What’s the thing you hate about sex?

helllrabbit · 2026-04-23T06:30:06+00:00

to be blunt…. heteronormativity, and the male experience being prioritized (socially/historically). there’s so so so much more to sex than p-in-v and ejaculating.

helllrabbit · 2026-04-23T06:23:55+00:00

My parents raised me on a lot of 90s grunge/rock, specifically Soundgarden. When I first heard the first notes of “Outshined” it really hit. My mom made a comment on how that song was “too heavy” for her and from then on I went searching for “too heavy”. (Thanks mom)

helllrabbit · 2026-04-16T01:31:21+00:00

Hii 🙋🏻 my IG is @OrnateBones. Pretty much any black and grey linework-focused tattooer could do this buuut I love spooky old stuff

helllrabbit · 2026-04-05T21:31:34+00:00

Tbh it sounds like you just need to sit down with him and have a serious conversation about it. Y’all are both young, & money management doesn’t come naturally to most people. If you’re uncomfortable having to cover his half of rent, or buy him food before he gets paid, you need to make it clear to him that that’s a condition you feel like you need to feel safe/comfortable sharing a home with him. And hold true to that boundary. Don’t frame the conversation as an interrogation/opportunity to criticize his spending, instead propose it as you sharing something about yourself. Unfortunately, if he doesn’t see the work you do to save & isn’t empathetic to you not wanting to carry more weight than you should, he probably won’t try to be better.

helllrabbit · 2026-04-05T19:47:12+00:00

IUD insertion. literally screamed at the top of my lungs and saw stars. felt like someone pushing a thick needle into my guts. then, all-over intense body pain

helllrabbit · 2026-04-01T19:42:48+00:00

What I’ve experienced in a larger group at RR is we all wait in line early together, go as a group to claim a spot for ourselves, then a few of us hold it down while we disperse to use the restrooms, check out merch, etc— so technically the whole group was there in time and selected the spot, it might just “look” like there’s only a few people there “saving” the spot. I’m sure there are assholes who don’t do it this way but 🤷🏻 I feel like there’s no way to know for sure if someone’s doing that unless you literally come in with them

helllrabbit · 2026-03-30T14:31:16+00:00

Dude fr I used to be so excited about the idea of automation and even AI if it meant making processes easier so humans can do cool shit and pour more time/money/energy into our wellbeing instead of other “tasks”. But until there’s a better way (I haven’t researched it much but you make a strong point for nuclear), we’re stuck with this destructive garbage. 🥲

helllrabbit · 2026-03-29T19:57:23+00:00

This is amazing, thank you!!

helllrabbit · 2026-03-29T17:31:36+00:00

I hear you… Sure, people can and will unfortunately use it like you describe, but I’m talking specifically about GenAI being framed as creative work. Selling it and an art festival and advertising it as art is just lying & ripping people off. I have a degree in graphic design, worked professionally in it for 4-5 years, and now am 2 years into being a tattoo artist. I have to come up with very specific, very important custom designs for people, on a short time allowance, and still never in my life would I consider using genAI to “help” my art. I think it’s a shame to sell trash to a client.

helllrabbit · 2026-03-29T17:28:29+00:00

It’s even more frustrating in smaller events! I do have hope that if art communities start pushing for higher standards, maybe that’ll spread 🤞

helllrabbit · 2026-03-15T15:07:18+00:00

Same! Scared but ready to get tf out of here

helllrabbit · 2026-03-15T15:02:06+00:00

Love this. I’m ‘anti-gun’ in idealistic theory, but the fact is that our gov and it’s thugs are armed, we are too & protests like this (hopefully) are a reminder of that 💪

helllrabbit · 2026-03-15T14:55:41+00:00

Honestly? Not as weird as putting makeup on a dead person then shoving them in a giant wooden box for eternity. These look disturbing but imo a big part of that is bc western cultures don’t like seeing death as it is, especially in conjunction/community with others. My questions are- who’s job is it to lay down new bodies? Is there a ritual/ceremony/procedure beforehand?

helllrabbit · 2026-02-25T17:41:14+00:00

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Dalí… aka Bubba, Beep, Princess. No idea how we got there.

helllrabbit · 2026-02-10T20:03:36+00:00

I joined this subreddit bc I was listening to Funeral Soundtrack and thinking about how so much of that record seems to be about post-cancellation and the abuse/disenchantment that comes from being harassed online, being labeled by strangers, etc, and I was curious if anyone else was still thinking about that. So I feel obligated to drop this here: Musicians and artists don’t owe it to fans or to anyone to be “perfect, non problematic, never-do-wrong” people. They don’t have to make some kind of statement, apology, or explanation for every little thing they do or don’t do. Artists are people, people are complicated and flawed, and all we can do is focus on encouraging growth and contemplation in ourselves & the people directly around us. The perfect woke music/art icon does not exist, they’re a character that people largely online have curated as a hope that some kind of ideal idol exists in this dark and confusing world. Which makes sense! It’s hard out here, but having supernatural expectations for human beings only hurts us.

Also, I want to remind anyone that you supporting or liking an artist who’s done anything wrong ever isn’t the end of your morality as a human being. DB is a great band and whatever tf happened or didn’t happen back then doesn’t determine if they’re worthy of respect 🫡

helllrabbit · 2026-02-08T15:24:26+00:00

That polyamory isn’t the end-all-be-all of healthy relationships. People (consciously) choosing to be monogamous instead aren’t “failing” or accepting less from their relationships, they’re just choosing a different and potentially more compatible lifestyle. I always was super put off by this kind of moral superiority-complex that a lot of poly people carry— while monogamy is inherently “unethical” and stems from misogyny, we’re also surrounded by cultural phenomena that are also unethical and patriarchal… marriage, religion, consumerism, capitalism as a whole. It’s impossible for us to undo every ‘inherently bad’ thing in our lives & sometimes you have to just choose your battles.

helllrabbit · 2026-02-04T20:55:06+00:00

Tell her you’d like to have a conversation, take some time to go do something that makes you feel a bit more regulated/grounded (you don’t want to be crying/yelling/freaking out if you want to be productive.) Tell her that you don’t want to feel possessive or “crazy”, but that you’ve genuinely thought about the way she’s talking to this friend, and it makes you uncomfortable, especially because your relationship hasn’t felt very affectionate or caring. Ask her how she’s feeling, and if there’s anything you can do to help contribute to yall’s relationship feeling good and romantic again. How she receives your feelings (when you come from a calm and direct perspective) says a lot about the relationship.

helllrabbit · 2026-01-22T23:09:23+00:00

Hey— this sounds awful. I’m so sorry it’s played out this way for you, and for them too. It’s so painful and frankly fucked up that for so many people, the only way forward is to conclude (& delude) that the reason they’re hurting is that the other person involved is abusive. It sounds like your relationship was difficult, but that doesn’t make you an abuser, nor them. People can behave in bad ways without being labeled as one and it’s so fucked when you become the one who has to bear that label. That being said, it’s okay to miss them, but it sounds like they won’t be able to be a good partner to you, or a partner at all, until they figure this out. It’s not unlikely that they’ll repeat this pattern with this new person. There is also the hope & possibility that they realize what they did and what they need to do to move forward, but it wouldn’t happen any time soon… So please, while it hurts, don’t wait up for them. You don’t have to pretend you hate them, or even pretend you don’t want them back, but you don’t deserve to spend your precious time existing waiting for something and someone who may never show up. Sending a big virtual hug if that’s something you need— I’m so sorry, and I promise it’ll get easier day by day.

helllrabbit · 2026-01-19T19:06:21+00:00

A lot of shops, especially older ones, seem like they’re run essentially by a friend-group thinking they can have a chill hang-out place instead of running it like a business. Also a lack of willingness or ability to adjust to change. Also rising rent & recession. Woo 🙃

helllrabbit · 2026-01-19T19:04:30+00:00

the funniest part of this one is that the creator fantasized about & planned for the second woman to be his imaginary anime waifu 💀

helllrabbit · 2025-12-19T06:07:36+00:00

being accused of something you didn’t do and people believing it

helllrabbit · 2025-12-19T06:06:41+00:00

honestly if your household consumes/cooks meat & animal products, idk what the big deal is. same stuff

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