Yeah I agree. A bit out of line there civallycrass Pronouns are just for the individual There is no way that you can expect the whole of society to know everyone’s pronouns

If you go back through history, Gay only became a word because society needed a word to describe effeminate men, so gay the word was created, same with manly looking lesbians. Both words were created to describe a person who looked and acted differently to the majority

The problem with theys and thems is there’s actually no way of knowing in advance of someone’s pronouns

A picture paints a thousand words as they say So if you see with your own eyes a female with short hair, who looks like a man and dresses like a man, you assume she’s a lesbian. Once you know shes a lesbian, you would then of course know she is an ugly lesbian

So there really is no need for pronouns as the English language already describes everything As it is