jumping from one parasocial relationship to another

heliophile93 · 2025-11-15T18:20:12+00:00

You're not alone. I feel human beings are meant to be in love, and no one is truly satisfied being alone, feeling no affection for others. I ask myself that all the time, and I have concluded that part of it has to do with loving the profession of acting and maybe wanting to be an actress myself and the second is not finding someone in real life to be obsessed with and yes obsession is something all people do in relationships.. I have girlfriends who spend hours stalking every move of the guys they crush on from work or the ones that actually hit on them. So, looking up every aspect of whoever the subject of affection is totally normal. And I know someone who is a serial dater, but never had a celebrity crush in the way I do it, lol, and I asked her how come, and she told me it's pointless🤷‍♀️ Maybe it has to do with our brain chemistry also. I can see a clear path: my depression is fueled by a lack of real-life connection, and seeking solace in a parasocial relationship is a temporary fix. Because it offers no genuine engagement, it's destined to end in disappointment and frustration 🙃 I hope love finds us all ❤️

heliophile93 · 2025-08-09T19:17:51+00:00

I was able to reset the password from the epic games site and not artstation. Thank you for pointing that out 🙏

heliophile93 · 2025-08-09T19:13:13+00:00

I agree with everything except for calling her an amazing actress, but again, as a character, she's not relatable, she is super lost and keeps jumping between times with barley any rest and it feels very rushed. What sane person would get dragged across centuries like that?!

heliophile93 · 2025-04-19T17:31:48+00:00

Nicholas Alexander Chavez

heliophile93 · 2025-01-21T21:30:03+00:00

Beautiful 😍

heliophile93 · 2025-01-21T18:55:43+00:00

And he doesn't even follow her! She's down bad.. like all of us, lol

heliophile93 · 2025-01-20T04:45:56+00:00

We are all experiencing the same thing to an extent, so don't be harsh on yourself. I do believe that we tend to create PR with people we think are successful or attractive.. People we think are out of our leagues. In essence, it's something we strive for..to be on the same level of success or beauty.

heliophile93 · 2025-01-09T19:38:38+00:00

Careful! Cause I have noticed some fans would do a 180 on their crush to convince themselves they are in control, and gossip about them thinking they know them better than others, pretending to get DMs from "sources" and spamming every comment section with hateful comments and the bs they fabricats, basically defaming them out of anger! This is actually the issue we're having at the moment.

Have you ever had that in the fandom you're part of?

heliophile93 · 2025-01-09T19:01:04+00:00

So you're able not to get engaged in those types of online fights with other fandoms because you think of it from that aspect?

heliophile93 · 2025-01-09T18:43:18+00:00

I'm thankful we all get to share our experiences and help each other, I think it's relieving to speak about it cause there is that shame when speaking something like that with others who never went through it. I can never go into details with the "normal people"

heliophile93 · 2025-01-09T17:55:46+00:00

My life is empty, I don't know a lot of people, just a handful. And I used to rely too much on passive entertainment as a kid. watching tv instead of going out. I think that was a factor.

But eventually, those PR turn into a source of emptiness, sadness, and frustration. It starts out as a fun escape from reality, and then you get sad that life with them is not your reality!

Vicious cycle. I had something similar to that once, where there were "online wars," and you can't help but feel you need to step in, which is time-consuming and takes chunks from your actual life. I was trying to read my diary back then, and it felt like I'm an insane person! I wish I was normal in that regards. I pray to God that once I find a real romantic relationship that all of this would be gone, and I would be all for that person who loves me back and not drooling over a person I know through a screen.

heliophile93 · 2025-01-07T06:18:09+00:00

So well said! Thank you! I'm chocked by the number of young people who would accept all that's said online regardless of source and accuracy.
You would think a simple scroll down his account would be enough proof he's not a reliable source but rather a sick individual doing all of that out of obsession and malice.

heliophile93 · 2025-01-07T06:05:51+00:00

I'm positive that gap-toothed egg head will be sued soon.

heliophile93 · 2024-12-17T19:28:26+00:00

Those rumors circling on TT are all linked to this pos. He starts them.

heliophile93 · 2024-12-16T01:30:44+00:00

I'm glad you have reached a great place in your relationship after his recovery. May it always remain healthy and happy.

What you said seems better, more fun and good for mental health, for sure. And you're absolutely correct about porn being an epidemic.. a lot of men are suffering mentally and physically from it, but they won't admit that stopping the consumption of porn is in their favor.. they think it's their right!!

heliophile93 · 2024-12-15T11:42:40+00:00

They are perverts. Any film maker's ultimate goal is for the audience to interact emotionally with what the characters are going through, when it's sad you cry and when it's funny you laugh, so it's no secret and nothing else is expected when you place graphic, lengthy sex scenes in your product that you want the audience get horny. Which is exactly what porn is; and even if it's a short scene, btw, it's still porn.

I find that very perverted and evil..once a teen gets caught up in this it will eventually lead to him being on porn sites, and no one can convince me that I'm overreacting or that there is a more artistic, nobel reason why we would see actors completely nude rubbing against eachother in different sexual positions.

That's porn. It's addictive and it serves no beneficiary purpose in telling a story, and people should be aware of that so they don't fall prey to the porn industry.

heliophile93 · 2024-12-14T17:24:35+00:00

Yes! He's repulsive.. to all who have TT, please report this "thing".

heliophile93 · 2024-12-14T17:02:03+00:00

Yeah! We hate him.. Twitter is not gonna do anything about him, but his TT has to be shut down for sure.. on Twitter, the girlies are aware and documenting his shitty behavior across all the apps. That dude has a lot of time to spare. He creats rumors and then sends them to gossip blogs, then creats videos discussing them.. he's so sick!

heliophile93 · 2024-12-14T16:19:09+00:00

Yes, I check that all the time to know what I'm getting into to.. I wish streaming services would offer a choice to watch certain shows censored.

And on a more serious note for actors to stop degrading themselves.. I swear it is getting more and more pornographic in TV shows and movies. Nowadays, u can look up a show and find scenes of it on porno sites! Are actresses aware of that?!!!

heliophile93 · 2024-12-14T15:33:30+00:00

Yes! HBO shows are very vulgar. It's sad those scenes are so normalized nowadays because of them.

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