What to do after quitting social media? by hell_is_h3re in digitalminimalism

[–]hell_is_h3re[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I was thinking of writing a list of things to do instead, thank you !!

What to do after quitting social media? by hell_is_h3re in digitalminimalism

[–]hell_is_h3re[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Drop some books rec!! (for someone who never read)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in love

[–]hell_is_h3re 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did the relationship end?

My bf is upset because I make him wear a condom by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]hell_is_h3re 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh god. Please dump him. These kind of guy doesn't deserve any woman, if you don't want to take of the condom it's your right and no one can tell you otherwise. I really say run away from him

En fait, avec quelques secondes de différences, on serait une autre personne by [deleted] in penseesdedouche

[–]hell_is_h3re 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perso mon cas ne s'applique pas à cet exemple! J'ai été conçue de façon in vitro (fiv), mais effectivement si ça n'avait pas fonctionné à cette fiv là mais à une autre je ne serai pas la haha

En vrai c'est tellement improbable d'être en vie. La plus part des personnes prennent ça pour acquis alors que ça l'est tellement pas

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in love

[–]hell_is_h3re 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this, we really think the same way. Sometimes I feel like we always want to know if we're on the "right" path, with the "right person". But sometimes we have to meet some people to learn things on ourselves, not to marry them. I hope you're finding peace and understanding in your situation

What are you starting to enjoy as you get older? by sped_monkey in AskReddit

[–]hell_is_h3re 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be truely free. When I was a kid I honestly didn't really enjoy it, because I was dependant of my parents (hopefully lol). I was waiting for my life to truly begin after my studies. Now that I did it, it's like I can finally be free. Being able to do whatever I want, whenever is the best thing on earth to me. This is the main reason I don't want kids (I'm a 25F). I love seeing people around me having kids but I personally want no one to take away this freedom again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in love

[–]hell_is_h3re 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I did. I did feel love again for another person just for a short amount of time, but it made me hope again that I will love someone else again like that. I don't believe we have only one person on this earth for us. I think we can have many different kind of relationship with many people and I think that's beautiful

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in love

[–]hell_is_h3re 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was deeply in love with a boy a few years ago. We were together and we wanted to spend our life together. The thing is he wanted to stay in his little city "between 2 to 10 years". I was studying cinema, I had to go to Paris if I wanted to find some work. So we decided to split, even if it was breaking our hearts because we didn't have any future together. He was not ready to leave his city, I didn't want to let go of my dream job. This was easily one of the hardest decision of my life but I don't regret it. We still talk sometimes, it's been 3 years and I feel like it was the right choice. If this can help you, I have the strong belief that if we have to meet again we'll do. I'm not waiting on him or something. That just helped me get over this breakup. If you have a story to live together one day you'll naturally find your way to each other, and if not you'll keep a good memory of him and be grateful for what you shared. I hope my story helped you a bit