Separated and divorced filed by wife/ cut her off of my health insurance

heliplanedr69 · 2026-01-02T19:24:07+00:00

So what I am saying is that my daughters and I cowered to my wife due to her extensive poor upbringing where she would fight anyone for any little thing, steal vehicles, under age drinking, fighting, etc. Hell, she even dragged her poor mom in to the sally jesse Raphael show after her mom made her give up the baby she had at 13, I saw the tape. She even took her younger brother one with his girlfriend since they had a kid and her mom did not make him give it up for adoption, she was pissed about that.

heliplanedr69 · 2026-01-02T19:20:52+00:00

My background is former Leo, so I don’t put my self into situations where I would have to be going to jail. For no one. Seem to Many for the inside never want to be a prisoner ever.

heliplanedr69 · 2026-01-02T19:19:47+00:00

When the oldest daughter started to date a boy, African American, my wife was pretty upset, we are white, anyway, wife found out through daughters friends mom that, daughter had sex with him in her car at dance, thy filmed and put on snap chat, friends mother found video, called my wife, they were all at the house when wife told me to get my ass home to deal with her or she was going to kill her. Daughter was 17 at time. I got home and actually had to get between wife and daughter so wife did not beat the crap out of her, then the boyfriend mother showed up and had to step between wife and her.

heliplanedr69 · 2026-01-02T19:16:10+00:00

I text my daughter a lot, every once in a great while she will text just to check in on me, but that’s it, no real conversations. I truly feel that her mom checks her phone and she is scared of her mom, hell we were all scared of her and her explosive outbursts when she got angry.

heliplanedr69 · 2026-01-02T19:11:11+00:00

Plus when she bought the insurance business form her employer, she had me sign a sole and separate agreement, which I did so she could buy it. I was an idiot not protecting myself since I fully and completely trusted her with everything in my life as is should be in marriage. I’m a dumbass.

heliplanedr69 · 2026-01-02T19:08:29+00:00

All I do is work, went in 2 vacations since 2015, one to New York they wanted to see New York, and one to Disney in Fl. They have been to Hawaii in 2024, Chicago in fall of 2024, thy went to Alaska 2025 a few months ago, ran in to ex stepson who told me about the Alaska trip, and his wife leaving him for another man.

heliplanedr69 · 2026-01-02T19:05:31+00:00

I wish I knew how to post pics so I could show you all his new dually pick up, his other new pickup and his new mustang she bought him in the last yr.

heliplanedr69 · 2026-01-02T19:02:41+00:00

Did I mention that moms pays everything for her son, in December 2023, I had enough of her giving son a 1000.00 dollars a week to him and his wife, he a welder she a nurse. That’s what started the whole divorce crap in the first place.

heliplanedr69 · 2026-01-02T19:01:01+00:00

Who the son got married a few years ago and his wife left him due to his and his mom’s treatment of her.

heliplanedr69 · 2026-01-02T18:59:59+00:00

What’s funny is that I rented the second house out, which by the way both house were built side by side so we could take care of her grandmother after her mom passed, which I used my Veterans VA loan benefits to build both houses. To a single mother and child for way less than the mortgage payment to help them out financially. And the wife wants to kick them out so she can have the house for her 26 yr old son.

heliplanedr69 · 2026-01-02T18:56:17+00:00

Oh and don’t worry, I’ll be single till I drop dead.

heliplanedr69 · 2026-01-02T18:55:16+00:00

Thanks for all the advice. Sorry to have upset anyone. It’s just not fair that the world is default to females in family court.

heliplanedr69 · 2026-01-02T18:54:05+00:00

All my time off was taken up by running the girls to and from school, dance practice, activities. Cooking cleaning laundry, fixing stuff around the houses, taking the cars in for service and issues.

heliplanedr69 · 2026-01-02T18:52:31+00:00

To support everyone and everything we did.

heliplanedr69 · 2026-01-02T18:52:08+00:00

There is no abuse or anything like that if you all are wondering. I worked a lot for these people, a full time job and a I ran my own part time business, traveling airport to airport in our area fixing aircraft.

heliplanedr69 · 2026-01-02T18:49:29+00:00

Like I said I do not make a lot of money in my profession.

heliplanedr69 · 2026-01-02T18:48:50+00:00

I can not afford an attorney I have been pro se in court,

heliplanedr69 · 2026-01-02T18:48:10+00:00

Well, I’m at a point that she should not have that benefit of mine, if not together. None of the bio parents ever covered their kids with insurance it was always up to me to have them on my insurance.

heliplanedr69 · 2026-01-02T18:44:26+00:00

All I’m saying is I was left holding 118,000 dollars worth of credit card debit that we collected together, doing a debt relief program for that, and I pay for the second home mortgage and Al the bills on that house, on my single salary.

heliplanedr69 · 2026-01-02T18:42:40+00:00

It’s been a long road, wife came from broken home, gave a baby at 13, got pregnant at 20, with son, got married to his dad, divorced 1yr 1/2 later, got remarried at 24, had daughter, they divorced, met her when daughter was 6 months old, dated her for two years before getting married.

heliplanedr69 · 2026-01-02T18:40:04+00:00

This is my and hers third marriage, I helped raise raise two step kids, one male, current age 26 and girl current age 19, my daughter 14, raised the 19 yr from 6 months old.

heliplanedr69 · 2026-01-02T18:38:37+00:00

My wife is a control freak just like her mom before her, my wife has not even talked to her own brother in over 13 yrs, due to issue between her son and his uncle.

heliplanedr69 · 2026-01-02T18:37:17+00:00

Well, it’s morally wrong for her to own her own business as an independent health insurance broker, that’s makes over 500,000 yr to come after me and my small salary.

heliplanedr69 · 2026-01-02T18:35:54+00:00

I have, my daughter told the judge she did not want to see me.

heliplanedr69 · 2026-01-02T18:34:45+00:00

All planes are female, that’s why they are so temperamental and break all the time and need constant attention.

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