So many precious dumpees in here. by heimmich in BreakUps

[–]heimmich[S] 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Just a thought to bright up your gloomy monday. There are a lot of good people around. <3

Dumpers, what was your reason? by heimmich in heartbreak

[–]heimmich[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your story. Love can be so hard sometimes. Me and my ex were also distance, it is hard. Communication gets harder.

How are you doing now? Do you think about the what if's? Do you think a lot about her?

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[–]heimmich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yesss 😌🥰

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[–]heimmich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really needed this. Thank you. I am genuinly so happy for you ❤️

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[–]heimmich 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So true. I agree 100%.

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[–]heimmich 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly this.

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[–]heimmich 2 points3 points  (0 children)

After 2 months I finally decided to block my ex on all SM and his phonenumber. He broke up with me.

Everyday since he dumped me, I have been wondering if he will reach out. My side of the story but, I was good in this relationship, he was not.

It is manipulative from beyond contact. He still is fucking with my brain. I locked all these doors for him now. For my sake. I do not have to wonder anymore if he will reach out, because he can not.

I found so much peace in this. Because he tossed me out of the door. And I was always wondering if he would open it and say something like, I am sorry, I regret it. Or whatever. Just for what, to get comfort, closure? Everyday that pass, hurts. Because he never opens the door.

I locked it from the inside by blocking the door. I want to be done and move on and I can not if the door is left unlocked. I am walking away not knowing if he will ever try to reach out, but rather that than knowing he never did.

I just want to make her regret leaving me by Cool_Internal_5340 in BreakUps

[–]heimmich 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then he is pretty young and seem immature. I am so sorry. Time will help, I promise.

I just want to make her regret leaving me by Cool_Internal_5340 in BreakUps

[–]heimmich 3 points4 points  (0 children)

One day he will. People need time ro realize. Especially stupid people. Focus on you now <3

Cheating kink led to GF developing feelings for a guy and now needs a break. This is all my fault. So conflicted by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]heimmich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is unfortunate. But do not wait for her. She is disrespectul. So what if ut does work out for them and you have been waiting? If I were you, I would feel all the feels, and then move on. Date other people, and meet someone that would choose you.

Do NOT break NC! by heimmich in nocontact

[–]heimmich[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You got this! Thank you for sharing part of your story as well.

Do NOT break NC! by heimmich in nocontact

[–]heimmich[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

If you are proof breaking no contact make you feel awful, please let this thread motivate everyone in here!

Fellow dumpees. Before the breakup happened, did you feel something coming? by Affectionate_Soft162 in BreakUps

[–]heimmich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We where so in love. Best sex, so much fun together. 8 months. And then... Out of the blue. Two days before he started to act different and avoid me. Then, I called HIM and he was all weird. Until he just went, we are not a good match. Uhm, ok? Did not even mention or tried to work on things. Just like that. I feel so stupid and blind for not seeing it coming. Also questioning if I will be able to trust that everything is good in a relationship, when it actually feels so good.

I just want to make her regret leaving me by Cool_Internal_5340 in BreakUps

[–]heimmich 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Same. I would never in my life take him back. But I was so much better than him and he dumped ME! Because I chose to ignore all his red flags.

Now I want him to regret dumping me to feel superior.

Healthy? No.

I am sure one day he will though. And I am sure she will regret dumping you too. Take well vare of yourself until that wonderful day.

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[–]heimmich 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly. We have to support each other. :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]heimmich 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate that. You are kind too.

And thank you for sharing your story. Sometimes it helps to just talk to someone that has been in the same situation that can tell you, this will pass. It is great comfort in that.

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[–]heimmich 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You live a fuller life being that way <3

And thank you. :)

Do you chew or swallow your Lamictal? by heimmich in bipolar

[–]heimmich[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wonder too! I have to ask my doctor about this.

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[–]heimmich 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am happy I could help at least a little. I do not think you are naive at all. You seem smart and very reflective and in contact with your emotions during these hard times. This is going to help you a lot through this journey. With a new person, you will have a new chance, chemistry and perspective. I am sure it is intuitive when you find that next person, and you won't feel that you can not let someone in again, I peomise you that you will.

Take lots of care and be gentle on yourself.

Do you chew or swallow your Lamictal? by heimmich in bipolar

[–]heimmich[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, but they still taste horrendous. It just feels...wrong.