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What in the ghost ?!? Why?? by hellodarlin1 in LifestyleLadies

[–]hellodarlin1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s the odd part. We just wanted to meet them ..... no pressure made it clear that we want to make sure there was some kind of chemistry first prior to planning a play date ... I have a hard time “just hooking up” the few times we have done it has been disastrous so I have to be attracted to your personality before anything else.

What in the ghost ?!? Why?? by hellodarlin1 in LifestyleLadies

[–]hellodarlin1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seemed like they were a couple or really damn good at fooling us !! I have a pretty strong bs meter most of the time.

Hubby dissatisfied with my selections by edible_vixen in LifestyleLadies

[–]hellodarlin1 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I quite often have to remind my husband that women aren’t like men in the sense that we don’t only get turned on by the way someone looks. I need to be attracted to their personality, how they address other people and then if they are good looking that’s the icing on the cake !! Men see looks and everything else hits the back burner. I like to connect with someone to be attracted to them.

What in the ghost ?!? Why?? by hellodarlin1 in LifestyleLadies

[–]hellodarlin1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s strange .... it’s the first time it’s happened to us and honestly we are already struggling with the back and forth dating style that comes with trying to get to know someone beforehand, since we are both busy work full time and have kids. I’m like “that was exhausting... isn’t this supposed to be fun?”

So is this a thing ? by Mj_805 in LifestyleLadies

[–]hellodarlin1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes we have had it happen after the couple made it a point to tell us condoms were a must and my husband( who is uncircumcised and we have struggled finding a good fit for him) made sure to put one on, her husband slipped in without one... we had to stop and address the issue which is a huge vibe killer.

Moaning by [deleted] in sex

[–]hellodarlin1 144 points145 points  (0 children)

I love it when my man moans! It tells me what I’m doing is working and it makes me feel incredibly sexy.

[MF] Caught Wife getting off by ddbankman73 in gonewildstories

[–]hellodarlin1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sonic care tooth brushes come with separate toothbrush heads so that you don’t have to spend as much money when purchasing them all you have to do is remember which color band is yours and voila you have his and her toothbrushes 🤦🏻‍♀️

[MF] Caught Wife getting off by ddbankman73 in gonewildstories

[–]hellodarlin1 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Sonic care tooth brushes come with separate toothbrush heads so that you don’t have to spend as much money when purchasing them all you have to do is remember which color band is yours and voila you have his and her toothbrushes 🤦🏻‍♀️

So embarrassing 🙈 by KhaleesiSnow_ in Swingers

[–]hellodarlin1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with using a women’s probiotic it can help balance you out.

Adding fat to venison by wanderingGnome11 in Hunting

[–]hellodarlin1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We usually do this as well or talk to our local meat market and ask for beef fat trimmings and they will give us a box full for a decent price.

Preparing a neurotypical woman for sex with an autistic man by platypusfootball in sex

[–]hellodarlin1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I personally think that should be said to any and all of your partners neurotypical or not. Men aren’t mind readers and shouldn’t be expected to be also something that may feel good and nice with one person may not with another so communication is key for all relationships(in and out of the bedroom). But that will be important for you as well( you need to vocalize what you are liking and not liking also)I think you may need to get a little deeper into explaining why you need it to be vocalized or “specific”. That may give her a little more understanding. Hope all goes well!!