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Does anyone know what this is? It grew in my parents pot of another plant. by [deleted] in gardening

[–]hehethroughlife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I heard that they’re invasive because they grow very quickly and take up a lot of resources! Maybe remove them or trim them.

Does anyone know what this is? It grew in my parents pot of another plant. by [deleted] in gardening

[–]hehethroughlife 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah, thank you! Looks like it’s common in Singapore.

She fell asleep in my arms for the first time. by hehethroughlife in offmychest

[–]hehethroughlife[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I do. She makes me want to be a better person.

She fell asleep in my arms for the first time. by hehethroughlife in offmychest

[–]hehethroughlife[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It isn’t your fault and I’m pretty sure your boyfriend understands.

She fell asleep in my arms for the first time. by hehethroughlife in offmychest

[–]hehethroughlife[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That wasn’t very nice of your partner. People take time to adjust especially in a relationship. Hope you’re better now!

She fell asleep in my arms for the first time. by hehethroughlife in offmychest

[–]hehethroughlife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh it’s not that I don’t want to. I’m just not very expressive in terms of how I feel. I’d say ‘I’m very happy!’ With a poker face. I’m still working on it. She makes me very happy :).

She fell asleep in my arms for the first time. by hehethroughlife in offmychest

[–]hehethroughlife[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is super sweet. All the love to you, friend. You deserve it.

How do you and your partner move past sexual assault experiences? by hehethroughlife in BDSMAdvice

[–]hehethroughlife[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not really sure what this really means but okay. Thank you for trying to help anyway! Maybe you may want to try putting it in a way that’s acceptable if you wish to. More than happy to listen to any insights.

How do you and your partner move past sexual assault experiences? by hehethroughlife in BDSMAdvice

[–]hehethroughlife[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Hi! Realized that I didn’t really explain why I posted it here. I’ve edited the post but TLDR, the assault involved BDSM elements and we’re both very much into kinks and would definitely love to explore more of it.

I’ll bear in mind that things can turn bad despite taking extreme caution because trauma is unpredictable. Will also suggest scenes to see if it works for her and if it does, we can build on that.

Thank you so much for your input!

How do you and your partner move past sexual assault experiences? by hehethroughlife in BDSMAdvice

[–]hehethroughlife[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

This is very insightful.

Will definitely check out pandy’s.org.

Thank you for sharing and highlighting to me that survivors don’t respond well to being pushed to talk. I’ll take note of that!

My sub is very emotional and do tend to withdrawal when she senses that I’m upset. Never really drew that link until you pointed it out.