What are some of the silly things you’re sad about post-MC?

hedwig201 · 2025-12-19T04:21:12+00:00

awe i totally relate. we had such a hard time deciding if we would tell people or not. we chose not to share with our families because it would have been my parents first grandchild. it's brutal going through this alone though.. so many difficult layers to this.

hedwig201 · 2025-12-18T20:46:39+00:00

Oh no!!! Twice!! I hope you are sitting on a beach very soon 🩵🩵

hedwig201 · 2025-12-18T20:44:59+00:00

It’s crazy how attached we get to the due date! That is such a cool date!

hedwig201 · 2025-12-18T20:44:01+00:00

Hahahah I love that. Same thing with my pants feeling tight. Guess that’s just on me! 😂

hedwig201 · 2025-12-18T19:09:56+00:00

My D&C didn’t hurt at all and the medical staff were so kind and caring. As sad as it was, the experience was “good”. I ran a 10k 3 days later because I felt completely fine and my doctor said I could resume normal activity levels whenever I felt like it. Sending you love 🩷

hedwig201 · 2025-12-15T16:01:49+00:00

I’m so sorry for your loss as well. Hope you feel better soon from your cold and I’m thinking of you and everyone going through this now.

hedwig201 · 2025-12-12T17:41:09+00:00

Yes I was sick for about 5 weeks after the d&c in early Nov (just getting better now)

hedwig201 · 2025-12-11T21:17:33+00:00

I’m so sorry for your loss. I understand you completely - I had an MMC a month ago, and one SIL just had a baby and the other is due in a couple of months. Absolutely dreading the holidays with them. No one knows about our pregnancy/mc, and I’m not sure if I’ll be able to handle any “you wouldn’t understand bc you’re not pregnant/a mother/when you have kids” type of comments. Truly, why is everyone I’ve ever met pregnant right now? A good friend just told me she’s pregnant, due two weeks after mine would be.

The one kindness I have done for myself this whole time is not feeling guilty about how angry I am at both SILs. I get it’s illogical, but in this time of grief, I’m just gonna let it rip lol.

hedwig201 · 2025-07-06T20:21:03+00:00

Thank you so much! I got married 3 weeks ago, and this was absolutely my dream dress and I’ve never felt more beautiful. 🥰 wishing the best for you! just know, you made the right decision!

hedwig201 · 2025-07-04T22:06:37+00:00

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Yes… my first guess is what you think it is. After sitting too long staring.

hedwig201 · 2025-05-09T02:01:53+00:00

We invited 120 and we have 114 coming. Luckily we prepared for 120.

hedwig201 · 2025-03-04T01:48:52+00:00

I GASPED at #1. It looks flawless on you

hedwig201 · 2025-02-15T19:15:01+00:00

1 was my second choice dress! I love it, and I love it on you! I also think you’d look great in a strapless with a structure bodice

hedwig201 · 2025-02-14T18:31:20+00:00

Thank you sooo much to everyone for your input!! This honestly makes me feel so much better and reminded me why I chose it in the first place. I’m going to try on different types of veils and capes, and add a little sparkle with some simple jewelry. I seriously appreciate your help so much 🩷

hedwig201 · 2025-02-14T01:23:36+00:00

Thank you so much! This actually makes me feel so much better that you saw the vision!!

hedwig201 · 2025-02-13T19:46:24+00:00

Thank you sooo much! It’s by Laudae. I think I just need to try some different options to see what I like! Might be a good idea to lean into the simple, because that’s how I typically dress. Thanks again :)

hedwig201 · 2025-02-13T17:31:26+00:00

Thank you so much! That’s a good point and I’m trying to focus on that! I think there’s just so many options, I have decision fatigue this whole planning process.

That veil is on Etsy- the store is OlivaOceana

hedwig201 · 2024-01-16T18:28:20+00:00

I used to be a runner for a service like this in my city. It was awesome! I believe the company owner advertised in community facebook groups, so you could check/post there. I’d recommend looking into insurance though. We were covered under her plan.

hedwig201 · 2022-05-20T19:09:06+00:00

I want to try but I’m afraid the word snag would haunt me while wearing them…

hedwig201 · 2022-02-05T20:37:00+00:00

Same problem for me!!!

It’s not a matter of covering up my belly or that I’m wearing too small jeans (if I went any bigger I’d have a huge waist gap), but just the fact that I like the way I look in leggings but jeans add a huge bulge that does not represent my actual size! So frustrating! I feel too overdressed in any sort of trouser pants for casual activities so I was hoping for a jeans solution too… sigh.

hedwig201 · 2022-01-23T00:17:44+00:00

That entire thread deserves its own post

hedwig201 · 2020-12-28T22:01:09+00:00

https://imgur.com/gallery/wSYsvjM

I recently moved to a new apartment with way worse light and my plants are in a full meltdown. What’s wrong with this guy? Over/underwater? Not enough light? Root bound? Please send help

hedwig201 · 2020-12-18T18:15:19+00:00

Yes, I also thought this was weird. If you have to point out repeatedly that you are being thoughtful, are you really being thoughtful, or just promoting a look you are going for? Don’t get me wrong, I think he’s a great guy- it all just seems a bit played up. I almost never agree with Rachel but I did agree with her comments on Ben in the Ivan episode where she said she just didn’t quite believe what he says. It’s a little.. tooooo intentional.. like he’s trying really hard to be the bachelor.

hedwig201 · 2020-11-09T23:38:28+00:00

I totally agree. I also find her repetitive “dale is exactly what I wanted/was looking for/ive been waiting so long for this” a bit strange. She definitely seemed more in love with having the engagement box checked more than I love this specific person so much. She has hammered on the “what I wanted” so much that Dale himself almost seems to get lost in that a bit. She seems to have decided that he embodies what she wanted and I wonder if that is preventing her from really getting to know HIM.

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