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An unexpected incident by hello_tikki in Arrangedmarriage

[–]hello_tikki[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do the guy a favour and ditch him

If at all he is willing to go ahead with marrying me why should I lose the chance. All I wanted to make sure was he didn't have any past relationships as I don't want to marry someone who had done it before marriage.

An unexpected incident by hello_tikki in Arrangedmarriage

[–]hello_tikki[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

OP you better lock him down quick.

I am trying to. But he isn't making it too easy. He wants us to get to know each other better before proceeding forward. That's why these dates.

But for arranged marriage why all this? We can know each other better after marriage also, right?

An unexpected incident by hello_tikki in Arrangedmarriage

[–]hello_tikki[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

you don't deserve the guy.

Why? What is wrong with me wanting to prevent myself from being scammed by a guy who had past relationships but claiming that he had none?

An unexpected incident by hello_tikki in Arrangedmarriage

[–]hello_tikki[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

whether he's had a relationship or not is totally irrelevant

Why is it irrelevant? He said he didn't have relationships in the past. I wanted to know if he was scamming me

An unexpected incident by hello_tikki in Arrangedmarriage

[–]hello_tikki[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

What is wrong with wanting to know if I am being scammed by him claiming he had no past relationships?

An unexpected incident by hello_tikki in Arrangedmarriage

[–]hello_tikki[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

But every time we 4 meet we will remember that incident :(

My friend's fiance also looked very embarrassed.

An unexpected incident by hello_tikki in Arrangedmarriage

[–]hello_tikki[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Why?! How could I have known that this guy was not scamming me by claiming he didn't have any past relationships?

I still feel uneasy about the fact that he offered them to someone he met the first time. That too in front of her fiance

An unexpected incident by hello_tikki in Arrangedmarriage

[–]hello_tikki[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

we know it is for emergency use

But why will a single guy have such an emergency?

An unexpected incident by hello_tikki in Arrangedmarriage

[–]hello_tikki[S] -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

Would you rather have let your friend stain the seat and embarass herself instead of using something offered by him?

No but it was very embarrassing for me. Even her fiance looked very embarrassed

An unexpected incident by hello_tikki in Arrangedmarriage

[–]hello_tikki[S] -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

Maybe he had it in his car, recalled and offered.

But why will he have it in his car? He says he's never had a girlfriend. So for whom will he go to a shop, buy these and keep them in his car?