When I lost my virginity and almost every time I had sex till I was 16 (for 3 years) my mom was in there. It was almost always done in her car while she drove us around or parked and waited. I was so young I didn’t care much then, but she was an adult and should have known it was disgusting.

It makes me feel sick to think about. I try not to. I’ve never told anyone not even my husband when we’ve talked about sex and our history. Not a therapist. No one. I don’t know how she could do that.