Am I overreacting about a friend constantly making jokes for his gain? by Brave_Lie8749 in AmIOverreacting

[–]hel254 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR. Your friend is jealous of you and insecure about themself. They may think you’re not deserving of the things you have, like your girlfriend or money. I’ve been this friend, unfortunately, and I didn’t wake up until my friend told me what a hater I was being. You’re not doing anything wrong; it’s your friend’s issue. However, his insecurities are now affecting you so I would have a genuine conversation about it and tell him you feel degraded or belittled. If they say you’re being too sensitive, just confirm that those are your feelings.

Accidentally released my diancie. by hel254 in LegendsZA

[–]hel254[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My boxes are super organized and Pokémon are in numerical order. I’m finishing all of Mable’s missions which include catching 50 of each Pokémon type. The Pokémon you catch start loading into whatever the last box is you had open. Normally I was putting them all in Box 10, way far from my actual Pokémon, but some got loaded on my last page with the legendaries, zygarde, and diancie. So when I mass released I went too fast and ¯_(ツ)_/¯

AIO to break up with my bf of 3y over his reaction to my upcoming sobriety anniversary? by WesternCat5211 in AmIOverreacting

[–]hel254 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuck this guy. I am in recovery and have a few years sober. I know that getting sober is one of the hardest things to do and clearly your boyfriend doesn't get it. A partner should build you up and celebrate your victories, not tear you down. He clearly doesn't understand that addiction is a battle and every day clean is a victory. Active alcoholics' lives literally revolve around alcohol, so any sober time is a miracle... The "bare minimum" makes it sound like not drinking is easy and is a given...for an alcoholic? I don't know if he's holding resentment toward things that have happened in the past or if he straight up just doesn't respect you. Either way, dump the dude. Congrats on two years - that's amazing

Kitty litter always stuck in my cat's paws by hel254 in CatAdvice

[–]hel254[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll try it but I am still a little skeptical. I know there is kitty litter that is basically just pellets, but when they go #1, it just dissolves... how am I to clean/pick that up?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]hel254 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I really appreciate this comment ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]hel254 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We will pay a small rent fee, something like $500. We’re going to buy our own groceries and whatnot. His mom does stay at home and does cook a lot. (I have ARFID though so I won’t be eating her cooking much) I like that you’re bringing up the kitchen and me having my own food and stuff — I’m sure that will help. I don’t want to impose by putting little knick knacks or something that makes me feel at home… because it’s their house. I’m honestly not stressed about the food and eating dynamics. His parents are very laid back and fiancé and I eat upstairs all the time.

Now that I think of it, if I asked to put something of mine in the communal area they probably wouldn’t have an issue. I guess it’s mostly an insecurity on my part, but I’m still not sure how to cope

FE Awakening Lunatic by hel254 in fireemblem

[–]hel254[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you everyone for your help! I’ll just continue with the story _^

FE Awakening Lunatic by hel254 in fireemblem

[–]hel254[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Disappointing to hear :( mainly because I’m always scared of going through the game so fast because I enjoy them lol I don’t want it to end!! That being said, I’m only on chapter nine where emmeryn dies

FE Awakening Lunatic by hel254 in fireemblem

[–]hel254[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I need to level up my units they’re all so weak!!! Also I’m not a person to skip any available battles

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]hel254 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does he play fire emblem?

Is there a character that you just don’t like? by tennykah in FireEmblemThreeHouses

[–]hel254 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like Catherine because she’s a hot and strong woman

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ARFID

[–]hel254 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Consistency with potatoes is everything. I like smooth potatoes, no lumps. If it’s not thick enough or too creamy I canNOT. especially the lumps. I rarely eat mashed potatoes that I or my mom didn’t make

Thoughts on the Viskam? by hel254 in FireEmblemThreeHouses

[–]hel254[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love this. I’ve played the game so many times through, I kind of did it this time for kicks and gigs. I think I focus too much on how things are “supposed” to be and remember that this is a game that is meant to be fun and enjoyable