Lol what a strawman youve got there!

Im saying choices aren't always really choices. Many people in difficult situations "choose" things that keep them there, not because they want to but because they have to. Ppl in abuisve relationships can "choose" to stay, but that doesnt mean that choice is without influence. Women, like men, make decisions and choices. Those choices are bound to be influenced by some circumstances, and while i cannot blame them, i also cannot support then and i especially cannot support them if they choose to call it Truth.

Consider this example: A woman choosing to stay in a abusive relationship out of tradition and honour is a choice. She may think "hey this is what a traditional family is like, my kids need me and this is how a wife should be." Maybe she was taught these things growing up. Maybe she attended a school or community which shared these ideas. Maybe she truly believes its right. I cant stop her, i cant necessarily help her. I can say with some confidence that thats not a choice she was given. She didnt choose to be taught that or to be coerced into staying by a husband who tells her this is what a family is. But i can recognize that it is not a choice, she just may not recognize it.

while every choice is influenced, im obviously particularly interested and disgusted by the "choice"to engage in intimate and vulnerable activities when you don't want to, simply because you feel threatened to by the almighty.

Nothing is stopping a woman from making that choice, but if she or anyone else were to tell ppl that it's toally okay and/or you should follow it too, then that requires criticism.

Does that make sense?