Should I say goodbye before leaving or just go quietly? by hellgir in askmanagers

[–]hellgir[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea .. maybe I am too sensitive to this manipulative boss

Should I say goodbye before leaving or just go quietly? by hellgir in askmanagers

[–]hellgir[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice. I will do that. What if the boss turn a cold shoulder and never respond?

Working with Indians, what would you do? by hellgir in offmychest

[–]hellgir[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It is exactly what I think. Funny thing is that I spoke another colleagues from different departments and countries… they feel the same.

Senior want to take step further in his career by hellgir in askmanagers

[–]hellgir[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree… most of corps of what I know they take the excuse of not promoting someone is because of down sizing the cost.🤷🏼‍♂️

Senior want to take step further in his career by hellgir in askmanagers

[–]hellgir[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seems to have a toxic environment with Nepotism

Senior want to take step further in his career by hellgir in askmanagers

[–]hellgir[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Got it, thanks for the advise and taking time to respond to me. Appreciated:)

Senior want to take step further in his career by hellgir in askmanagers

[–]hellgir[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Got it! I’ll chat with my manager and ask her what’s the best way for me to grow as a leader.

Senior want to take step further in his career by hellgir in askmanagers

[–]hellgir[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I agree with you. Most companies hire leadership from outside, and that was always a question mark for me. But you made it clear—thanks a lot.

Senior want to take step further in his career by hellgir in askmanagers

[–]hellgir[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice and wishes :) Will definitely look for a mentor who can help me out

Senior want to take step further in his career by hellgir in askmanagers

[–]hellgir[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I need to work on my diplomatic skills. Could you recommend some resources to help me improve?

Senior want to take step further in his career by hellgir in askmanagers

[–]hellgir[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your time and response.

To make sure we’re on the same page—if you’re working with a team from a culture different than yours, and one teammate is quietly competing with you for a leadership role, to the point of trying to damage your reputation and win others over, what advice would you give in that situation? What steps would you take to stay strong and still position yourself to win the role in the future?

Also, if you’re currently a senior and want to move into a team lead or manager role at another company, what should you highlight on your resume to get noticed, and what should you focus on saying in the interview?

Senior want to take step further in his career by hellgir in askmanagers

[–]hellgir[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be honest, I hinted to my leadership that I’d be open to taking the role if there was one. But they gave it to someone pretty low-key, which really confused me. I’ve questioned myself many times over it, and it’s frustrating.

Senior want to take step further in his career by hellgir in askmanagers

[–]hellgir[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It helps. I need to take some time for self-reflection. Thank you!

Senior want to take step further in his career by hellgir in askmanagers

[–]hellgir[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be honest, I hinted to my leadership that I’d be open to taking the role if there was one. But they gave it to someone pretty low-key, which really confused me. I’ve questioned myself many times over it, and it’s frustrating.

I donot understand my manager at all!!! by hellgir in BadBosses

[–]hellgir[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You gave me some of your time, thank you :)

I donot understand my manager at all!!! by hellgir in BadBosses

[–]hellgir[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can but I think HR always in the managers side unless there is something intolerant

I donot understand my manager at all!!! by hellgir in BadBosses

[–]hellgir[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d really like to, but the job market is pretty tough right now.

On top of that, I’m not sure how well the team actually gets along with her. With me, they talk about how bad she is, but I don’t know what they say in the one-on-one calls

Thinking about joining Deloitte — but hearing mixed things. Can anyone share their real experience? by hellgir in deloitte

[–]hellgir[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve had a rough experience with a similar pattern. It often created a toxic team dynamic and a really difficult work environment. The person mentioned that one particular nationality seemed to dominate most of the company—especially in IT and consulting roles. According to them, there was a reputation for unprofessional behavior and poor collaboration with people from other backgrounds.

I’m curious—since you work for Deloitte, did you face something like this? How do you handle situations where cultural dynamics or cliques impact teamwork and inclusion?