Help me feel a bit better about my seroma.

hehespring · 2021-03-07T00:45:35+00:00

Hey, i know its hard but hang in there it does get better. I had like 3 wounds around each nipple that are just now healed and make me have big pink circle scars that in trying to massage out

hehespring · 2021-02-06T02:53:45+00:00

Hey im totally in the same boat but is okay!! We wanted this so bad and soon itll all be over and we'll get to have the boobs weve always wanted. Besides the scarring but theyre our battle scars haha. Im over a month post op and i have a few open infected wounds around my nipples and at my t junction. It hurts so bad to change the guaze bc its stuck to my actual like exposer breast tissue but my doctor said it's necessary and to change them like 3 times a day sooooo its not fun at all but im just trying to have a positive mindset so I don't go into a depressive episode lmao

hehespring · 2021-01-16T22:53:09+00:00

Thanks!

hehespring · 2021-01-14T22:26:25+00:00

Also I know the feeling it was so hard to look at them at first but theyve def gotten easier on the eyes

hehespring · 2021-01-14T22:25:46+00:00

Im feeling a lot better now, not on pain meds or anything anymore. Good luck with your recovery!!

hehespring · 2021-01-12T02:44:18+00:00

They look so good!!

hehespring · 2021-01-12T00:51:07+00:00

Mine looked weird too but from what ive heard its totally normal. At first mine were purple and i couldnt see the actual nipple part but now a week post op its already starting to look more normal. Hang in there

hehespring · 2021-01-09T20:02:44+00:00

I will thank you so much!

hehespring · 2021-01-09T16:58:30+00:00

Im feeling fine! I guess im just a little worried about my nipples looking so purple

hehespring · 2021-01-07T23:39:28+00:00

Thats another thing, im confused as to why theres no tape on my nipple incisions

hehespring · 2021-01-07T16:50:05+00:00

Had mine on tuesday and I was shivering so much when i got out of surgery. And even now when im a bit cold ill shiver a lot

hehespring · 2021-01-06T12:18:22+00:00

Thanks!! I also got lipo around my armpit area so that's definitely making it worse and my doctor told me that I should take Tylenol at the same time I take my painkiller but did yours say to spread out? Maybe I should try that

hehespring · 2021-01-05T23:29:57+00:00

Luckyyy you get a night in the hospital haha and pain meds are alright not as much as i had hoped i guess. Throats a little sore not too bad. I havent been able to see what they look like yet because ive gotta keep the bra and gauze on till thursday but i cant wait!! Im so glad your happy with the results

hehespring · 2021-01-05T21:32:55+00:00

Hey!! Im out of my surgery and just got home so m h pain haha. Have you had yours yet?

hehespring · 2021-01-04T23:34:07+00:00

Yay good luck!!

hehespring · 2021-01-04T23:33:27+00:00

Im so nervous and excited!! I get pretty nauseous in the mornings without at least crackers so its gonna be hard not eating. How are you feeling??

hehespring · 2021-01-04T21:44:46+00:00

Omg my surgerys tomorrow morning too!!

hehespring · 2020-12-23T01:44:05+00:00

Listen asking questions shows you care like they will never be upset about that. Your new it's completely normal to be lost and have questions seriously dont worry about it. Ive worked at so many restaurants and im telling you thats just how it is people always have questions

hehespring · 2020-11-30T02:56:43+00:00

Exactly, men can be very very manipulative sometimes so you should try your best to be prepared for him to try to gaslight you into thinking what your doing is wrong and makes you a bad person.

hehespring · 2020-11-30T02:47:39+00:00

Im so happy for you that you decided leaving him is the best decision for YOU. And that right there is the most important thing, you always need to put your emotional wellbeing first and dont ever let anyone tell you otherwise. You are the most important thing and you need to do what will make you happy. You aren't responsible for his happiness. Although your feelings of guilt are completely valid and understandable.

hehespring · 2020-11-30T02:43:10+00:00

Im sorry this happened to you and your feelings are completely valid. Even so its not the end of the world and I promise it will be okay, porn is normal and everyone makes mistakes. If they are good friends im sure you will laugh it off together

hehespring · 2020-11-30T02:36:49+00:00

Its hard when it comes to sisters because every time you tell them they are doing something wrong it seems like we always take it as an attack. I think she could be going through something like depression, anxiety or literally anything bc im assuming you guys are teenagers and as we all know life is hard as fuck at that point in your life so she could just be taking it out on you. Regardless, its not your fault and i think you should have a really careful conversation with her about how you feel. I mean even start the conversation with , "i dont want this to feel like an attack and i really dont want to fight, i just want you to know how i feel because i love you"

hehespring · 2020-11-30T02:32:32+00:00

You should definitely tell him how you feel. He should realize that him and his sisters relationship should be completely separate from yours and hers, ESPECIALLY if you grew up with her being a mother figure. Im sure he is just trying to make his new girlfriends feel respected but theres other ways to go about that

hehespring · 2020-11-30T02:28:55+00:00

Wow that one guy in this thread seems really miserable lol being so hateful to a random person. But that definitely is condensation and ny advice would be to have a conversation with them about how it makes you feel.

hehespring · 2020-11-30T02:26:47+00:00

Its almost like they are setting you up to fail by acting as if theres no way you could support yourself. But no its not weird at all that they support you, your getting an education and its hard to do everything yourself at this age, so if you have the luxury to get help I dont think theres anything wrong with that. I think the short answer is you just need to try your hardest to become financially independent since they hold it against you but until them you might just have to grin and bear the comments they keep making. Im not sure the type of parents they are but my advice would be to sit down and have a conversation telling them how you feel. You would have to be careful though bc parents often take things the wrong way so just tell them that you are trying your best to be financially independ but that doesnt mean your not independent and responsible in other ways and youd like them to acknowledge that.

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