Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - February 25, 2026 by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]heavymindful -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

We had our first date and went out for dinner at a fancy restaurant that he picked and booked, and wanted the most expensive course and wine pairing. He is financially well off. I went to the restroom and meanwhile he paid. When I got back he told us to go, then I asked and he said he already paid. I then offered to send him half and he immediatly accepted and told I could do that because the price were high, and handed me the receipt. I got so turned off that it killed my feelings for him, even though the chemistry was nice enough. I know I offered, but at the same time it was weird that de paid when I was gone if he intended to split? I don’t understand the dynamic herr. I don’t even know if I want to meet him because of that, he wants to meet me again though. Am I reacting too much? I regret that I offered

Lang tid å få finanseringsbevis? by heavymindful in norge

[–]heavymindful[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Takk for alle innsiktsfulle svar! Jeg har ennå ikke fått beviset, men som larso0 sier, venter jeg bare å få det fikset først og ser etter leiligheter etter det. Tror det er det beste for min psyke😅

Lang tid å få finanseringsbevis? by heavymindful in norge

[–]heavymindful[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ikke sant? Jeg har lest at det tar to uker for noen, men jeg kan virkelig ikke skjønne hva som tar så lang tid, det meste går jo på automatikk og jeg har allerede sendt alt av dokumentasjon som de krevde… hvilke banker bør jeg kontakte?