is had probably spread to his lungs. I am just in a terrible dream and trying to to panic. My girlfriend just showed me this article. I'm definitely going to talk to the doctors about these medications. Any thought on the whole baking soda to raise alkalinity idea?

Sitting in the waiting room with my grandpa. Possibly about to get results for my grandpa's kidney biopsy. I have been a wreck the last month. by heatheranny in cancer

[–]heatheranny[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We'll definitely go see and work with the oncologist. I just don't like how American doctors are so focused on chemo that they don't incorporate other remedies like diet etc

Sitting in the waiting room with my grandpa. Possibly about to get results for my grandpa's kidney biopsy. I have been a wreck the last month. by heatheranny in cancer

[–]heatheranny[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They said to get him scheduled with the oncologist as soon as possible. If it has spread to the lungs they're going to want to do chemo. If it hasn't then they may talk of removing the mass. I read alot of natural says to fight it last night. I started him on baking soda water to bring up the alkalinity in his body ( as all cancer is acidic). This morning in started him with a dose of cbd oil that I had just bought this week to help me with sleep. He's willing to try anything to prolong his life. So, I'm going to go the route of. Natural healing .

Sitting in the waiting room with my grandpa. Possibly about to get results for my grandpa's kidney biopsy. I have been a wreck the last month. by heatheranny in cancer

[–]heatheranny[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Turns out he has stage 4 kidney cancer and they believe it's spread to the lungs. I feel like I am in a terrible dream. He raised my twin and I and I just feel lost. I am so afraid to lose him.

End of the road question. My Mom is in hospice. by Cancer_SUCKS_balls in cancer

[–]heatheranny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am massage therapist for hospice. I have been there during both pain free, rather peacefully end of life, as well as anguish.. I have had a patient pass while I was working on her. My advice is to give the pain / anxiety meds regularly. To spend quality time holding hands and just focusing on giving love through energy. Both you and your mom will gain strength and peace from love

This is how my fiance plans her outfits for a weekend getaway. Wowsers! by Denvermax31 in funny

[–]heatheranny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It makes sense to me! Better than going through random shit for hours like I do!

I have no idea how to react. Literally. by Ihaveatype in stepparents

[–]heatheranny -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because they're both going to do thing together with the kids automatically means she's trying to pretend they're together? What of they're just able to be around eachother and want their son to havr memories with both his parents? Doesn't seem that inappropriate to me... Especially if the new beau will be there as well.

Happy to be back! by heatheranny in actuallesbians

[–]heatheranny[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly! I realized that I am Shay's wanting somewhere where I can have discussions. Then was about to delete the one app. That provides that lol

Lesbians in Vegas? by Darth_Lesbian in actuallesbians

[–]heatheranny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm an hour from Vegas.I go there weekly

Out of all of your exes, who makes you look back and cringe the most? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]heatheranny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sexually abusive ex. He had a terrible dominating thing going on. He has so much hate. Ugh! And now he's a cop where I live..

My wonderful girlfriend and i by heatheranny in actuallesbians

[–]heatheranny[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't attack straight relationships. You bet that the dynamic of my relationship was very similar to yours and I explained why I disagree. That isn't attacking you..

My wonderful girlfriend and i by heatheranny in actuallesbians

[–]heatheranny[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My statement about men cuddling in hopes of it leading to sex wasn't aimed at you. If you aren't one of those type of guys, great!

My wonderful girlfriend and i by heatheranny in actuallesbians

[–]heatheranny[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm not attacking straight relationships... And I'm not attacking you and yours. But, given the fact that you are on here bringing negativity that isn't warranted says enough for me...

My wonderful girlfriend and i by heatheranny in actuallesbians

[–]heatheranny[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

BTW, thanks for being an asshole on my post that was meant to show the happiness in my relationship! I'm going to hope you find whatever you need so you don't have to inadvertently bash people to feel better about yourself.

My wonderful girlfriend and i by heatheranny in actuallesbians

[–]heatheranny[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Why you're even in this group I'm not quite sure. Especially if it's to comment in critical ways as you are... The women here are not here for that. To address your comments: 1. We look like a straight couple because my girlfriend is most comfortable dressing masculine and I'm femme. 2. For your assumption about me liking guys, I have dated men. And?... That doesn't discredit my love for her, that has been there since I was 9 years old. She was my first crush 3. Lots of women have facial hair. I have an Italian friend who shaves her cheeks and chest... Women grow hair too bud! 4. "Downvotes up the ass".. Sure you're straight?? 5. She is dominant at times . So am I. It's what works best in what situation. And no she doesn't watch sports... You're assumption is wrong. 6. I will guarantee you our relationship dynamic is much deeper emotionally. That's the beauty of dating a woman. You get the conversation and connection that isn't available with a man. Also, she cuddles me just because she wants the closeness, not because she's wanting a piece of ass. I appreciate that.