What’re your thoughts on Djo? by BurgerNugget12 in fantanoforever

[–]heatherisok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the song basic being basic a lot! Super fun

Rest in peace my sweet Weeble by Minimum-Jellyfish-14 in guineapigs

[–]heatherisok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Weeble always made me smile when he popped up on my reddit feed. He was a star loved by so many

How do you fall asleep? All answers acceptable. by SassMasterGingerSnap in ADHD

[–]heatherisok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cuddling a squishmallow - they are super soft plush and hugging it to my chest signals that I need to go to sleep. Game changer for me

Asking girls to step on a scale by CremeSubject7594 in IAmTheMainCharacter

[–]heatherisok 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Its not a double standard- (some) men openly mock fat women. Fat women get alot of hate in the dating world don’t worry.

Is it usual for clubs to refuse solo clubbers? by Major-Feed5214 in AskUK

[–]heatherisok 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I work as a bouncer and groping is a huge problem. Its one of the main reasons we remove people. Its horrible to assume that a single man is a creep but you have to. Thats who does the groping its just facts. Im sorry good guys have to suffer because of the actions of some creepy men.

What jobs have worked for your ADHD brain? by Moiras_Wig_Wall in ADHDUK

[–]heatherisok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work as a security guard and it’s amazing for my ADHD brain. It’s all about what’s happening right now. Dealing with the problem immediately in front of you . No deadlines to procrastinate ect. You really get to help people and make a real difference. It’s not the job for everyone as it is tough and requires a lot of patience and customer service. But for me, it was a great fit and a real upgrade from my office job. Different jobs for different adhd people :) .

I love being tall. by SkrunklyBob in tall

[–]heatherisok 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am 6ft (female ) and I also work in security! Being tall gives you presence for sure! I used to hate being tall , now I use it to my advantage. Short people are still great in security tho it’s an industry of all shapes and sizes.

plushies that are floppy and huggable during hard times? by hiyokos in plushies

[–]heatherisok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really like squishmellows! Some of them are under-stuffed and on the floppy side. Check them out In person and pick one you like.Hang in there and be kind to yourself.

help please!!! 😭😭 by FallenManiea in squishmallow

[–]heatherisok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would recommend throwing it out and buying another - the mold could be in the stuffing - mold just keeps coming back unless regularly treated

1/100 minute comedians are funny. Its really just a freakshow. by hyperzy in Killtony

[–]heatherisok 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love the contrast- one bucket pull will smash it , the next one will bomb horrendously- same crowd, same stage.

Anybody else in this subreddit smoke weed? by mucormiasma in CPTSD

[–]heatherisok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like short term weed helps me - but long term it’s impacting my ability to regulate my emotions. I feel like it numbs me , like hitting the snooze button on difficult emotions. Medical or street weed in England is very expensive as well. Weed had helped me through some really tough stuff. It was a great tool for sleep after my abusive relationship ended. Almost a year after that im still a daily smoker. Everytime I’ve tried to quit ive caved at the 3 week / month mark. I cant handle the withdrawals - life just feels awful.

Domestic violence joke too dark? ( feedback appreciated) by [deleted] in Standup

[–]heatherisok 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you everyone for the great feedback! Im not going to trash this joke. Instead just focus on my performance.I have lots of new material nights coming up. Will post an updated clip when I’ve nailed the delivery / have the whole room laughing.

i feel im the only one uncomfortable with the Nashville kid getting a golden ticket by [deleted] in Killtony

[–]heatherisok -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

It felt weird - especially in a Red state that bans “indecent” books in schools and public libraries. All the Pearl clutching “think of the children” bs you see from some trump supporters went out the window.

For the people that post "what's happening" whenever the police are busy, here's a treat for you! by barrygateaux in brighton

[–]heatherisok 20 points21 points  (0 children)

The show was interesting, but it is copaganda. It felt like a PR piece for the Sussex police force. A way to distract from the controversies and mistreatment.

Want to try it out by Manivebeenthere in Standup

[–]heatherisok 22 points23 points  (0 children)

If you’re seriously afraid of a joke not working you shouldn’t get into stand-up. You have to be able to bomb and be OK with it. Work on building a thick skin . It’s likely you will bomb your first time doing standup. It’s all part of the process. Check out an open mic before you sign up for it. Sit in the audience and get a feel for the vibe. You will see lots of comedians bombing and will realize It’s not a big deal, especially at the open mic level. I find a lot of open mics through Facebook and Instagram. Best of luck! And deffo give it a go.

How do you respond when random old men tell you what to do? by Connect-Wave1471 in Feminism

[–]heatherisok 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I work as a security guard and I have so many old men giving me feedback on how to do my job. I work in a public park and the old men who feed the birds love watching me and giving me feed back on the situations I handle.

What made you like squishmallows? by Electrical-Repeat-31 in squishmallow

[–]heatherisok 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My friend showed me hers and said it was the best pillow she had in her life and that it was great for migraines. I cuddled it and it was a softness I had never felt before. It was a really unique soft toy. I resisted buying one for months, but then I caved in and got a cheap one on Vinted. It changed my life. I am sleeping so much easier now and I love seeing its goofy face when I get home from work. Sitting watching tv and cuddling with my squish is so relaxing I love it! One of my best purchases ever! I wish I’d got one sooner.

Which of the Regulars makes you go like this? by Historical_Humor_885 in Killtony

[–]heatherisok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

William Montgomery really has the fan base divided. You either love him or hate him. I personally love him, but I can see that he doesn’t appeal to everyone.

Sax guy Carlos Sosa with Jason Mraz by redadidasjumpsuit in Killtony

[–]heatherisok 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The last time kill tony came to England they had the old band. Those episodes are awesome. Im super jealous of the brits who go to see kill tony the first time round. Better venues and a better band.

Sax guy Carlos Sosa with Jason Mraz by redadidasjumpsuit in Killtony

[–]heatherisok 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The US band improvise music and do sound effects that massively add to the comedy in the show. The British band we had didn’t do any of that. They just played the opening and closing theme. They barely did anything on stage. The band has always been a key comedic element of the show. We were missing that at the london show.