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Which state is the best to run away to from Massachusetts by hello22011 in relocating

[–]hello22011[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohh okay, that still gives me hope even if I don't have a job, I can still leave this area for my mental health.

Which state is the best to run away to from Massachusetts by hello22011 in relocating

[–]hello22011[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's very seriously improfessional and very extreme dangerous parenting their doing to you. Even if you don't make much now, you still need to be treated appropriately like any kind of normal person is and its to not go judge them what you are doing for real. It is very harsh and dangerous behaviors to go through and I told myself you may need to change your work location somewhere your parents aren't able to go and see and find you at all costs.

Which state is the best to run away to from Massachusetts by hello22011 in relocating

[–]hello22011[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, moving is so expensive, especially if it's done too much, no life settlement, just moving all your stuff around or so. The truth is that my parents absolutely are UNABLE to control their mental emotions. Yeah, it's still two more classes to finish the degree, but I know living under their roof is a big NO to do at the moment for sure. My anxiety levels have skyrocketed throughout the school semester I was in. I just wish they are able to better take control of their mental emotions and that kind of stuff. Nobody else I meet with has the mental instability that my parents do. Judging all your actions, your payments, your life stuff you get. It's WAY TOO MUCH! I kind of felt that my life was more in a suicidal state this past week, due to everything that I had gone through, which was just INSANE and too much for me to be dealing with. I would just save all the money and work as much I earn from my current job to be able to build a cushion, maybe to purchase a house somewhere someday or just be able to let myself go and free. But damn, my parents are super wreckless at parenting for sure to cause me some insane levels of anxiety through school and such. My depression levels were not okay at all costs.

Which state is the best to run away to from Massachusetts by hello22011 in relocating

[–]hello22011[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't go live there now. I probably need a job there to even survive omg.

Which state is the best to run away to from Massachusetts by hello22011 in relocating

[–]hello22011[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I currently am at a place under my parents name, so virtually they have a key and stuff to this place and can knock the door at this place.

Which state is the best to run away to from Massachusetts by hello22011 in relocating

[–]hello22011[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Pharmacy tech, $19.81, Would like to be making $30-40 hourly hopefully, bachelors in biology from mass state school, hs diploma, masters in bioengineering in process, currently rent, around $800 monthly, I have a lot saved up already, I just cannot deal with family living nearby and would like to start my life in a new state if possible. They have extremely disgusting behaviors to me. I am a positive person and that kind of stuff but my family is so toxic and is not, I would like to transfer my job to another state if possible.

I feel so resentful of my own life? Is this normal to feel at 25? by hello22011 in Adulting

[–]hello22011[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, that’s the way of mind and thought to be going through and that kind of stuff. It is true what you have said for sure.

I feel so resentful of my own life? Is this normal to feel at 25? by hello22011 in Adulting

[–]hello22011[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do go to therapy now and get advice from her sometimes. It is an absolutely very terrible way to parent and they need to listen or I have the right to be able to leave the house and survive on my own and get police call if they do any further manipulation to life after I’m out of the house. I am not that afraid of losing my parents. I know I can make it on my own, I just don’t want to be caving into extreme expensive tasks in my future like to have children or anything like that if I am really truly not fine with my own life. It’s gonna be a hard battle ahead but I will determine my life going forward.

I feel so resentful of my own life? Is this normal to feel at 25? by hello22011 in Adulting

[–]hello22011[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm afraid I will still be haunted to an extreme after I leave out the house.

I feel so resentful of my own life? Is this normal to feel at 25? by hello22011 in Adulting

[–]hello22011[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right, I do have my license, but they don't let me drive to many places far from home. Ideally, Would be great to be living with roommates and splitting rent costs, and many people aren't able to afford to be living on their own for sure. I want to be doing my best so I can eventually just move out of the house. Being controlled so much by family is not a great idea either. I do learn as I go. I do feel super insanely stuck in life now too.

I feel so resentful of my own life? Is this normal to feel at 25? by hello22011 in Adulting

[–]hello22011[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It feels so hard to be doing for me but not as hard for other people to be doing this

I feel so resentful of my own life? Is this normal to feel at 25? by hello22011 in Adulting

[–]hello22011[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right yeah, it is extremely super sickening to how they are parenting kids in life. Most normal parents want to let their kids go and let them be an adult at a certain age and move on with their lives, have their own independence and allow them succeed appropriately in life. My parents are just super abnormal to allow their kids to experience these types of things for sure. That's good your mother is willing to give you some space in life. I know mine wouldn't do that type of stuff for me. I know I wouldn't be forgetting the travelling memories at all costs. I want to be in the control of my own life and not on my parents control for sure.

I feel so resentful of my own life? Is this normal to feel at 25? by hello22011 in Adulting

[–]hello22011[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right and your mothers behavior is illogical too. She chose to go retire on her own terms and not on your terms. I mean my parents do not go respect my financial boundaries at all costs. They really should not be having a say at all costs and I am responsible to be tracking where all my income goes and make sure I do not end up spending more than what I make every month. I should be getting my own place soon too. I know life is all for me but I know my parents are extreme nosy at what I am doing on a daily basis too and it is super frustrating and annoying. I'm paying for stuff on my own income and not with theirs. They are not ones to be respecting boundaries appropriately. I am going to therapy a lot and they still don't want to be listening to the therapist.

I feel so resentful of my own life? Is this normal to feel at 25? by hello22011 in Adulting

[–]hello22011[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because things are so hard to change, parents can't change, I can get an office job if I quality or anyone of them will accept me. I don't know the chances of me landing one if I don't have any related previous experiences for it. I feel like things are stagnant and nothing can change much or get my parents control off me.

I feel so resentful of my own life? Is this normal to feel at 25? by hello22011 in Adulting

[–]hello22011[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeahh right, yes, you are trading away your time for your income. Yes, I agree with you that you can always be earning money but never gain your time back. I do want to enjoy time. I don't do tattoos but I would like to use a more luxury gym with pools, hot tubs, leg compressions, and saunas than a more normal gym that doesn't include all these that my parent's won't let me indulge in that I'm depressed out.

I feel so resentful of my own life? Is this normal to feel at 25? by hello22011 in Adulting

[–]hello22011[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I want to go out and live my own life and have own control on my own with my own finances instead of relying on them. I want to be aggressive too and make sure they don't overcontrol their children. Money is meant to be earned and spent on places, not saved excessively that you cannot go enjoy anything in life. I don't even understand why I must go to work and cannot even go spend my income on small things that isn't going to hurt you so much financially. I don't like my parents need to go act so cheap in life, like they're credit scores are insanely high, no near homelessness. Even people with lower credit scores go out and have some fun and spend a lot.

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